I don't know. I think music is really personable for me so it's much easier for me to listen to a male vocalist. It's much easier for me to find the pain and angry to relate for the most part.
Like I have no issue watching films with female leads, or play games with female leads. It's just fucking music that does this.
I mean, I can get down on some male vocalists, stuff like Brand New and Bright Eyes are always going to be on my playlist.
For me though, the lyrics are the most important part of the song (if it's going to have any staying power) and I find that most male vocalists don't have great lyrical styles. Especially in my preferred genres. So I stick with female vocalists.
All of that said, I do think women just sound better in musical arrangements most of the time. Make me choose between having to listen to some vapid male pop star or some vapid female pop star and I'll choose the female pop star every single time, I find male pop vocals annoying.
And while I do think men are poisoned from birth with toxic masculinity that pervades our culture and makes us (for the most part) emotionally distant and encourages violence, I don't hate men.
So, long story short, you aren't sexist if you prefer a specific gender vocal.
