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NarcissisticJay
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Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this. 
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
Souldriver
Member
Do it.Cosmic Bus said:Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
You'll regret it if you don't. If it ends up being an embarrassing experience, so be it. You at least have tried. Also: if you guys really get along together, it doesn't have to be too embarrassing or wrong. Lots of laughs and understanding from both sides perhaps. It can also make you guys closers, not necessarily physically. You're obviously going to be extreeeemely nervous.
But you have to do this, or you'll remember this thing for the rest of your life as "that one chance you had to find that right person but chickened out on".(I knew all along that this was why you wanted to create this thread. )
)Charmicarmicat
Banned
Cosmic Bus said:Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
If you are getting on and are 100% sure the guy says he is who he is, then go for it. I met my girlfriend online, we spent a year talking over the interwebs and then meet up, now we have been together over six years. It's a bit of a journey for me, about 2 hours by train but totally worth it. It can be good talking online with someone first, because even though there is physical attraction the sexual component is largely impossible, so you can talk and get to know each other first. As long as that person is being honest then theres no problem.
Just remember the usual rules of meeting somewhere public for the first time etc.
Cosmic Bus said:Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
Avoid it like the plague!
Only saying this because he has been burned by his last two boyfriends, both of which he met online and both which turned out to be cheating liars.
excelforward
Member
Cosmic Bus said:Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
My comment on this is go for it! No since having that "Why didn't I?!" for a long time after. My only advice is meet somewhere public (obviously) and get to know each other. I've done this twice and once it worked out (only for a few months) and the other time we met, talked for a while, and both agreed we weren't what the other was looking for but we still remain friends. I just say DO IT!
Pun intended.
As to the type question that was posted on the last page, I may as well admit to it. I've got a think for two main types:
A.) Jock boys
B.) Hot daddies (Think Naked Snake style. Sorry to use you as an example, but people will know what I'm talking about!)
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Replicant said:
good lord
Cosmic Bus - do it, i met my current partner online and we've been together 3 years, i've also met some fantastic mates online and had a few fu- ...good times out of it. had some awkward catchups/first dates in the past, but most have been great.
just stay safe
excelforward
Member
Replicant said:
...I could use some fixin'. However, wasn't that guy in the Hot Men thread?
Masked Man
I said wow
Gaborn said:
LIKE THAT BITCH KATY PERRY. >=(
Don't even get me started... She's a vapid, talentless hack who only feigns a passing interest in bisexuality in order to garner attention from the media for her "scandalous" and "provocative" material and to inspire lust among the hypocritical heterosexual male population who think two girls going at it is "so hot," but two men genuinely in love--not necessarily even physically--is "fucking disgusting." SO MUCH HATRED.
@ Cosmic Bus: Go for it, man!
Just be safe and have fun. Can't say I have any experience, but I'm probably into the same kind of guys as you.
Love me some cute Asian boys<3
Masked Man
I said wow
Naturally, I took issue with "Ur [sic] So Gay" as well for obvious reasons. =/ I think her first few songs turned me off from ever even possibly liking her--for better or for worse. I'm content listening to Lady GaGa right now instead.
Lies: I'm listening to the Gyakuten Kenji soundtrack, lol
krypt0nian
Banned
Wilsongt said:
This this oh god almighty 1000 times this.
Lv99 Slacker said:
I saw this on LOGO last month. Very cool and quite touching at times.
krypt0nian
Banned
Oops DP
Not double penetration, you silly gays.
Not double penetration, you silly gays.
excelforward
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Zeke said:
...have you visited the Hot Men Thread? It seems to be about 1/3 are for Jocks/Twinks, 1/3 for BearDaddies, and 1/3 for Asians (Or NeoJubei makes up for the rest of us!
That's a joke, Jubei.
krypt0nian said:
yeah interesting movie I caught it on netflix instant a while ago
I'm all bout tha gay movies
I feel weird cuz I enjoy them so much lol do any of the other gay gaffers dig the gay flicks(documentaries n stuff ) and the regular ones too but mostly informative stuff
Jubei: Asian Rush kekekekekeke ^_^excelforward said:...have you visited the Hot Men Thread? It seems to be about 1/3 are for Jocks/Twinks, 1/3 for BearDaddies, and 1/3 for Asians (Or NeoJubei makes up for the rest of us!)That's a joke, Jubei.
Masked Man
I said wow
Halycon said:
<3 Jubei
Srsly tho. He posts some daaaaaaamn fine lookin' men.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Souldriver said:Do it.
You'll regret it if you don't. If it ends up being an embarrassing experience, so be it. You at least have tried. Also: if you guys really get along together, it doesn't have to be too embarrassing or wrong. Lots of laughs and understanding from both sides perhaps. It can also make you guys closers, not necessarily physically. You're obviously going to be extreeeemely nervous.
Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement.
I don't hold any illusions about the longterm possibilities here, given our age difference and the distance between us, so if it does turn into something more, then wonderful, but I'm very much okay with it (hopefully) staying as a friendship; I think right now we're both just looking to have some fun.
Probably the best thing to come out of this so far is that he makes me feel so much better about myself than I'm accustomed to: I started exercising again after about three years, I don't wake up or go to sleep in these gloom-and-doom moods any more, he's always got something nice to say
and gives me dirty nicknames
i absolutely hate it when people call others fags and i find it no different when gay people call others fags. it's not helping the movement to remove stigmas about homosexuals.K.Jack said:
for me, i find queer is an insult only when someone says it with a negative connotation. it's like the word gay.
just be safe and have fun! that's all that mattersCosmic Bus said:Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement.
I don't hold any illusions about the longterm possibilities here, given our age difference and the distance between us, so if it does turn into something more, then wonderful, but I'm very much okay with it (hopefully) staying as a friendship; I think right now we're both just looking to have some fun.
Probably the best thing to come out of this so far is that he makes me feel so much better about myself than I'm accustomed to: I started exercising again after about three years, I don't wake up or go to sleep in these gloom-and-doom moods any more, he's always got something nice to say... It's pretty neat.and gives me dirty nicknames
ding ding ding ding dingWilsongt said:
Freestyler
Member
Masked Man said:
What the? That's one of my favourite tracks on the album and it describes perfectly the kind of guy I hate - the kind who dresses gay, acts gay but is actually straight. I don't think guys should be allowed to tease us with that
Skittleguy
Ring a Bell for me
Is it raining men yet?
AdamChrisH
Member
Go for it, but naturally, just be wary.Cosmic Bus said:Alright, I may as well ask about this since it's part of the reason the thread got made in the first place. I do think it might be seen as a non-issue for some people, but hey, I'm new to this.
I've been conversing online with someone for a while now and we're really getting on quite well: we have things in common, a good rapport, physical (or more accurately, visual) attraction that goes both ways, etc. It's definitely an odd sensation to have someone nice express an interest in me since in the past there's only been two fat girls and one gross, creepy gay guy that have hit on me; even more so because he's a younger Asian guy (which I have a thing for) and I'm an approaching-middle-age white dude in not-so-great shape (which, amazingly, he claims to have a thing for). I don't doubt that he is who is says he is -- this isn't some retired postal worker living in a basement masquerading as someone else to toy with me, I'm 100% positive -- and we've been very open with each other about everything (i.e. practically anything problematic I've talked about here in the past, he is aware of and completely accepting and understanding).
So, as things would have it, he's interested in meeting up/hooking up in the near future. It would involve a bit of a drive for me, which I'm perfectly fine with, since I don't exactly live in a bustling metropolis with many promising options nearby, and naturally, my hormones want this really, really badly. Any hesitation simply comes from the idea that I'd be meeting someone I only know from the intarwebs and even though it's become a relatively common thing to do, it'd be a first-time thing for me (in more ways than one) and I think I'm just looking for some validation here, whether or not this is a bad idea, blah blah blah.
Things that are too good to be true, generally are... But you know what, sometimes, just sometimes, things magically work out. You owe it to yourself to find out. It's better to be disappointed / heartboken etc, than it is to spend forever thinking 'what if?'
KibblesBits
Member
This thread is awesome for realizing some people on gaf aren't as straight as you thought that they were.
krypt0nian
Banned
Skittleguy said:
Your words to the black Jewish lesbian Jesus' ears.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Masked Man said:
agreed. and she release some shitty song after 'i kissed a girl' called 'you're so gay' -
oh katy.
lyrics here
silly bitch.
Alright, so there's this thing I'm always asking gay men whenever I meet some. Not being gay myself, I have my own view of the thing, but I'm always curious as to what gay men think.
What do you guys think of gay pride parades?
I don't have a problem with it, but honestly I don't see the point (aside from a big party). Montreal has a pretty vibrant gay community and it seems to be very open and we're having a big gay pride parade once a year.
A few years ago, a prominent gay personality (the guy does local celebrity gossip and stuff) came out against the parade saying all it was doing was making gays worse in the eye of the public due to the nature of the floats. Pretty much everything is highly sexual in nature in these parades (here anyway). Referring to the fact that typically gay pride parades are about promoting the gay cause and gay acceptance, he made the following points:
1- Gays and lesbians obviously accept themselves (those who are openly gay or lesbian, that is)
2- Heterosexuals who don't have a problem with homosexuality don't give a shit about the parade (which doesn't further the cause)
3- Anti-homosexuals just tend to hate homosexuality even more due to the nature of the parade
So it basically serves no purpose, and actually makes things worse for gay-haters.
I sorta agree with him. I mean, if they switched the purpose of the parade to just the celebration of gay culture and actually were a bit more "serious" (I don't mind parties, but it does offend a lot of people when a ton of half-naked men parade down the streets) then it would be perfectly fine and it might help the cause out a bit.
So, GayGaf, how do you feel about that?
What do you guys think of gay pride parades?
I don't have a problem with it, but honestly I don't see the point (aside from a big party). Montreal has a pretty vibrant gay community and it seems to be very open and we're having a big gay pride parade once a year.
A few years ago, a prominent gay personality (the guy does local celebrity gossip and stuff) came out against the parade saying all it was doing was making gays worse in the eye of the public due to the nature of the floats. Pretty much everything is highly sexual in nature in these parades (here anyway). Referring to the fact that typically gay pride parades are about promoting the gay cause and gay acceptance, he made the following points:
1- Gays and lesbians obviously accept themselves (those who are openly gay or lesbian, that is)
2- Heterosexuals who don't have a problem with homosexuality don't give a shit about the parade (which doesn't further the cause)
3- Anti-homosexuals just tend to hate homosexuality even more due to the nature of the parade
So it basically serves no purpose, and actually makes things worse for gay-haters.
I sorta agree with him. I mean, if they switched the purpose of the parade to just the celebration of gay culture and actually were a bit more "serious" (I don't mind parties, but it does offend a lot of people when a ton of half-naked men parade down the streets) then it would be perfectly fine and it might help the cause out a bit.
So, GayGaf, how do you feel about that?
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
TimeKillr said:
i feel pride parades merely perpetuate the stereotype of gays being flamboyant, effeminate sexed up hussies. (tho ill accept the tag 'sexed up hussy' for myself). i'm not against them as such but i don't relate to it and don't feel represented by an overly buffed dude in fairy wings and a harness throwing glitter at people in the street
KibblesBits
Member
TimeKillr said:
"Why do people of alternative sexualities HAVE to fit in?" is my question in response to the gay pride parade question.
The only time gay events get out of control is when someone is stark naked in broad daylight where children may be around. That or Folsom or White Party which are incredibly vile IMO.
TimeKillr said:
I don't know - I feel the pride parades are less about trying to promote a specific cause (that's what marches and protests are for) than about celebration and community awareness. I also disagree with all the premises above:
1 - There are a whole lot of LGBT people who, even though "openly" LGBT, have self-acceptance and self-esteem issues. I'm not saying seeing buffed-up muscleboys is going to help (might have the opposite effect), but the parades actually have a lot of diversity that's really comforting - religious groups, youth groups, family support groups, athletic associations, etc. It's nice to see such a broad swath of support and diversity sometimes, and if you're a LGBT person who's trying to find a "niche" and a place to fit in, it can be good to see that there are so many different types of LGBT people out there, in all walks of life.
2 - I actually think the majority of onlookers at the parades are straight, at least for NYC's parade (lots of tourists and supporters). They think it's a fun celebration. The music's good, and there are lots of outlandish costumes and good-looking people marching - what's not to like? The straight people yell and cheer the same as for any parade. And the fact that there are so many supportive onlookers reinforces point 1 - it helps shore up a sense of acceptance among LGBT people.
3 - Anti-gay people are going to hate gay people anyway, whether there are parades or not. Parades aren't their problem, gay people are their problem. So I see little reason in not having parades to appease them. EDIT: also, if they can't separate people dressing up, having fun, etc. on a parade float from what people are like in their everyday lives, that's their stupidity - it's not like people assume that Mardi Gras revelers are as flamboyant and act the same way everyday of the year, etc. I agree there are excesses that sometimes create bad PR, as with any parade or celebration, but it's no reason to shut the whole thing down.
I agree with julls and jgwhiteus. I see the plus side with acceptance and everything, but the stereotype still manages to get on my nerves. Of course, when portraying all walks of life, there are destined to be flamers. It's inevitable. Gay pride parades don't bother me as much as the stereotype, and, even then, I don't think it's THAT annoying.
KibblesBits
Member
Here's a question open to all gay men who wish to answer:
Are you effeminate?
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy?
How hard has your life been?
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy?
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time?
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time?
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men?
Please, tell me more...
Are you effeminate?
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy?
How hard has your life been?
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy?
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time?
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time?
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men?
Please, tell me more...
Are you effeminate? On some occasions.
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy? I act normal.
How hard has your life been? Not too bad. Relationships for me are a bitch, though.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy? No. I have other reasons for thinking I won't find someone to love.
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time? No.
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time? Turn it off.
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men? Because I've seen them act far more girly than a real girl does. There's no need for that foolishness.
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy? I act normal.
How hard has your life been? Not too bad. Relationships for me are a bitch, though.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy? No. I have other reasons for thinking I won't find someone to love.
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time? No.
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time? Turn it off.
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men? Because I've seen them act far more girly than a real girl does. There's no need for that foolishness.
KibblesBits
Member
Wilsongt said:
But why?
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Are you effeminate? no
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy? no
How hard has your life been? easy. EVERYONE has been super supportive. i have an amazing family, and amazing friends. i've met some great people too, since coming out and being more open about who i am. some lifelong friends for sure.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy? nope. i've been with the guy i love for 3 years.
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time? i don't feel i'm hot shit, but i do get laid all the time... ooooo me and the bf are open (to a degree) so i benefit from that
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time? what, my gayness? it's just a part of who i am. i'm forward, and blunt at times with it though (not in an obnoxious way - i just believe in saying what you want and putting it out there)
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men? i don't hate campy men. my best mate is the campiest guy on the planet, and i love him to bits. he owns a cher doll ffs some guys are threatened by it though, they feel associated to it becuase they are 'also gay' and might feel the campiness is projected onto them too? dunno. we have a blast - partners in crime
Please, tell me more...
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy? no
How hard has your life been? easy. EVERYONE has been super supportive. i have an amazing family, and amazing friends. i've met some great people too, since coming out and being more open about who i am. some lifelong friends for sure.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy? nope. i've been with the guy i love for 3 years.
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time? i don't feel i'm hot shit, but i do get laid all the time... ooooo
me and the bf are open (to a degree) so i benefit from that Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time? what, my gayness? it's just a part of who i am. i'm forward, and blunt at times with it though
(not in an obnoxious way - i just believe in saying what you want and putting it out there) Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men? i don't hate campy men. my best mate is the campiest guy on the planet, and i love him to bits. he owns a cher doll ffs
some guys are threatened by it though, they feel associated to it becuase they are 'also gay' and might feel the campiness is projected onto them too? dunno. we have a blast - partners in crime Please, tell me more...
Skittleguy
Ring a Bell for me
Are you effeminate?
No
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy?
No.
How hard has your life been?
Meh. I spent about 21 years in the closet and even now most people don't think I'm gay.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy?
Nah. I've clicked with a few guys who are just right, and quite the opposite of "super macho".
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time?
Hah, next...
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time?
It's there, most people just don't pick up on it I guess.
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men?
Nothing personal, it's just not my thing.
So now for a hypothetical question: what's the best way to deal with twins?
No
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy?
No.
How hard has your life been?
Meh. I spent about 21 years in the closet and even now most people don't think I'm gay.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy?
Nah. I've clicked with a few guys who are just right, and quite the opposite of "super macho".
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time?
Hah, next...
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time?
It's there, most people just don't pick up on it I guess.
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men?
Nothing personal, it's just not my thing.
So now for a hypothetical question: what's the best way to deal with twins?
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