The two big things are
1 - Noise. She doesn't want anyone to hear us. At all.
2 - the bathroom situation. She wants to have
Unrestricted access and is self conscious about my room mate getting upset she uses the bathroo. Feels word taking a shower.
We are babysitting her neice on friday. Afterwards, we are going to go back to my b place.
It's not like she hasn't been there before. She's come over a few times. U guys we just have to ease her in. It's a strange place to her still.
Your roommate sucks and she's being unreasonable.
You still need to move out.
Like I said before, you're just putting out fires without even thinking ahead. What happens 6 months from now when you DO want to move in together?
You two are old enough that you've got to incorporate logistics into your thought process. She's also maybe at the age where she's thinking of kids and a partner.
You have a noted tendency to accept the status quo, because you're a risk-averse person. But you're not moving forward.
Look, assume the best outcome: you two, happily together, crazy in love and building Gundam figures. How do you get there? Work backwards. Your posts are all the same; you've done nothing other than attempt to socialize your (admittedly unreasonable) girlfriend into your situation, while we here on GAF soothe your anxieties.
Would it kill you to see if there's another apartment available - or a house with other roommates! - closer to her, your job, or both? Would it hurt to talk to your supervison about additional responsibilities?
Eventually, your girlfriend is going to realize you have no plan. It won't be a happy conversation. It's one thing to try, fail, and pivot; it's another to not try altogether.
(To be honest, you should look into the Air Force or Navy. You'd make way more money, could punch after 4 years, and have a marketable security clearance.)