what are some examples of macros you would use in the game?
im not familiar with....high level stuff lol so I have no idea how the flow of combat at upper levels affects controls requirements if that makes sense
FFXI is heavily dependent on gear swaps to get the most out of weaponskills and such. For example, there is gear (back when 75 was cap) that had high STR and DEX but it had +Slow percentage on it. If you wore that full time, the delay of your attacks would be longer. With gear swaps, you could swap that in just for your weaponskill, then swap back to your normal attack gear.
There is definitely less button mashing than, say, World of Warcraft, since most of FFXI battles (for melee at least) consists of auto attack.
I'd also add in things like /recast "Utsusemi: Ichi" in a line on my Utsu macro which would give me a timer in my chat log of how long the recast is for that spell. In the same macro I'd swap in Haste gear that might not normally be part of my normal attack gear to make the recast of that spell be lower.
I personally macro'd everything. I never selected abilities or spells from the menu as I would quickly memorize the macro (or key in the case of my Logitech keyboard with programmable keys) and be able to execute abilities/spells without having to scroll through anything.
So for weapons skills you could have a macro that was /ws "Fast Blade" <t> and that would allow you to use that weaponskill with just a click of whatever macro you have it programmed to (Ctrl+1, Alt+1, etc.).
Job abilites are /ja. So /ja "Provoke" <t> would provoke your target, or /ja "Sentinel" <me> would use Sentinel on yourself.
Magic is /ma (I think...my memory is slowly fading)
Played for a bit tonight, made a Tarutaru named Okyokyo on Slyph. Picked the Thief job to start, not sure how I feel about it so far. Probably too early to tell since Im only level 6. Died brutally twice already, lol. Not quite used to the controls yet either; trying to select my friend's target while they're in combat is a pain.
Lots of learnin to do with this game, basically have no idea whats going on save for the killing monsters
Make a macro with /assist <t>
If you have your friend targeted and execute that macro, it will shift your target to what he/she is attacking.