Let me step in and say
Confidence is king. Confidence is absolute.
Without confidence, you're not going anywhere. You won't know how many women, in any given day, are thinking you look interesting/fun/handsome until you exercise some confidence and simply talk to them. It's stupidly easy and frustratingly hard at the same time, we know.
Confidence is something we in here can try to suggest that you learn, but no amount of reading about it will teach it to you. You're going to have to crash and burn horribly at first. But, if you're staying positive, you'll learn that things get way easier with practise. Rejection will sting less and less because you'll be getting more confident. Break-ups will hurt less and less because you'll be confident in your ability to find another woman, with time.
Another shape confidence takes is being comfortable alone, being a single man. You don't need a woman, you don't need to have sex, you don't need a companion. Realise that these are wants rather than needs or necessities. Learn to have fun with friends and by yourself when you're single. Remember that your life is your own to live and that comparing yourself to others with partners or having lots of success with women isn't going to help you if you're stressing over it. So, be confident and kick ass when you're single. This is a necessity.
Confidence is king. Confidence is absolute.
Is the dumbest, most unhelpful
trash that is constantly repeated on the internet. For the life of me I never know why it is
never explained how you should go about obtaining confidence. You do not just magically spark confidence, confidence is an entirely natural thing. If you have no confidence then a 'positive attitude' alone is not going to help you, if anything it's going to straight up destroy you. These types of posts are more harmful than helpful, they implicitly convince people that all of their obstacles are mental ones, and so when they inevitably cannot overcome those impossible obstacles, they end worse off than where they started.
Confidence is what you feel when you believe in yourself, the only way you're going to believe in yourself is by doing good shit to yourself. I mean come on, look at this Scientifically. No I mean
actually Scientifically. You are 100% a product of your environment, so if you're going through a shit period then it's because of how the things around you are affecting you physically and mentally. What are these things? What you consume is a
major player in how you're going to live your life, so cut the shit. Also, exercise is one of the most important things anyone can do for themselves to improve their quality of life, it is tip top up there.
Get the fundamentals right
- Exercise Daily
- Eat Healthily
- Learn Lots of things, Read on diverse topics
- Invest in good clothes
- Commit Yourself to something
Are the only things you should be thinking about, this is the shit that gives you confidence. Not a post from someone on the internet. Honestly, I cannot emphasise enough how complete and utterly atrocious these posts are, they are shambolic, misleading, harmful, disastrous and a complete utter disgrace to the entire species. Remove it from the OP and ban anyone who repeats it.
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