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[RevenantKioku]

It gets easier duders.
I'm at a point where I can go out with a date and if want to bang them I usually can, but pass. I'm having trouble finding a girl that I really like.

But just keep talking. Point out things you notice about here. One girl was talking about stuff in a really "Shit this feels like an interview" sorta way and I just interrupted her and said "You have incredibly straight teeth." And started looking into her mouth. She bursted out laughing and the night really shifted.
One, I picked up the girl, we had a bit of a conversation in the car, and as she gets out, her panties were showing above her pants and I just say "Holy shit, I didn't think I'd get to see your panties so quickly!" and it's amazing how more relaxed she became.
Joking isn't easy to get into but you learn and hey, just try stuff.

 

[SamuraiSilver]

for a bunch that cant gets dates....can we say shallow? all the fatty jokes and such don't get me wrong. no one wants to see a photo of a person that looks like chewbacca or anything, but damn

*looks up at last post* it is indeed about the conversational skills. fix up the convo skills, bathe daily, get rid of those hawaiin shirts, shoes with sandals and old/overly worn graphic t's..and THEN we can up the standards folks ><

 

[travisbickle]

I was at a party the other night, invited by my new flatmate, and I was chatting to one of her friends, getting on alright, having a laugh, nothing happened, party ended. Walking home with my flatmate she commented on how flirty I was, stroking the girl's arm, whispering to her, eye contact.

Quoting myself?!........... but I went out last night (till 3am on a work night!!) with my flatmate, and the girl was there again.......and I think I really fancy her, couldn't stop staring at her. The problem was I couldn't think of anything to say, she had her friend on one side of her, who kept looking over at me, and some guy that I've been told everyone thinks is gay on her other shoulder, but I reckon he wants a bit of the action. We went to a club, dancing and that, and I just kept getting cockblocked by random people when I was trying to talk/dance with her.

I haven't really felt like this before, like it was necessary to talk to the girl although I couldn't think of anything to say?! I don't want to burden my flatmate with the details that I really want to see this girl naked, I've only known my flatmate for a month, but my flatmate does seem to want me to "get to know this girl", though I don't want to tell her I haven't had sex for 6 months and I get a hard-on every time she mentions her name!

What's my plan of action GAF? I reckon if I do the whole "please invite me out again, so I can see this girl" to my flatmate, my flatmate's going to put the pressure on me to make a move, and I'm playing it cool.

The other idea is, as she works at the weekends at a shop in town, I could go down there and ask her out, therefore bypassing my flatmate and looking like I've got initiative, confidence, self-assurance, shit that chicks dig, to the girl in question?

Only thing is if she knocks me back, my flatmate's gonna have something to say about it.


gaf......GAF???

 

[kojacker]

Quoting myself?!........... but I went out last night (till 3am on a work night!!) with my flatmate, and the girl was there again.......and I think I really fancy her, couldn't stop staring at her. The problem was I couldn't think of anything to say, she had her friend on one side of her, who kept looking over at me, and some guy that I've been told everyone thinks is gay on her other shoulder, but I reckon he wants a bit of the action. We went to a club, dancing and that, and I just kept getting cockblocked by random people when I was trying to talk/dance with her.

I haven't really felt like this before, like it was necessary to talk to the girl although I couldn't think of anything to say?! I don't want to burden my flatmate with the details that I really want to see this girl naked, I've only known my flatmate for a month, but my flatmate does seem to want me to "get to know this girl", though I don't want to tell her I haven't had sex for 6 months and I get a hard-on every time she mentions her name!

What's my plan of action GAF? I reckon if I do the whole "please invite me out again, so I can see this girl" to my flatmate, my flatmate's going to put the pressure on me to make a move, and I'm playing it cool.

The other idea is, as she works at the weekends at a shop in town, I could go down there and ask her out, therefore bypassing my flatmate and looking like I've got initiative, confidence, self-assurance, shit that chicks dig, to the girl in question?

Only thing is if she knocks me back, my flatmate's gonna have something to say about it.


gaf......GAF???

Man you've so many options.

What kind of shop does she work at? Can you just pop in for something (fall back excuse) and do the whole "Oh, I forgot you worked here. I'm just in to have a look... at whatever you sell. Did you have a good time the other night? Do you fancy a bit love?"

If you're not sure how she feels about you, or if she works in some weird "panty-Liner" shop, you could get your friend to find out on the sly. If the answer is green, then it's easy from there. If the answer is less than 'go', you may have to prove to the girl what a studly catch you are.

One way would be to return to her panty-liner shop, not only to buy a pack of fanny pads, but to put one on at the counter - all the time chewing gaped-mouthed on another. You could make it personalized by asking her for a used one. Make sure to wear clean underwear that day or your mating display might put her off.

 

[travisbickle]

Man you've so many options.

Comparitive to most GAFfers I'm doing pretty well.


She works in a trendy clothes shop in Glasgow, Frasers, I'm actually paranoid at saying the name in case someone actually reads this and knows what I'm talking about, but I had to say so you could get what I'm about to say.

She works in the men's clothing section of Frasers, sounds perfect, except Frasers is too f'ing trendy and a rip off. She has already commented on my fashion sense, saying I look good but it ain't difficult considering she studys on a HR management course so the guys there aren't exactly dedicate followers of fashion!

I reckon she's up for it, don't want to set myself up for a fall, the only problem is both my flatmates are women so already they are trying to give me advice about it, and it's embarrasing. My other flatmate was going on about the "practicalities" that women have for getting men and trying to make me apply them to my situation.

I might take a trip down to the shops this weekend, thinking of getting a "mod" look going on, look for some straight leg trousers, take a trip into Frasers.

 

[kojacker]

Comparitive to most GAFfers I'm doing pretty well.


She works in a trendy clothes shop in Glasgow, Frasers, I'm actually paranoid at saying the name in case someone actually reads this and knows what I'm talking about, but I had to say so you could get what I'm about to say.

She works in the men's clothing section of Frasers, sounds perfect, except Frasers is too f'ing trendy and a rip off. She has already commented on my fashion sense, saying I look good but it ain't difficult considering she studys on a HR management course so the guys there aren't exactly dedicate followers of fashion!

I reckon she's up for it, don't want to set myself up for a fall, the only problem is both my flatmates are women so already they are trying to give me advice about it, and it's embarrasing. My other flatmate was going on about the "practicalities" that women have for getting men and trying to make me apply them to my situation.

I might take a trip down to the shops this weekend, thinking of getting a "mod" look going on, look for some straight leg trousers, take a trip into Frasers.

If it's the one on Buchanan Street I'm going to pop in after dinner. I actually do HRM too and think i know who it might be, but she's not a gamer... I'll have to give her a link to this thread!!! :lol

Is her name

Spoiler

j/k... you're in, just ask her out

 

[travisbickle]

If it's the one on Buchanan Street I'm going to pop in after dinner. I actually do HRM too and think i know who it might be, but she's not a gamer... I'll have to give her a link to this thread!!! :lol

Is her name

Spoiler

j/k... you're in, just ask her out

Wait .......... what!! You've just given me a heart attack, I know there's one guy on here from Glasgow, is it you or are you just joking about the whole thing?

 

[kojacker]

Wait .......... what!! You've just given me a heart attack, I know there's one guy on here from Glasgow, is it you or are you just joking about the whole thing?

:lol Relax, I'm not a stranger to Glasgow but I'm not there now. However I am just a megabus away (and a ferry)

 

[travisbickle]

:lol Relax, I'm not a stranger to Glasgow but I'm not there now. However I am just a megabus away (and a ferry)

I'm liking Scotland, like the accent, I'm not too good at the geography are you somewhere on some highland island to have to get a ferry??

I'm gonna go for it this weekend, I've just decided.

 

[kojacker]

I'm liking Scotland, like the accent, I'm not too good at the geography are you somewhere on some highland island to have to get a ferry??

I'm gonna go for it this weekend, I've just decided.

I'm in Northern Ireland, and best of luck for the weekend. Don't forget to keep GAF updated so we can salute you!

 

[travisbickle]

I'm in Northern Ireland, and best of luck for the weekend. Don't forget to keep GAF updated so we can salute you!

I've already broken my first rule: Talking about my personal life, I'm not going to break my second: Regrettably informing members of GAF of my bitter failures in sexual conquests!

 

[8bit]

I've not lived in Glasgow for 6 years, but isn't Frasers quite expensive and upmarket compared to other stores?

 

[travisbickle]

I've not lived in Glasgow for 6 years, but isn't Frasers quite expensive and upmarket compared to other stores?

It's not cheap, but I just think it's a bit of a rip off for what you get, you're paying for the brand name on most of the stuff so you might as well buy it online if all you care about is the name, I'd prefer to go to a small boutique where it'll still be expensive but at least you're getting something with a bit of originality and probably a better cut. And it's wannabe upmarket, people that can't really afford it but pretend they can go there.

 

[Zombie James]

So instead, I decided to just try copy and pasting the same thing and just blast out like 50 different messages in the matter of about 10 minutes, and I already have a few responses. It seems like this is definitely the way to go.

And hell, its easier too. Laziness ftw.

I think i'm going to try this route. I've been on POF for a few months and I'm going nowhere.

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Sorry for the bump, didn't want to make a new thread.

 

[Ghost Leviathan]

Yeah, I used to do all this years ago, but then I became stronger than I ever was before in high school, really social with loads of friends, so now I go out without any fear, since they're just women and the outcome doesn't really matter, and get whoever is attractive and interested.

I could type a page about it, but to be honest, that's all there is to it. Most of it is about not giving a damn. Go out with your friends to bars and clubs, have fun, get drunk and if you want to, see who likes you, talk to them and make them laugh, and make a move.

Worked all through university, and is way more fun. Never looked back.

 

[norinrad21]

any success stories with online dating lately?

 

[i heart sluts]

Real Social Dynamics is all you need.

www.realsocialdynamics.com


I took a bootcamp and it changed me.

 

[Imm0rt4l]

Real Social Dynamics is all you need.

www.realsocialdynamics.com


I took a bootcamp and it changed me.

I remember those guys from "the game".