The fish?
But probably with fluffers
i asked get and stay hard
Physical response isn't necessarily an attraction thing. You ever just get a random boner?
no?
The fish?
But probably with fluffers
Physical response isn't necessarily an attraction thing. You ever just get a random boner?
What? Which kind of homosexual innuendo or jokes?
Apparently we are in the midst of the fucking hour here at NeoGAF
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Also, I know it's a bit off topic but...
Fluffers are NOT A THING IN PORN ANYMORE.
Your scene partner gets you up or you just use porn with Caverject or Pills.
...don't ask me how I know this.
Haha. At any rate, I thought the article in the OP was pretty interesting.Dear Straight Men, Come Out Already
Here's another article centered around the mentioned book. I prefer it because it has the term "bro-job" included.
Just because you didn't do it doesn't mean it isn't happening all around you.
I dunno. I have a problem with criteria like "interest in participating in queer culture" because that sounds way too close to the "gay lifestyle" rhetoric the right likes to use when vilifying homosexuals, or the "you're only gay because you haven't fucked the right woman yet" nonsense. is this some kind of academic terminology thing?
I don't understand how we can live in a society where it is so easily accepted that women can fool around with each other without compromising their sexuality, but if a straight man takes a booty beat-down from a glorious 9 inch he must be gay...
Calling these people bissexual is a disservice to bisexual people. They're just using each other for their masturbatory urges.
Ooof. There's no amount of #nohomo that can overcome the clarity that any man that willingly takes the D is clearly not straight. Straight guys wouldn't entertain the idea. But to each their own.
Don't agree with some of the tone used but this is a really great post.I love how tolerant, open to many perspectives and ideas LIBERAL GAF cannot seem to wrap their collective minds around the concept that men who identify as straight could potentially have sex with another man and still identify as straight. LOVE IT.
I also love how those same folk probably hold the idea that yes, women can lez out and still be considered straight. Hypocrisy much? I think so.
I hope the people who are challenged by this really think about it. Because it is a thing, and it is something that needs to be addressed and not just written off as BS or someone experimenting.
Also your anecdotal evidence about your bros not doing it is foolish. In this modern day and age people still hold their thoughts and actions to themselves. You think your bros are going to tell you about that one time at band camp? Hahaha.
I'd like to point I'm not condemning people who engage in that. Same sex masturbatory experiences are somewhat common in the early teens, for example.Really all that needs to be said.
Don't agree with some of the tone used but this is a really great post.
Little sad to see how people still view males in society and sexuality, something I really wished was talked about and could help society move forward if discussed more.
I've heard there's this thing...where people's tastes change over time such that things you do at an earlier age don't define you for your whole in a convenient two/three word label...or even that sometimes people impulsively want to do things independent of their socially prescribed "orientation"...don't "" me on that though.
Probably been said already but I believe that's just gay men having sex with gay men, regardless if they want to come out the closet or not.
Then why are ladyboys a thing?
There's men out there who aren't attracted to other men, but for some reason find penises attractive.
Shit meant bi, man.You're saying that there's tons and tons of men pretending to feel attracted to women, faking their hard ons when they have sex with their wives and forcing themselves to ejaculate to become fathers? Because gay men, by definition, are not attracted to women.
How does that work, in your opinion?
But sex kind of defines your sexuality... right?
WTF
And I though I was liberal.
I'm sure I'll be viewed as having a simplistic view, but there's no chance of me having homosexual sex. I just have no interest in it.
Anyone who is interested in it is either bisexual or gay. No amount of people saying "everyone is bi" is going to make me attracted to men. I'm just not.
I dream of a world were adults can have sex with each other and not have to explain why they're doing it.
This butt-lust transcends gender identities.I'm sure I'll be viewed as having a simplistic view, but there's no chance of me having homosexual sex. I just have no interest in it.
Anyone who is interested in it is either bisexual or gay. No amount of people saying "everyone is bi" is going to make me attracted to men. I'm just not.
It sounds like this would be neater if people weren't conflating bi-romantic with bisexual. There aren't enough terms in common vernacular to elucidate the nuance.
Why is it so much harder for people to accept that Bi people exist?
God damnit.
Are you guys giving bj's to each other without telling me?
I do think some peoples lines are more blurred than others. For example, some dudes just love to get their dick sucked so much, they don't give a rats ass who's doing it. The old "anything that moves" crowd. I don't know if Id categorize these cats as bi. More like omni.
It's not that they don't exist, it's that three buckets is still way to few. Depending on the strictness of the definition you end up with the vast majority of the population in the bi bucket, which accomplishes nothing.
The bro doth protest too much, methinks.
I understand that attraction is what defines sexuality, not sex, but one thing I dont understand is if you're a straight male out if all the things you could stick your pens into to masturbate, why would you choose another dudes butt? At least to me as a straight male and what I've heard from others I know, just the thought of having sex with a dude is nasty. I'm very sure I couldn't even manage to get turned on if I was doing it. Unless maybe I closed my eyes and tried really hard to pretend its a girl or something
You couldn't be more wrong. I'm very open minded. I'm just trying to analyze what some people are saying intellectually. I clearly don't care who thinks I'm gay by the amount I wear pink/purple.
A lot of people are saying a lot of straight guys like to have sex with men. That doesn't compute. If you are a man and like to have sex with men, you're bi or gay. By definition. I'm not bi or gay, so I have less than zero sexual interest in other men. Sometimes the world seems like it's going crazy right here on neogaf.
Why is it so much harder for people to accept that Bi people exist?
I understand that attraction is what defines sexuality, not sex, but one thing I dont understand is if you're a straight male out if all the things you could stick your pens into to masturbate, why would you choose another dudes butt?
If you are a man and have sex with men and identify as straight then you are doing it wrong. That's not what straight means.
There's truly absolutely nothing wrong with bisexual. If you have sexual thoughts towards other men then you are bisexual/gay. Deal with it.
I heard about this book last week, and was a bit put off by how it was characterized in this review.
Basically, my belief is that these "new" gender identities have always existed regardless of whether we had a proper label for them, and would have continued to exist even if we continued our improper ignorant labeling.
What many people fail to think about its that "attraction" by another person isn't really necessary for a sexual situation to happen. After all, most of us are quite capable of getting off on our own, either using our hands or convenient objects nearby. Many guys stuck their dicks into strange holes at some point in their lives. Many girls stuck strange things in their holes as well. Many guys too.
For example, a pillow is not a sexual object for most people. But in a lonely afternoon some horny guys might fool around with it, specially in their teens.
So, if a guy can get off by humping a pillow without becoming aroused every time he walks by the bedding section of a department store, it's entirely possible for a guy to get off with another dude without becoming attracted to guys, as long as they aren't repulsed to it to the point it kills their momentary libido.
The classic story of the straight guy getting a blowjob from some other dude is a good example. There's very little effort required from the guy in the receiving end: he can close his eyes and the whole thing becomes sort of an enhanced masturbation session, his imagination replacing the other guy by whoever he desires. It's purely a sexual release, with zero feelings or even the possibility thereof, because the other dude is just a convenient tool for busting a nut, just like the pillow.
Calling these people bissexual is a disservice to bisexual people. They're just using each other for their masturbatory urges.
Good thing you're open minded. I can't even imagine your opinion if you were closed minded... because I can't come to with a more close minded claim than that one.