Are you effeminate?
Far from it.
Do you like to act girly and are a gay guy?
I'm not good at impersonating it.
How hard has your life been?
Great supportive family. Good work experiences. Not hard thankfully.
Do you feel like you'll never find someone to love because most gay men have some fantasy about a super macho guy?
I found my super macho guy 13 years ago come September.
Do you feel like you're hot shit and get laid all the time?
He makes me feel that way, and hell yes.
Do you turn it off and on or is it active all the time?
Turn what on? Being gay? Nope, 24/7.
Why the hate for effeminate, flamboyant or campy men?
Don't think I'd date someone that was, but love being around them! When I first came out I had to get over an innate lack of comfort with really queeny guys. That was my internal homophobia talking. I lived and learned better.