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[LordKasual]

She didnt break up with him on the spot either she kept going. I needed another drink.
What pushed her over the edge, which i think when your partner starts going on about Lolitas you are already at terminal velocity. Is while watching IT and talking about Bev being pretty hot and if 10yr olds can be into bev why not a 28yr old.

yeah no i would have been like "we're done" on the spot.

But yeah, it does suck. Within the last few days, I've gone from questioning my every move that night, to being sad, to being annoyed, to being "eh, nothing to do about it" atm. Maybe if I keep telling myself she's not worth it, it'll all go away.

she moved up the street?

next time you see her, hit her with the eye contact poker face as you walk past her. Especially if she talks to you

it'll be hilarious

Re: ghosting. I don't have a problem with ghosting. But a month seems like about the cut off would be where someone deserves some sort of break up. Pending the number of dates and circumstances of course. If it's 1-4 dates, then ghost away. But more than that and I dunno...

Man, I do. You learn to not let it bother you because it's so common, but it is an absolutely shitty thing to do.

one of the most aggravating things you can ever do to another person is ignore them

Just posting to hear some opinions.
I'm 20 years old and I'm currently in my first relationship. I like the girl I'm with but we met each other at an escort house.
She is 19 and she has been working as an escort for 1 month because she needs the money to pay for her college studies. I don't have any problem with her working there as long as she is not hurt and works there on her free will.
Has anyone any similar experiences?

ahahahaahhaha

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i mean, at least you met her on escort terms....some guys aren't so lucky

Hi dating gaf, hope you're all doing okay.

This isn't a dating question, but it also doesn't warrant a thread so I hope it's OK if I post it here and get your feedback.

I have a friend, let's call her S. She's an old friend, but recently she's become very passive aggressive whenever we talk. She'll attack the fact that I'm seeing other friends and either didn't invite her or didn't want to spend time with her, she'll start a conversation and if I need to end it before she wants to, she'll start replying with one letter words like 'K' for the next few days. Whenever I tell her I'm spending time with my girlfriend, she'll make comments like she's got me a tight leash and whip whip.

I've spoken to my girlfriend about it and she thinks she's jealous and is worried she's losing me, what do you all think? I'd like to preserve the friendship, but her behaviour is making me want to contact and interact with her less and less.

sounds like you already know whats up

 

[LookAtMeGo]

I just hooked up with this girl against my better judgement. She knows where I live. Shes on the phone with a friend of hers and they spund nuts. Fuck my life.

By hookup I mean BJ but still.

 

[LordKasual]

I just hooked up with this girl against my better judgement. She knows where I live. Shes on the phone with a friend of hers and they spund nuts. Fuck my life.

By hookup I mean BJ but still.

congrats on the BJ

i dont know what bolded means so i don't understand the problem

 

[LookAtMeGo]

congrats on the BJ

i dont know what bolded means so i don't understand the problem

They are talking crazy. Like some gangster shit. And apparently he lives just down the street. I will regret this.

Who sucks somebodies dick then phones a friend to talk crazy shit? Shes pacing around my place right now on the phone. I dont like this.

If I die tonight its been a slice date gaf

 

[Peltz]

They are talking crazy. Like some gangster shit. And apparently he lives just down the street. I will regret this.

Who sucks somebodies dick then phones a friend to talk crazy shit? Shes pacing around my place right now on the phone. I dont like this.

If I die tonight its been a slice date gaf

Sounds like one of those nights. We've all been there. Enjoy the ride dude.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

I think shes planning a kidnapping

 

[Starlightmuse]

I just hooked up with this girl against my better judgement. She knows where I live. Shes on the phone with a friend of hers and they spund nuts. Fuck my life.

By hookup I mean BJ but still.

Weren't you out with your neighbour today? Well at least you weren't expecting to have sex today, so try to see the glass half-filled I guess?

Also try to stay alive.

 

[True Savior]

Just posting to hear some opinions.
I'm 20 years old and I'm currently in my first relationship. I like the girl I'm with but we met each other at an escort house.
She is 19 and she has been working as an escort for 1 month because she needs the money to pay for her college studies. I don't have any problem with her working there as long as she is not hurt and works there on her free will.
Has anyone any similar experiences?

I love how casual this posts sounds.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

The neighbour is supposed to be tonight. Its 1pm right now. Thats prolly not happening. Shes getting mad that I cant get hard again. Its not that I cant. Im just affraid.

 

[Starlightmuse]

The neighbour is supposed to be tonight. Its 1pm right now. Thats prolly not happening. Shes getting mad that I cant get hard again. Its not that I cant. Im just affraid.

wtf

Spoiler

You're still in time to tell her that you are gay and you were trying something different.

 

[LordKasual]

They are talking crazy. Like some gangster shit. And apparently he lives just down the street. I will regret this.

Who sucks somebodies dick then phones a friend to talk crazy shit? Shes pacing around my place right now on the phone. I dont like this.

If I die tonight its been a slice date gaf

see now i'mma need you to be more specific lol, "crazy gangster shit" has a very broad range

Ethnicity? She white, black, latina, asian??

How'd you meet her? How did your cock end up in her mouth?

Selling or buying drugs? She giving her location? What is the subject of the chat? Is she involved? Are you involved? Is she planning to go somewhere, with or without you?

 

[Puck Beaverton]

You should help her with the kidnapping.

 

[Raptomex]

The neighbour is supposed to be tonight. Its 1pm right now. Thats prolly not happening. Shes getting mad that I cant get hard again. Its not that I cant. Im just affraid.

You're living quite the rock and roll lifestyle. Good luck with the BJ-giving psychopath. Get out now.

 

[LordKasual]

You're living quite the rock and roll lifestyle. Good luck with the BJ-giving psychopath. Get out now.

shes in his house

checkmate

 

[Spoiled Milk]

The neighbour is supposed to be tonight. Its 1pm right now. Thats prolly not happening. Shes getting mad that I cant get hard again. Its not that I cant. Im just affraid.

Wtf are you talking about, she's just on the phone with a real man because you can't keep it up

 

[Raptomex]

shes in his house

checkmate

I know. He needs to get out. Leave his stuff.

Spoiler

Or die.

 

[LordKasual]

I know. He needs to get out. Leave his stuff.

Spoiler

Or die.

make the alleged psychopath inside his house that lives down the street feel uneasy about him?

RIP

 

[Puck Beaverton]

Listen these people want you to be reasonable and alive and I'm telling you that is overrated. Go all in dawg.

 

[Messofanego]

What kind of kidnapping? Tbh this deserves its own thread with live updates.

 

[gaiages]

The neighbour is supposed to be tonight. Its 1pm right now. Thats prolly not happening. Shes getting mad that I cant get hard again. Its not that I cant. Im just affraid.

Really shouldn't be drinking so much you that you got whiskey dick at 1PM. Bad for the liver and all that.

 

[LordKasual]

Listen these people want you to be reasonable and alive and I'm telling you that is overrated. Go all in dawg.

if his dick is in her mouth, she can't talk crazy on the phone

he secretly wants to see how this plays out

gotta be quick on your toes

 

[LookAtMeGo]

see now i'mma need you to be more specific lol, "crazy gangster shit" has a very broad range

Ethnicity? She white, black, latina, asian??

How'd you meet her? How did your cock end up in her mouth?

Selling or buying drugs? She giving her location? What is the subject of the chat? Is she involved? Are you involved? Is she planning to go somewhere, with or without you?

Shes first nations (native)... yeah shes talking about getting drugs. I met her at a party last night. I was leaving and I was like "whos comin with me?" And she came with because I am irresistable.

We are just laying here now. Shes like wtf you doing on your phone!? Lol. Good times bro. She left for a bit and bought me a plant and grabbed a 15 pack of booze. Ahhhhh fuck

 

[Starlightmuse]

You could also tell her that your ding dong don't wake up because she looks exactly like your mother. She'll freak out that bad that she probably won't kill you.

She'll tell all your neighbourhood that you're a weirdo though.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

Wtf are you talking about, she's just on the phone with a real man because you can't keep it up

Lol I like you

 

[Raptomex]

make the alleged psychopath inside his house that lives down the street feel uneasy about him?

RIP

You're confusing me. I'm under the impression they're in his place, she sucked his dick, and now he's terrified of her. Unless I missed something.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

You're confusing me. I'm under the impression they're in his place, she sucked his dick, and now he's terrified of her. Unless I missed something.

That pretty much sums it up

 

[LordKasual]

Shes first nations (native)... yeah shes talking about getting drugs. I met her at a party last night. I was leaving and I was like "whos comin with me?" And she came with because I am irresistable.

We are just laying here now. Shes like wtf you doing on your phone!? Lol. Good times bro. She left for a bit and bought me a plant and grabbed a 15 pack of booze. Ahhhhh fuck

what the fuck

it sounds like you're having a good fucking time

 

[Starlightmuse]

what the fuck

it sounds like you're having a good fucking time

You can be both having a great time and scared of dying at the same time.

 

[Puck Beaverton]

I'm so jealous

 

[LookAtMeGo]

Really shouldn't be drinking so much you that you got whiskey dick at 1PM. Bad for the liver and all that.

Its not really whiskey dick but moreso Im 32 and can only go once a night these days

 

[LordKasual]

You can be both having a great time and scared of dying at the same time.

sounds like all she wants from him is some dick to enjoy while she gets high/drunk/stoned/whatever

I'm so jealous

me too, this asshole is scared for his life but he's about to get fucked until he runs out of condoms

Look at him go

 

[MogCakes]

Shit, when it rains, it pours. Out of nowhere, through various friends and relations, I ended up meeting 5 different women who I hit it off with. Did a casual "hangout/coffee" meetups with all 5, 3 led to actual dates, all three led to 2nd dates (including confirmed physical comparability with all 3), with solid possibility of a 3rd date soon with each. But I need to whittle it down before I go further with either one, since I don't want to lead them on, and I'm honestly stumped how to do so, as I like them all equally, and no red flags for any of them. Good problem to have, I suppose, but a problem nonetheless. I don't like juggling different women - I've done it before when I was younger, don't want to repeat past mistakes/drama.

Had the same problem some time ago. I eventually chose and let the others down...it won't be pleasant, but life goes on.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

She wants to fill these up and throw them at ppl.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

I hope my neighbour cant hear the goin ons over here..

 

[Ogodei]

Managed to swing another date despite being unemployed up to two days ago. I had initially messaged her before losing my job, and i would've been dark on OKC had it not been for her occasional messages (no turnoff quite like unemployment, after all), and we managed to hit it off enough to get a date set for Happy Hour in DC's Chinatown on Tuesday.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

Omg. Ok so this girl is fun. We are throwing water baloons at ppl. But she still cray and Im gona die!

 

[Advocatus Diaboli]

Managed to swing another date despite being unemployed up to two days ago. I had initially messaged her before losing my job, and i would've been dark on OKC had it not been for her occasional messages (no turnoff quite like unemployment, after all), and we managed to hit it off enough to get a date set for Happy Hour in DC's Chinatown on Tuesday.

Are you looking for a spot to talk?

Let me suggest Silo on 5th, then. Superb atmosphere, rarely (if ever) crowded, and great food.

If you're looking for a Chinatown rooftop, the only option's really Bar Deco, but it's kinda douchey.

Finally, I'll share with you the best Chinatown secret: Mandu on K, happy hour from 4-7. $4 dumplings, $4 drinks. You can grab a table outside and watch a procession of dogs.

 

[Raptomex]

Yes, blowjobs and water balloons. What a dangerous life you're living.

 

[LordKasual]

one minute he's getting his dick sucked, next minute he's scared for his life, next minute he's doubleposting and throwing water balloons at people

you two are perfect for eachother lol

 

[Salamando]

Thanks for all the opinions!
Yes, we split drinks/meals 50/50 when we go out.
I'm happy with her for the moment so I will continue our relationship. I will stay alert in case she does something strange but things are going really well for now.

Just keep your wits about you. I've known some strippers (and had friends who knew strippers) and dating them would not be fun. You say you're okay with it as long as its of her own free will, but free will is a lot more complicated once she's financially dependent.

Then there's the higher likelihood of drug and alcohol abuse. As one stripper friend put it, "Some girls need a little help to get out there".

 

[vypek]

This thread got a really interesting update. Lol.

A DatingGAF exclusive storybof BJs, fear and water balloons

 

[Starlightmuse]

She wants to fill these up and throw them at ppl.

fill them with water or

 

[Ogodei]

Are you looking for a spot to talk?

Let me suggest Silo on 5th, then. Superb atmosphere, rarely (if ever) crowded, and great food.

If you're looking for a Chinatown rooftop, the only option's really Bar Deco, but it's kinda douchey.

Finally, I'll share with you the best Chinatown secret: Mandu on K, happy hour from 4-7. $4 dumplings, $4 drinks. You can grab a table outside and watch a procession of dogs.

Thanks man.

She suggested Bar Deco actually, so that's where it'll end up. 5:30 though, so we might beat some of the crowds? Funny thing is i just scheduled an interview for that afternoon closer to the mall, so i'll have to ditch work early and be in that vicinity even earlier than that.

Of course, we've got time. I could counter-suggest Mandu.

 

[Jintor]

Okay well I'm feeling a bit better about the dating thing, chin up I guess. Suppose I'll just take life as it comes for now.

 

[LookAtMeGo]

fill them with water or

Lol. Im 32 bruh. Maybe 10 years ago

 

[LordKasual]

Lol. Im 32 bruh. Maybe 10 years ago

you aint old bruh

you just lazy

 

[manfestival]

I am dating someone. She is being short with me as of late and communication has drastically dropped despite being only separated for a month. I will see her again in like 2 weeks but we haven't seen each other since 3 weeks ago. I know she has been busy and tired. Am I over thinking or is this some sign?

 

[protomouse]

Write her off. She's not contacting you again. If she does, be pleasantly surprised but cautious. There are very few good reasons why she couldn't text you over a span of 168 hours, including the weekend.

So she finally texted me yesterday, saying she's sorry for not replying and that she's been busy. I was happy, but honestly had little idea what to do. So I struck up some basic conversation and ended with a promise to keep in touch. Tonight I texted her, asking if she was interested in meeting up again in the near future, and suggested a light-hearted activity. We'll see how this goes.

 

[Spoiled Milk]

Shes first nations (native)... yeah shes talking about getting drugs. I met her at a party last night. I was leaving and I was like "whos comin with me?" And she came with because I am irresistable.

We are just laying here now. Shes like wtf you doing on your phone!? Lol. Good times bro. She left for a bit and bought me a plant and grabbed a 15 pack of booze. Ahhhhh fuck

native girls know how to chill

Lol I like you

bruh you straight up my favorite poster in this thread after always crazy bacon and have been for a while lol

 

[always crazy bacon]

How should I navigate this? Last night I towed the line between backing up my girlfriend in declaring she did nothing wrong, which she didn't, and being sympathetic to the moms feelings. I don't want the mom to feel threatened. For what it is worth, the mom adores me. She treats me well, and has told my gf I'm the best boyfriend she has had. She's just scared I guess.

You don't mention it again. What the real situation is (based on my experience with Chinese people). The mum lost face and was embarrassed to have eaten your food. But she's trying to save face by finding a way to blame someone else so it's not her fault. She wont apologize because that would mean admitting she did something wrong and loose face.

It's not as big a deal as you think it is from your perspective.