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I think I'm going bald.

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I'm 21. My hair is thinning and my hairline is receding. I'm stressing out because I always had really nice thick hair. Can this be prevented or do I just accept my fate, get buff and grow a beard?
 
accept it now breh, cause it'll only get worse from here. Start grooming that facial hair right now to compensate before you end up lookin like Slayven.
 
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Thank me later.
 

The M.O.B

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Nothing looks more ridiculous than some dude desperately trying to hang on to his thinning hair. You can brush it any direction you want bro, just makes it look more desperate.

Cut it
 
Rogaine and Finasteride (you'll need a prescription for the latter) are your new best friends if you're looking to maximize your chances of preventing hair-loss. Do your research re: Finasteride, though. The chances are small, but it can have weird side effects. For what it's worth, I've taken it for over a year with no problems.

EDIT: My personal recommendation: shave your head at least once while you can still re-grow most of your hair. It made me feel better about balding even though I'm still trying to prevent it.
 

Majanew

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I was around the same age went it happened to me. Shaved it and never looked back. Was sporting a goat, but the girlfriend likes my beard. So I look like a viking now.
 

ElTorro

I wanted to dominate the living room. Then I took an ESRAM in the knee.
Assuming the OP is also a good looking, rich Hollywood action star, but yeah no big deal.

Nothing that can't be fixed by hitting the gym.

Well maybe not the rich Hollywood action star thing. But who want's that anyway.
 

Majanew

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Also, yeah, hit the weights. Go from little boy with purdy hair to a fucking beast with a bald head and a beard.
 

dejay

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Shave now or do a very short number 0 clip.

Live with that hairstyle for a couple of months, see what shape your head is and if the look suits you.

After that, while there's still time, decide whether you want to try and do something about it.
 

ElTorro

I wanted to dominate the living room. Then I took an ESRAM in the knee.
Thanks for the advice guys. I'm considering just buzzing my hair short and seeing if I can live with that. But I have a strange head shape so I doubt it'll look good.

Try it. You might be surprised.
 

Majanew

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Thanks for the advice guys. I'm considering just buzzing my hair short and seeing if I can live with that. But I have a strange head shape so I doubt it'll look good.

Shave it and see. I was happy that my shaved head wasn't warped and it went with my face. If you hit the weights, work on your neck and traps and eat a lot of food to gain some mass, your head shape will change some.
 
I started slightly going bald right around 21 around the crown of my head. Remarkably, now 31, it hasn't thinned out any further since it started 10 years ago. An 1 guard against the grain and it practically vanishes. There's still hope OP if you're like me.
 

Daft_Cat

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Thanks for the advice guys. I'm considering just buzzing my hair short and seeing if I can live with that. But I have a strange head shape so I doubt it'll look good.


My self-esteem is already plummeting.

Really? I mean, it's just a hairstyle. Most guys lose at least some degree of hair, and recession tends to start around your age (in varying degrees). I've got lots of balding friends, and it's sad to see how it impacts their self-esteem. The truth is, few looked as good hairy as they remember, and none look as bad buzzed as they think.
 
I started slightly going bald right around 21 around the crown of my head. Remarkably, now 31, it hasn't thinned out any further since it started 10 years ago. An 1 guard against the grain and it practically vanishes. There's still hope OP if you're like me.

You provably never had MPB. Its likely that your natural hair whorl was making you paranoid.
 
You provably never had MPB. Its likely that your natural hair whorl was making you paranoid.

I thought about this. I had a couple barbers in the past tell me that the center of my crown is hard to find. My hair grows every which way around that area which can be hard to cut if you're going with the grain (I'm a black man). i guess I'll know for sure as I approach 40.
 

dejay

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Thanks for the advice guys. I'm considering just buzzing my hair short and seeing if I can live with that. But I have a strange head shape so I doubt it'll look good.

If you haven't done it before it can be quite confrontational. The first time I did it (I did a complete shave) I was shocked and felt like everyone was looking at me. Mind you this was before a lot of people were doing it.

It took me a few weeks to realise that it looked ok for me. My friend liked it so much he did the same, even though he wasn't losing hair. His results weren't so fortunate - he had rolls of skin on the back of his head like a Shar Pei dog.

A lot of girls are ok with bald and a little over weight - but not at the same time. If you're bald you have to look fit. If you're over weight, you need good hair.
 

Fury451

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Cut it short or shave it, but honestly the biggest thing is just being comfortable with yourself.

I know that's easy for some random dude on the Internet to say, but honestly being confident in yourself is you something that hair or no hair can't really change. You've got awesome qualities that transcend some fuzz on your head.
 
Yeah it sucks man.

For some face and head shapes, really just makes you objectively worse looking, which has effects on your self confidence.

Best thing you can do is embrace it, in my opinion. It looks good on some people. Plus being cool otherwise really negates it any effects it has on your looks.
 

The Lamp

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See a dermatologist. They can maybe save it.

Also, blame your parents for giving you bald genes.
And don't have kids so that they don't suffer the same genetic curse. Problem solved!
 
I know the feeling. I started losing my hair around that time, too.

I've blamed some of it on stress and worry from OCD, and people always told me that would happen.

Thankfully, it seems to have tapered off. My hair is noticeably thinner in a horseshoe pattern, though, and I fear the day when it will completely go and look ridiculous.

I'm already undateable.
 
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