Internet's not bad so it must be the VPN. How much difference would it make? It doesn't matter, it should wrap up some time this weekend so long as my PC doesn't crash.
Is this normal? Do all Origin games download so slow? This is literally my first ever time using Origin for anything.
Do you have VPN connection on? If you have then disable that connection without touching preload.
Without VPN connection you will get full bandwidth that your connection is capable of. Origin can provide very very good speeds.