So how often should I go out with a girl I just met?
I can't avoid doing wall-posts, so the following description is optional reading.
I met her on Tinder. We chatted for a couple of days.
First date, Wednesday of last week, we went to watch a movie and I walked her home.
Two days later, on Friday, we hung out for an hour because she was close to my office when I ended my shift and she told me if I wanted to meet.
Then she had to study and was busy because she had an exam last Monday. On Tuesday she asked me if I was free Wednesday's night. I was so we went to a bar to have drinks for around two hours, then I didn't want the date to end so soon, so I told her if she wanted to walk for a bit and we ended sitting in a sort of park, for two more hours.
So today is Saturday and I'm wondering if I should tell her if she wants to go out today. I think it is fine?
The other problem I have is that I don't know what we can do together, I would like to do something different than going to have drinks, because I feel like we have a finite number of truly interesting things to talk about. If we do something, like an activity, it could prove to be better, but I have no idea.
Btw, I have been trying to follow an advice that I read on here that I shouldn't text her unless I have something interesting to say, but we still have been texting everyday. The days I have waited until further into the day to text her she has usually texted me first.
PS: It's the third girl I meet irl from Tinder, but it's the first one that went beyond the 1st date.
EDIT: Just as an anecdote, 1st date I paid for the movie + coke + popcorn (she offered to pay her half, but I said no). 2nd date when I was going to pay at the bar, she said that she wanted to pay, I started telling her "no way", and she kept insisting, saying her I invited her the first time so she wanted to invite me. The waiter said "ohh I love this fights!", so in that moment when I realized everyone could hear this situation, the shyness struck so I let her pay but I said that I would pay on the next date. I did feel afterwards that maybe I should had insisted more, but I guess it was the right thing to do to let her pay.