So, you are into transwomen?I've done pretty well in my dating life. Attractive, smart women, blah blah blah. But ultimately they all had some sort fatal flaw that was a major deal breaker, which is why I'm still not married.
Anyway when browsing through dating apps and going through the dozens of lame profiles, there are some criteria I use to personally filter some women out very quickly:
- Obviously if they aren't attractive to me. They don't have to be runway models but there are some basics -- no whales, no busted ass faces, etc. All that bullshit about "oh it's only the beauty on the inside that counts"... Anyone deluding themselves with that is in for a rough awakening
- If I see pictures of them doing performative protest stuff (which apparently is popular in my city)
- If I see certain words or phrases:
"Social justice" (this is an immediate, "don't even bother looking at the rest of the profile" disqualifier)
"Patriarchy"
"Feminist"
... and any words or phrases of that ilk
- If every picture is a giant group picture where I can't even tell who the hell the one chick is, because they all look like generic pharmacy blondes
- Obviously fake profiles -- usually plastic/almost anime looking Asian chicks. Have no idea why that's even a thing, but it's prominent in a couple of apps
There are some other minor annoying things (like the prominent use of the word "adulting") but they're not deal breakers.
For those of you who use dating apps - what things make you immediately disqualify a candidate?
EDIT: to state the obvious -- mods, if this topic is inappropriate for discussion, feel free to shut the thread down.
I am not.
I am not.
Although the apps "recommend" trans women to me from time to time. Every time I, uhhh... politely decline
So I guess Apache Attack Helicopters are also swipe left?
Don’t knock it til ya tried itI am not.
Although the apps "recommend" trans women to me from time to time. Every time I, uhhh... politely decline
Sure. From what you wrote, it sounds like it's possible you prefer to be alone, and are just having trouble either seeing that or admitting it to yourself. Because we're all "flawed," and you're always finding a "fatal flaw" in the other person.
Mrs. Goodface offers specialty services in exchange for candy. She's the opposite of the pedo van guy. The lip glaze cums from decades of face creaming. They do the same process with chefs and donuts.My good man, you're gonna have to give us a breakdown of just what the fuck is going on in this profile
should i make it official with her 
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I've been dating this girl on Hinge for a month and she still didn't let me hit yet
Send her an unsolicited dick pic. That always gives the ladies the horn.I've been dating this girl on Hinge for a month and she still didn't let me hit yet
I could just about imagine a man dressed as a woman, trying to convince that it's not a penis but a very large clit
Do a striptease for her! If doesn’t work she will find it funnyI've been dating this girl on Hinge for a month and she still didn't let me hit yet
Site hates me.
Maybe shouldn't have complained here about getting matched with my sisters friends, today I got matched with my own first cousin. The hell
It is time to increase the distance on the app or go on a road trip! Inbreeding is not cute! LolMaybe shouldn't have complained here about getting matched with my sisters friends, today I got matched with my own first cousin. The hell
That's... Quite the outfitWell atleast not related but other issues.
That filters out like 90% of the female population
The second I see close mindedness in terms of politics, from either side, I am out. Nothing irritates me more than someone who refuses to leave an echo chamber.
like 5 to 10 % of them. Holding signs, long prompt answers about this and that and being ‘vulnerable’. I mean therapy is good for some people and if it worked for you honey great, but I’m just happy af in my life and if that’s your ‘ask’, that’s a hard no.
Okay. So I popped on Hinge and the latest trend seems to be women REALLY wanting guys to be in therapy.
Think in that situation you've gotta be the bigger man and not fuck em. Report them to they're husband. I'd hate to be the husband getting fucked over when for all you know he could be a decent bloke.
It's not smug moral superiority to not want to be a part of fucking over some potentially innocent dude and family.
'I'm looking for a guy who knows what he wants.'
I know I don't want you.
I agree with both of you. A great example of the difference between idealism and practicality.
She looks like a scouse girl from the mid to late 2000s.Wait... This is a REAL picture? Of a real person?
Wait... This is a REAL picture? Of a real person?
Women saying they want men in tune with their feelings, while actually wanting a badass, is as old as time.Okay. So I popped on Hinge and the latest trend seems to be women REALLY wanting guys to be in therapy.
I was in a serious relationship with this woman a couple of years ago. When we started having serious problems, even before trying to talk them out and resolve them as, you know, two grown ass adults should (and as adults have been doing since the beginning of time), her immediate go to was... therapy.Okay. So I popped on Hinge and the latest trend seems to be women REALLY wanting guys to be in therapy.
