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Applying for jobs is exhausting and soul-crushing

So it's internship application season at my school. I used up all 50 of the applications available through my school (50 max). I'm just scared for all the rejections. :(
 
Quick question for those who found positions through temp work:

How often do I need to keep in contact with the staffing agency? After meeting with the agency I applied to and completing all their tests do I just go back to applying on my own while playing the waiting game to hear back from them? Or do I need to keep in contact with them constantly?
 
Quick question for those who found positions through temp work:

How often do I need to keep in contact with the staffing agency? After meeting with the agency I applied to and completing all their tests do I just go back to applying on my own while playing the waiting game to hear back from them? Or do I need to keep in contact with them constantly?

You should definitely continue doing your own thing. They will usually get back to you in a timely fashion.
 
So I had my interview. I was definitely nervous and I stumbled on the very first question but after that I think I recovered alright. I hope that interning at that company twice gives me extra points. Nothing is guaranteed so now I wait and see.
 

dark_chris

Member
I'm leaving my current job at this big tech company because of lack of personal growth there. Ive been in the same spot for 3 years and I can't live with the pay I'm getting.

Now, after searching, I have a huge 4 hour job interview tomorrow with a company that is interested in me. 4 hours sounds insane to me and I wouldn't know what to expect from long interviews like this, even though my current job is to set up interviews. xD

I'm just gonna bring a notebook, pen, and warm bottle of water. I think i should be good with that.
 
safe to say i am doing it to not be unemployed. if i were only working for myself, i would've quit by now and studied something else. that's the thing. it like an admin job and even then no one even seems to give a crap about the new employee. i am left to my own devices. i had to look for a desk on my own (since someone is occupying my supposed desk), i had to ask the manager for tasks to do, no one even came to me to train me or show the ropes. i had just 1 one-hour training about the most basic of all stuff, but other than that, i haven't been doing anything since monday. my co-workers said hi to me on the first day, but since i'm literally on a different floor with nothing to do, i'm basically a nomad.
You should find an empty office and just move in and start working like Michael J Fox in The Secret of my Success.
 

NEO0MJ

Member
So, does anyone know a good answer if an interviewer why you still haven't got a ob, and why we should hire you over a new graduate?Most sites don't seem to offer an answer and I'm so tense over an interview tomorrow.
 
Took a preliminary online assessment and it said I got an 86 which i guess is good considering there was stuff that wasn't in the description and stuff I'd never come across since webdev was never my focus.

Check out glassdoor.com. Enter the job title and your zip code and it should pull up some numbers for you.

Yeah that's what I ended up doing. Found the median and used that.
 

Makonero

Member
So, does anyone know a good answer if an interviewer why you still haven't got a ob, and why we should hire you over a new graduate?Most sites don't seem to offer an answer and I'm so tense over an interview tomorrow.

A new graduate is untested in actual work. Someone with experience is always preferred, unless that experienced person lacks passion/expects too much.

You'll be fine. Explain why you don't have a job and just be excited about the role in a way that makes your enthusiasm contagious and you'll have a successful interview.
 

NEO0MJ

Member
A new graduate is untested in actual work. Someone with experience is always preferred, unless that experienced person lacks passion/expects too much.

You'll be fine. Explain why you don't have a job and just be excited about the role in a way that makes your enthusiasm contagious and you'll have a successful interview.

Problem is, I didn't get much work since graduation and mostly outside my field of study. I always refresh my knowledge and read articles but I'm still afraid about that.
 

Makonero

Member
Problem is, I didn't get much work since graduation and mostly outside my field of study. I always refresh my knowledge and read articles but I'm still afraid about that.

Be confident, admit that you might not know everything but that you're a quick learner and tie in your experiences to what they're looking for, however remote the connections. Confidence is a major help in any interview and honesty is really the best way to go when you have a lack of experience ("Yes, I may not have a lot of experience in that specific area, but I have done work that is similar in this way, and I also read a lot and stay up to date")
 
I've been waiting over a week for a job offer that the employer is "getting final approval for". I thought this is the sort of thing you do before interviewing candidates?

This is truly soul crushing.
 

mYm|17|

Member
Got the call today from a job I interviewed for like 2 weeks ago. Job was given to somebody else.

Sucks since this is the third time that I've gotten to the very end and almost getting it, but didn't get an offer. Very depressing.
 
I've been waiting over a week for a job offer that the employer is "getting final approval for". I thought this is the sort of thing you do before interviewing candidates?

This is truly soul crushing.
Usually but I've definitely times where they didn't of they got initial approval but need final approval for the hire.
 
So, does anyone know a good answer if an interviewer why you still haven't got a ob, and why we should hire you over a new graduate?Most sites don't seem to offer an answer and I'm so tense over an interview tomorrow.

tell them that you are being selective in finding your next opportunity as you are looking for the right environment.
 
The day after tomorrow marks 1 year of unemployment for me. Haven't had an interview for 3 months, and there's nothing in the horizon, as the oil & gas industry is fucked.

I've been feeling like such a failure for the past year, as never before in my life. I've had failures in the past, but they never were enough to keep me down and I always knew I would bounce back, one way or another. I always did. But this past year has been trying, and after being fired and being rejected by so many jobs like a piece of trash, I really don't know what kind of fuel I am burning any more to keep on going. The only good thing in my life is my girlfriend. Without her, I would be living in a cardboard box now.

Sorry, needed to vent.
 
Usually but I've definitely times where they didn't of they got initial approval but need final approval for the hire.

Ah ok the recruiter definitely said "final approval".

Never ran into this before.

It's a contract for 6 months. I love the position but I am still debating whether to go down the contract route.
 

Hylian7

Member
I lost my programming job last Thursday because I was always making stupid mistakes, causing me to miss deadlines. I lost the job before that one for pretty much the same reason.

I was also diagnosed with ADHD recently, and started taking medicine for it last week. The problem is, I still don't know how I can get a job if no one is going to want to gamble on someone stupid like me that has ADHD and was let go from two jobs.
 

moka

Member
I recently learnt that who you know is very important. I did a 12 month work placement at my company in one team but made some friends elsewhere and managed to get a summer internship in their team.

So yeah, if I was looking for a job I'd ask some of my friends first.
 
I lost my programming job last Thursday because I was always making stupid mistakes, causing me to miss deadlines. I lost the job before that one for pretty much the same reason.

I was also diagnosed with ADHD recently, and started taking medicine for it last week. The problem is, I still don't know how I can get a job if no one is going to want to gamble on someone stupid like me that has ADHD and was let go from two jobs.

How long were you at your job? I remember your thread from the first time you were let go. Comp Sci is a tough industry, I can relate. Hang in there.
 

Bacon

Member
I lost my programming job last Thursday because I was always making stupid mistakes, causing me to miss deadlines. I lost the job before that one for pretty much the same reason.

I was also diagnosed with ADHD recently, and started taking medicine for it last week. The problem is, I still don't know how I can get a job if no one is going to want to gamble on someone stupid like me that has ADHD and was let go from two jobs.

I was let go from my job a couple weeks ago for a similar reason. I can relate man, try and keep your head up.
 

mhayes86

Member
Probably a panel interview or series of interviews with different people.

That's what I would guess as well. I've had a couple interview sessions that took between 4-6 hours due to interviewing with multiple people (at scheduled times). One of those sessions included a two hour test.
 

kaioshade

Member
had an interview with IBM two weeks ago, and didnt make it. Soul crushing, to be sure. I thought i had enough Linux knowledge, but i have a sneaking suspicion it was Excel that did me in. Now to read 50 books on Excel.
 

Coda

Member
had an interview with IBM two weeks ago, and didnt make it. Soul crushing, to be sure. I thought i had enough Linux knowledge, but i have a sneaking suspicion it was Excel that did me in. Now to read 50 books on Excel.

Microsoft Excel...the worst program on Earth.
 

NEO0MJ

Member
I feel my interview went bad. I could't sleep at night because of the stress, waking up every couple of hours. I forgot to bring my CV. I locked my keys in the car. Ended up waiting two hours for the interview. Worse of all I entered panic mode mid-interview (even though I felt I was doing ok at the time) and started talking too fast.

Sigh...
 

gosox333

Member
I've been on the official job hunt for 2 days now and have gotten 2 calls back from companies I've applied to saying that they'll pass my resume on to others.

Is that good? Or do they just do that to everybody they don't want?
 
Had an interview earlier, it started very well but then definitely tailed off a bit.

Could really go either way i think, i'm not going to be able to concentrate on anything else until i get the call, thankfully they said they'd almost certainly let me know tomorrow.

Gaf, lend me your prayers.
 

nampad

Member
I've been on the official job hunt for 2 days now and have gotten 2 calls back from companies I've applied to saying that they'll pass my resume on to others.

Is that good? Or do they just do that to everybody they don't want?

To others inside their company? That's actually how I got my job.
Applied for a position, got asked if I was interested about another one. Went to interview thinking it was for the original application (I asked the secretary) and didn't get the job but they passed it on to another division, which I then landed and which is quite a good fit for me (better than the position they asked me).
 

Ollie Pooch

In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
I recently learnt that who you know is very important. I did a 12 month work placement at my company in one team but made some friends elsewhere and managed to get a summer internship in their team.

So yeah, if I was looking for a job I'd ask some of my friends first.
This couldn't be more true - every single one of my freelancing clients of the last 4+ years or so has been a referral from an existing one or from a former colleague from when I've been in full time jobs.

Now I've decided to hunt down some fulltime work again and the process is indeed soul-crushing.
 
Just had to tell a company that I would only pursue the job if their listed potential salary was on the higher end of what they are offering because the low end is absolutely incredibly insulting for the job type and location.

I feel like I'm so out of my element.
 

GamerSoul

Member
Welp, my contract is up and there was pressure from above to cut some spending so guess who's back on the market. Lol. It was my first real job out of school, so i was very fortunate to find the contract job through a recruiter. It lasted almost a year and i really learned a lot from those guys. This time im hoping to find something a little more permanent but we'll see. Back to the grind.
 

moka

Member
This couldn't be more true - every single one of my freelancing clients of the last 4+ years or so has been a referral from an existing one or from a former colleague from when I've been in full time jobs.

Now I've decided to hunt down some fulltime work again and the process is indeed soul-crushing.

It does take a lot of time. Man, when I was looking for a work placement I applied to over 30 places, got interview at 3 places and got offers from 2 (the place I went with had 5 interviews in total).

It takes time and effort - especially with all these competency questions you have to fill out, reasoning tests, waiting etc.

What makes it suck even more is all the rejection emails you'll get. Sooner or later something will come through though.
 

Slo

Member
had an interview with IBM two weeks ago, and didnt make it. Soul crushing, to be sure. I thought i had enough Linux knowledge, but i have a sneaking suspicion it was Excel that did me in. Now to read 50 books on Excel.

Consider yourself lucky. IBM is more soul crushing than being unemployed.
 
Consider yourself lucky. IBM is more soul crushing than being unemployed.

Even a couple of years ago most of the people I knew there really liked it. Felt they were with the leading company for business solutions and were more secure than people with other companies. Now IBM seems to be cutting back wherever possible and everyone's on edge. I wouldn't be surprised if that job didn't get filled at all.
 

entremet

Member
Even a couple of years ago most of the people I knew there really liked it. Felt they were with the leading company for business solutions and were more secure than people with other companies. Now IBM seems to be cutting back wherever possible and everyone's on edge. I wouldn't be surprised if that job didn't get filled at all.

IBM does what most Fortune 100 firms do, force layoffs to increase stock price. They were one of the first pioneer of that type of corporate governance.
 

Ultimadrago

Member
Finally got employed. It'll be a customer service position, but it's at a desk in an office rather than dealing with the average American face-to-face. I can't wait!
 

Mistah

Member
Ugh never thought waiting for a reply can be so soul-crushing :( Still waiting on job offer while someone else just received his job offer last friday :(
 

Big Chungus

Member
this sucks, all my friends that I graduated with are making pretty good money but im working for about a quarter of what they make

they didnt have much experience at all either when we graduated
 
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