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[Stiflers Mom]

*If I was a woman

off course

 

[mr.dilya]

That's only on the internet.

You can still pull women the old school way.....by approaching and talking to them in real life.

 

[Roronoa Zoro]

Looking forward to sex bots. I'm expecting way less maintenance than modern western women.

I'd settle for anime VR porn

 

[eot]

Oh so being gay is a choice? That's not what I've been lead to believe. /s

Well, there's always this option

Spoiler

 

[Stiflers Mom]

Well, there's always this option

Spoiler

Only on era...

 

[008]

From my experience and dating this year, I’ve only had sex with 5 different women(I thought it was 4, forgot about one). The big change I’ve made, since being single again, is skipping the women in their 30’s. I did go on a couple of dates, and it just reaffirmed what I’ve been thinking from previous relationships and their friends. They are typically damaged in some way or another, and surprisingly their standards are high and have random men around whether in person or social media they communicate with.

Currently dating a new one in her 20’s and it’s just so much easier.

 

[eot]

From my experience and dating this year, I’ve only had sex with 5 different women(I thought it was 4, forgot about one). The big change I’ve made, since being single again, is skipping the women in their 30’s. I did go on a couple of dates, and it just reaffirmed what I’ve been thinking from previous relationships and their friends. They are typically damaged in some way or another, and surprisingly their standards are high and have random men around whether in person or social media they communicate with.

Currently dating a new one in her 20’s and it’s just so much easier.

How old are you yourself?

 

[nush]

The big change I’ve made, since being single again, is skipping the women in their 30’s.

I'd add an exception to that. Divorced woman are awesome in thier +30's BUT only once you've ascertained that they were not the shit one in the marriage. As those at fault and not at fault both blame the man so it will take some cross referencing and consistent storytelling to know which type you've got. You still have to make the positive noises when they are telling you the story, just reserve judgement for a while.

 

[mickaus]

I thought that. Living in China I got a lot of girls to go out with me...been dry since coming back from there. Not to say I'm the best catch out there but damn, not even a hello most of the time.

I too have had that experience. When I was in South Korea I was getting lots of attention from the ladies, then when I came back to Australia I was noticed most by a variety of Asian ladies (Malaysian, chinese I think, korean). But when I was around Australian women absolutely nothing, and nothing still to this day. So strange.

 

[SurprisedPikachu]

I have been in several long term relationships (7 years, 5 years, a couple of three years ones) plus living together with some of those women.

And it's imo impossible to have this happy relationship us men want with normal women.
All we want is:
* respect and love
* having sex two times a week
* being able to do our hobby without getting nagged at

After over twenty six years of long term relationships I still don't have any idea how to make women happy. That thing that made them happy this week might be completely wrong the next, etc..
It just doesn't make any sense.

I really prefer being alone now, farting, watching action movies and drinking beer on my couch with some good buddies from time to time, and sometimes fucking some Tinder hoes.

Life can be so good.

When I got married everything was fine. Now she tells me I don’t spend enough time with her despite not changing anything. I work, stop working (still working from home) and spend time with her. We have kids too so I spend time with them as well so if anything changed it was that but I would never change because that is expected- I love my kids and will spend equal amounts of time with them.

 

[thefool]

I think the problems in online dating are overblown. Yes, unless you're in the top 2-3% you won't get a fuckton of matches, but how many matches you get isn't necessarily correlated with how much success you'll have getting a relationship. If you're just looking to hook up, then sure, it's harder for men but that's not online dating's fault. Anyway the point is that a good relationship is mutual, so setting aside gay relationships it's obvious that it's equally hard for men to find a good relationship as it is for women.

Also, having lots of matches on tinder is actually fucking exhausting.

I don't necessarily disagree with anything you said, but younger generations are relying too much on online dating and that is an issue because it's incredible unbalanced in gender ratio.
Tbh most of my dating also comes from tinder but that's because I have matches and I'm only interested in hooking up. But I also find that asking women in person is easier now than back then because a lot of guys simply won't do it. There's less competition.

 

[008]

How old are you yourself?

In my 30’s. The women I’ve been with this year sexually was 33, 23, 23, 20, and now current one she’s in her 20’s.

I'd add an exception to that. Divorced woman are awesome in thier +30's BUT only once you've ascertained that they were not the shit one in the marriage. As those at fault and not at fault both blame the man so it will take some cross referencing and consistent storytelling to know which type you've got. You still have to make the positive noises when they are telling you the story, just reserve judgement for a while.

The 33 year old I was briefly with had been divorced for a year+.

A hard rule for me, I do not date single moms. If or when I want to start a family, it’ll be my own kid.

 

[and 3 others]

In my 30’s. The women I’ve been with this year sexually was 33, 23, 23, 20, and now current one she’s in her 20’s.



The 33 year old I was briefly with had been divorced for a year+.

A hard rule for me, I do not date single moms. If or when I want to start a family, it’ll be my own kid.

Like they say, raising a kid not your own, is like playing on someone else's save file.

 

[nush]

I don't necessarily disagree with anything you said, but younger generations are relying too much on online dating and that is an issue because it's incredible unbalanced in gender ratio.
Tbh most of my dating also comes from tinder but that's because I have matches and I'm only interested in hooking up. But I also find that asking women in person is easier now than back then because a lot of guys simply won't do it. There's less competition.

It's true, so many guys take themselves out of the game early doors.

 

[Super Mario]

Women: men expect unrealistic things in a woman. They want us to workout and take care of our bodies

Also women: I want a man who works out and takes care of his body. He needs to be 6 foot tall. Have a nice beard. Have lots of money.

 

[FreedomOfSpeech]

Feminism has duped women and demonized men.

Any man that is utterly confused, read this:

 

[Stiflers Mom]

I too have had that experience. When I was in South Korea I was getting lots of attention from the ladies, then when I came back to Australia I was noticed most by a variety of Asian ladies (Malaysian, chinese I think, korean). But when I was around Australian women absolutely nothing, and nothing still to this day. So strange.

Experienced that a lot when living in Japan for a while in my twenties.
Not to sound racist, but I think it has simply to do with that a lot of asian chicks simply dig white men.

 

[p_xavier]

From my experience and dating this year, I’ve only had sex with 5 different women(I thought it was 4, forgot about one). The big change I’ve made, since being single again, is skipping the women in their 30’s. I did go on a couple of dates, and it just reaffirmed what I’ve been thinking from previous relationships and their friends. They are typically damaged in some way or another, and surprisingly their standards are high and have random men around whether in person or social media they communicate with.

Currently dating a new one in her 20’s and it’s just so much easier.

Wow. I couldn't fathom on how someone only had 5 different sex partners. I have that on a regular weekend night. Dating/sexing women seems really impossible.

 

[eot]

 

[oagboghi2]

I watched the original video and explored her channel a bit.

She’s just a preacher who is good at expressing where her mind is presently at and then translating that into how she thinks other people should think and behave based on that. I inherently reject people who behave that way. It’s just the modern equivalent of delivering a sermon. It doesn’t mean what she’s conveying is grounded in anything other than her own feelings at the time.

So she is a normal human being with an opinion?

 

[Weiji]

Men are fertile until the day they die. Women fertility start declining around 30 years old, they were born with a finite number of eggs. Every decade after 30 will pose more risk for women to conceive and support children.

I don't think men are the ones who has to worry about finding a partner. Most women are driven by urges to have children and have safety. The liberals and feminists have put some of these impressionable activist women's life prospects into a corner by telling them they should dye their hair purple, write off men, and be a strong independent women.

When these brainwashed women hit their 30's and 40's, they're going to realize their skin will begin to wrinkle, things will begin sagging, and their body begin losing its physical appeal. They will wake up and red pill so fast. It's all fun and games when you have your parents to support you in your 20's. When you hit 30 and realize you need a stable house, a loving family, and safety, it's already too late for these activist females. They will have wasted the most productive time in their life and they will be filled with regrets.

You are correct of course, but women’s high standards and inflated egos as a result of aforementioned programming help ensure that even in their early thirties they can’t see the forrest for the trees.

The result is that they don’t realize what’s happening until mid / late thirties. By then it’s far too late. There are basically no men who will be interested at that point, and the ones that are will be so beneath them they will struggle find anyone.

So they will become embittered by the loss of male interest and by their 40s they’ll have more or less consigned themselves to being alone forever.

Guess what, lonely angry women vote left until they die. Perpetuating the cycle, convinced that their situation is a misogynistic problem (men are pigs) rather then one of their own creation.

This also ironically further solidifies they’re opinion about the importance of being a “strong independent women” (Since men have proven unreliable) and they preach it as a true believer to younger generations.

You can hardly blame them, it makes sense as a defense mechanism since there’s nothing they can really do “fix” the problem at that point.

Western civilization is fucked.

 

[Romulus]

I'm 6'5, its hilarious how many short girls feel literally entitled to date someone my around height. "6'3 and not a hair less."

Bitch you're 5'4

 

[008]

Wow. I couldn't fathom on how someone only had 5 different sex partners. I have that on a regular weekend night. Dating/sexing women seems really impossible.

Damn Covid

 

[Texas Pride]

Women are always looking to upgrade to someone better but they lie about it. They're genetically driven to find the best mate for their own security and survival. Since there's more women than men on Earth it makes them adversarial within their own sex. If anything men have more of a choice in a partner than women today. Having been married for 19 years now there's not much I haven't seen.

 

[Slings and Arrows]

MUST BE OVER 6FT
MUST HAVE A BEARD
GOOD BANTER

[Nope]

 

[BluRayHiDef]

Wow. I couldn't fathom on how someone only had 5 different sex partners. I have that on a regular weekend night. Dating/sexing women seems really impossible.

Are you being sarcastic?

 

[FreedomOfSpeech]

Western civilization is fucked.

Because men were too pussy to stand up to feminism.

Shit test result: failed.

 

[LordCBH]

The feeling of, as a dude; always being second best really sucks. It used to bother me a whole lot but now I’m like “ok you want a total James Bond type? Ok go out there and end up disappointed. Ima play my games, go to work, and eat animal crackers.”

 

[p_xavier]

Are you being sarcastic?

Not at all.

 

[Relativ9]

Yeah I call bs on this, there is no doubt that ideal are high, but standards are usually based on what they can get. Women get lonely just like men and instinctual needs and desires will always be a powerful force.

In my early 20s I was quite a fat dude (150kg at my heaviest) but I still got laid and had relationships with women objectively far more attractive than I was (and no, I'm not particularly blessed down south either). They might say they want a 6.5 Brad Pitt with Bill Gates bank account, but they'll usually also fall for people who aren't at all that if there is a connection. Heck I'd like to give Gal Gadot a run around the yard, but while my gf looks nothing like her I still wouldn't leave her for Gal.

 

[Vicetrailia]

You are correct of course, but women’s high standards and inflated egos as a result of aforementioned programming help ensure that even in their early thirties they can’t see the forrest for the trees.

The result is that they don’t realize what’s happening until mid / late thirties. By then it’s far too late. There are basically no men who will be interested at that point, and the ones that are will be so beneath them they will struggle find anyone.

So they will become embittered by the loss of male interest and by their 40s they’ll have more or less consigned themselves to being alone forever.

Guess what, lonely angry women vote left until they die. Perpetuating the cycle, convinced that their situation is a misogynistic problem (men are pigs) rather then one of their own creation.

This also ironically further solidifies they’re opinion about the importance of being a “strong independent women” (Since men have proven unreliable) and they preach it as a true believer to younger generations.

You can hardly blame them, it makes sense as a defense mechanism since there’s nothing they can really do “fix” the problem at that point.

Western civilization is fucked.

To be honest? Are you going to date a loser yourself? Everyone has high standards including men.

Yes men will fuck lots of things, but we like to fuck things.

 

[Coolwhhip]

Like they say, raising a kid not your own, is like playing over someone else's save file.

To me a kid from another dude is like a trophy in your house that says "I banged your girlfriend".

 

[and 3 others]

To me a kid from another dude is like a trophy in your house that says "I banged your girlfriend".

Can you rephrase this. I'm having a hard time reading for context.

 

[TaySan]

I don't agree. Would you date a loser yourself? Women aren't any different then men. I think men shouldn't put all their hopes on apps such as Tinder for dating.

 

[Weiji]

To be honest? Are you going to date a loser yourself? Everyone has high standards including men.

Yes men will fuck lots of things, but we like to fuck things.

My experience by and large has been that men in their 20s actually want a relationship and to settle down.

Quite the opposite of the stereotype.

Pickiness being that the girl isn’t ugly and isn’t fat. That’s basically it.

But the women they date refuse to commit presumably because so many guys are out there hitting them up on tinder non stop.

 

[and 3 others]

I don't agree. Would you date a loser yourself? Women aren't any different then men. I think men shouldn't put all their hopes on apps such as Tinder for dating.

Gonna have to agree. I think people need to remember women are the gate keepers to evolution. If women hadn't been picky for 100's of thousands of years, we wouldn't be where we are today. *Fake edit* now that I say that, maybe that wasn't for the best.

 

[Vicetrailia]

My experience by and large has been that men in their 20s actually want a relationship and to settle down.

Quite the opposite of the stereotype.

Pickiness being that the girl isn’t ugly and isn’t fat. That’s basically it.

But the women they date refuse to commit presumably because so many guys are out there hitting them up on tinder non stop.

Supply and Demand my friend. Some people have more options to play with.

 

[Coily]

the chase has always been part of humanity but online dating + mobile apps have given all the cards to women.

Women on online dating sites now act like Recruiters or an HR. The game got harder

 

[MastAndo]

When you have dozens upon dozens of potential suitors constantly at your fingertips, with a bunch of thirsty dudes on social media treating you like hot shit when you're probably closer to mild shit, I could see how it might be hard to not develop an inflated sense of self.

It's a great time if you're just looking to hook up, but a pretty shitty time (relatively) if you're looking to find someone to settle down with for the long haul.

 

[BluRayHiDef]

Not at all.

You frequently have sex with five women every weekend? How and where do you attract them?

 

[Deleted member 17706]

I'm so glad I got married with the girl I met in college before all of this Tinder shit.

Sounds like an absolute nightmare to meet dating partners in modern times, especially once you're outside of school.

 

[Newly Vacant]

I can’t imagine dating now. The sheer amount of men and women available, because of dating apps and websites has dramatically changed everything. People can afford to have higher standards when the dating pool is so large. It’s no longer who you go to school with, who you work with, who you meet at bars, and the friends of those people. It’s now everyone in a 25 to 100 mile radius.
On topic, I don’t blame women for having higher standards. It just a natural progression. I don’t think it’s healthy to constantly be looking for perfection, but I understand it.

 

[Cunth]

I love when women put a page long intro on their dating profile about their expectations. lol youre supposed to hide that shit till after marriage bitch

 

[synchronicity]

I love when women put a page long intro on their dating profile about their expectations. lol youre supposed to hide that shit till after marriage bitch

After I divorced I dabbled in dating a bit, only to realize I've got no interest in the vast majority of what's out there. Those requirements/expectations you mentioned, lol. I'm like, "Woman, who do you think you are?!"

But if men weren't so thirsty, they couldn't be so demanding. Too many men are too desperate. If we (collectively) changed our approach, you'd watch that attitude make a 180.

 

[and 3 others]

You frequently have sex with five women every weekend? How and where do you attract them?

From 19-27 that was essentially me. Not something I'm proud of.

 

[Atrus]

You frequently have sex with five women every weekend? How and where do you attract them?

Regular weekend night.

Easy to do if homeless drug addicts or third-world prostitutes are desperate for a score or if you consider masturbating to images of women as a sex act with those women.

 

[Hulk_Smash]

It’s like that life coach was specifically talking about her.

 

[infinitys_7th]

Men are fertile until the day they die. Women fertility start declining around 30 years old, they were born with a finite number of eggs. Every decade after 30 will pose more risk for women to conceive and support children.

I don't think men are the ones who has to worry about finding a partner. Most women are driven by urges to have children and have safety. The liberals and feminists have put some of these impressionable activist women's life prospects into a corner by telling them they should dye their hair purple, write off men, and be a strong independent women.

When these brainwashed women hit their 30's and 40's, they're going to realize their skin will begin to wrinkle, things will begin sagging, and their body begin losing its physical appeal. They will wake up and red pill so fast. It's all fun and games when you have your parents to support you in your 20's. When you hit 30 and realize you need a stable house, a loving family, and safety, it's already too late for these activist females. They will have wasted the most productive time in their life and they will be filled with regrets.

Every decade? Every year after 30 increases risk of birth defects, and after 35 those risk start increasing even further each year. After 40, the kid will probably end up like Chris Chan, and I mean that seriously.

It's almost a form of selfish child abuse for older women (>40, maybe even a little younger) to purposefully have kids naturally IMO - they should adopt if they want them that late.

I don't agree. Would you date a loser yourself? Women aren't any different then men. I think men shouldn't put all their hopes on apps such as Tinder for dating.

It's amazing - men can't have expectations for physical attraction or intimacy, but women can literally want 7 foot tall Prince Charming on a horse to take them back to a golden castle and that's A-OK.

 

[TaySan]

It's amazing - men can't have expectations for physical attraction or intimacy, but women can literally want 7 foot tall Prince Charming on a horse to take them back to a golden castle and that's A-OK.

Who said men can't? Just don't expect a ton of catches if all you chase are 10's and you are not a 10 yourself. On apps like tinder when the ratio of thirsty men outweigh women obviously Women have more to choose from.

 

[Coolwhhip]

Can you rephrase this. I'm having a hard time reading for context.

Like a trophy from the ex boyfriend on your mantle with the inscription "I banged your girlfriend".