Even nutella haters are a thingIt's hard to ruin something that was ruined to begin with.
so uh, that girl I was into that moved to NYC is apparently back
should I vie for her attention or let her come to me?
What are you after? A hookup? A relationship? Do you feel ready for the latter?
D1: primary responsibility is holding the line and providing steady guidance for everyone else. Some occasionally fill a similar role as a forward and great ones are just as well know as great ones at other positionsHmmm...
Not sure about that... :|
I was with you with the Goalie/Drummer comparison though.
Also, you're a lot cooler now, now that I know you're a goalie and drummer.
You were cool before that too... ;P
D1: primary responsibility is holding the line and providing steady guidance for everyone else. Some occasionally fill a similar role as a forward and great ones are just as well know as great ones at other positions
D2: background supporting role. (Tbh I couldn't think of a 6th instrument)
LW: consistent support for the melody. Won't get many accolades but there's an art to what they do
RW: flashy memorable. Usually the second person who you think of in the group. Has times where they just take over in the middle and can get known outside of the context of the group
C: face of the entire thing. Often in charge of what happens out there and also likely to be able to dictate what happens off the ice. Usually the first person you think of when you consider the group
Well If you go with the general trend with the rest then rhythm=defense/grit and melody= offense so just give the lead singer a tambourineStill not on board...
The best C's have to be great 2 ways players.
Almost as if they would be the lead guitarist.
Or maybe a Singer and guitarist combo
I dunno, just seems there's too many variables to make it a perfect analogy with a band. :|
If she's some kind of semi popular touring musician or whatever (correct me if I'm mistaken) it's nothing I'd spend energy chasing unless I was also one of those things
I could be wrong but that's my instinct
Wait I don't remember what happened last time Seth. Did you ever confess your feelings, or did you give up because she moved away? That changes my recc this time.
Have any of you seen The Shallows? I keep figuring it's hard to go wrong with Blake Lively and sharks.
Choosing a movie to go to!
She was totally letting you down easy. Sorry Seth![]()
Once you get in you'll adjustMan i always pour my bathwater way too hot
I'm making tiny smores in the tub rn
yeah I watched it this past weekend with the star wars socks girl
it's good dumb fun. the ending was kind of weak though.
and yeah I told her what was up, she was flattered but said that she was moving so.... kind of thinking she isn't down but didn't want to be mean about it.
My solution would be the whole frog in boiling water thing. As the water gets more gradually warm while you're in the still filling up tub, you'll be better adjusted to taking a hot bath.Man i always pour my bathwater way too hot
Well If you go with the general trend with the rest then rhythm=defense/grit and melody= offense so just give the lead singer a tambourine
But the point is more that centers are the stars. Not often where other players overshadow the centers.
I'll say this Jobbs, I don't think it would be a very good date movie.
without giving too much away, the movie is kind of about her getting hurt in some pretty brutal ways.
kind of feeling like I'm going to be hermit status henceforth tbh
I would like to think that when I have more time something will happen but the people I actually like are so rare that it's looking pretty bleak.
maybe I shouldn't be so specific.
yeah I watched it this past weekend with the star wars socks girl
it's good dumb fun. the ending was kind of weak though.
yeah, we are still friendly but it's pretty clear it isn't going to work out.
I don't get it. I have so much of my life figured out except for that. not sure what the deal is or what I need to change.
pardon me while I mope for the rest of the day
@SolVanderlyn IIRC you liked Myst games and I saw some Myst like games are coming. In case you're interested.
Obduction
The Eyes of Ara
Haven Moon
How dare you. Don't distract him from Ys, Vaz!
Having your life figured out doesn't mean anything if it's not a life that someone else wants to share. There are so many factors in attraction and interest, it's folly to boil things down to having life figured out. For one thing, there are myriad different kinds of mature adult you can be. For another, having your shit figured out isn't a prerequisite for everyone.
I don't know this girl so I don't know what she wants or doesn't want. But if she's not interested right now then you have to be okay with that. There's nothing worse than a guy who keeps thinking he has a chance when you feel like you've already made it quite clear that there's not.
Having your life figured out doesn't mean anything if they're not interested in you as a person
Not saying you're a bad person, cause your great, but you're not going to scratch everyone's itch, you know? Like not everyone is gonna be interested and that's okay. It happens to all of us.
I think he's saying "why haven't I found someone yet" rather than "why doesn't she (specifically) like me". He already basically said that he gave up due to different reasonsHaving your life figured out doesn't mean anything if it's not a life that someone else wants to share. There are so many factors in attraction and interest, it's folly to boil things down to having life figured out. For one thing, there are myriad different kinds of mature adult you can be. For another, having your shit figured out isn't a prerequisite for everyone.
I don't know this girl so I don't know what she wants or doesn't want. But if she's not interested right now then you have to be okay with that. There's nothing worse than a guy who keeps thinking he has a chance when you feel like you've already made it quite clear that there's not.
If you were sending me d pics and vids I wouldnt have to do this. Also he can finish Ys games before those games come out for most of the part.
Insatiable.
I'm pretty sure I already said I'm letting it go.
but yeah, good insight on everything else.
Yeah, that's a better reading than I had. And you're right. Sometimes you just keep striking out and it makes no sense, like all the bad luck Lea keeps having.I think he's saying "why haven't I found someone yet" rather than "why doesn't she (specifically) like me". He already basically said that he gave up due to different reasons
And the answer is basically just that it's random and the only way to increase the odds is keep meeting new people (or lower your standards but personally that's not something I consider to be a good idea)
I think he's saying "why haven't I found someone yet" rather than "why doesn't she (specifically) like me". He already basically said that he gave up due to different reasons
And the answer is basically just that it's random and the only way to increase the odds is keep meeting new people (or lower your standards but personally that's not something I consider to be a good idea)
Having your life figured out doesn't mean anything if they're not interested in you as a person
Not saying you're a bad person, cause your great, but you're not going to scratch everyone's itch, you know? Like not everyone is gonna be interested and that's okay. It happens to all of us.
i have so many questions about this
yeah this is what we're leaning towards
I know exactly what you mean only my family isn't exactly supportive.exactly.
thinking back on my various successes it's all been serendipity. nothing I have forced.
which is why I'm not all that bummed out. I didn't fail here. It just didn't happen. so I shouldn't be discouraged.
I think the real reason I'm down is because of a general lack of support from people in my life. basically my family are the only ones that are particularly encouraging. all my friends have their own shit going on. and other than this past weekend I haven't had any real social interaction in months.
it would be nice to have someone I was romantically entangled with be there to encourage and vice versa.
I think the real reason I'm down is because of a general lack of support from people in my life. basically my family are the only ones that are particularly encouraging. all my friends have their own shit going on. and other than this past weekend I haven't had any real social interaction in months.
it would be nice to have someone I was romantically entangled with be there to encourage and vice versa.
aaaghhhh lea you're killing me! hahaha. this is the cutest idea
I have so much to learn about taking baths. Total novice here
+there are jelly beans in the backI'm such a monster
It sounds like you need better friends, honestly. I know those can be really fucking hard to find, though.