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Xbox does have a harder time for sure. Have you tried r/fireteams? Between gaf and r/fireteams I see quite a few Xbox posts.
You're right about matchmaking in essence however it's just not that simple and I think will be very hard for bungie to implement in a meaningful way into destiny. The average match made player in destiny is TERRIBLE. The weekly strike matchmaking was so bad for me at times I wish I could just solo it. Now take that into a raid or nightfall strike and yeesh.
All that being said I hope bungie does something for people like you who do want matchmaking.
Thanks I will look into it. And honestly I have never experience any problem playing weekly strike. Matchmaking is great for things they already have.