Ebay frustrates me and I'm impatient. I bought a Genesis 1 from someone on ebay on Friday, 1 day "handling" and priority mail expedited shipping and it hasn't shipped yet. So i sent them an email just asking why it hasn't shipped yet.
I don't know why I get so impatient, to me it's more about your word, I paid for a product and you're not meeting expectations, don't set the expectations then - I don't give negatives on ebay, but I do send slightly rude emails and no feedback at all.
What I found out was, that seemingly many sellers on ebay don't know, is on holidays, packages do move. They just don't deliver. e.g. on MLK we didn't get mail, but a package I dropped off at the self service station moved states. Many sellers used MLK day as an excuse to not ship saying the USPS doesn't delivery on Sunday or on holidays, but they absolutely move packages via their shipping companies.
It is frustrating to me to buy from a highly rated seller whose handling time is nowhere near Amazon's - amazon has spoiled us. But I do try to get my packages out the same day as payment.
Another dude was supposed to ship me some SNES manuals, and he didn't/forgot after a week, no big deal who cares about manuals - but he apologized profusely for the long handling delay, but then shipped them out first class. Lol if he cared that much he would have sent them priority! I told him that. I think some of my jokes don't get communicated well online, but it was a half joke and half poke.