Her and I are 23 and 24, respectively. I'd expect this from a girl I was dating who was like, 18 or 19, but this is absurd.
True. I don't wanna come across as someone whose desperate to have sex though, or petty about lacking it. At the same time, I don't wanna appear meek or timid. It's a double edged sword.
If sex is important to you and she is too timid to go on a trip with you because of what her parents think, then you may be in different stages of your life.
If you're willing to be with her despite that, then all power to you. Continue dating. Sex and traveling really ain't everything. If it's only one aspect of a deeper connection, then just let it go and don't ask her to travel with you.
But if you're with her in the hopes that you can turn this aspect of your relationship around, then maybe it would be better to move on. There are tons of girls who will travel with you and won't care what their parents think. It's all about finding someone who shares the same views on what you deem to be important and lives her life according to compatible values.
Yes it is for sure. It's been four months though, you're not being desperate at all.
It's all relative. I lost my virginity at 19. When I was 26 though, I dated a 23 year old virgin and didn't care about the lack of sex at the time because she was a great person who was fun to be around. I'd had plenty of sex by that point, so the lack of sex didn't feel like a big deal in the grand scheme of things.