Thrustmaster T-Flight HOTAS is a 100% solid recommendation from me.
It has enough buttons to cover everything if you use some buttons as modifiers to create combos. There are lots of recommended keybinds for it in the ED community, so you could probably download an ED .options file from someone and modify it to suit you.
Here's an example, from the
ED forum. I'm not a huge fan of that particular setup, but it shows you what's possible.
My own keybinds leave some of the "never going to need this" commands on the keyboard rather than trying to cram them onto the HOTAS. Don't want to hit "jettison all cargo" by accident!
The more expensive sticks are presumably better and a second hat-switch on the throttle would be nice, but I'm not paying an extra >£100 for the privilege.
If you intend to play in VR and need a 100%, no-keyboard or mouse setup, it might be worth getting something better.
I hear there's a new version called the T-Flight HOTAS
4 that works with the PS4, but is otherwise identical to the T-Flight HOTAS
X that is compatible with PS3. Only physical/visual difference is a blue colour scheme.
Also, I hear that the '4' version is not backwards compatible with the PS3.
I assume neither is XBone compatible but I don't know.
I've always assumed the PC community is bigger, but the Alien was found by an XBox player IIRC, so I think it's a good size on both platforms.