I guess I need to do Bahamut's coil more often, I have absolutly no 90 equipment from there (and it begins to be a problem, since my ilvl is stuck to 73 as a Bard)
You should be getting some i90 pieces with your myth tomes, and supplementing your gear progression with some of the better Ballad pieces from Crystal Tower. If you're feeling daring you could even try your luck getting the i90 aiming ring from Garuda EM. An easier goal could be Ultima HM too who drops i80 chokers and rings for each role. For now, ignore the secondary stats and just focus on getting that primary stat of Dex up. These options should be more than enough to get you comfortably geared for Coil, compared to pre-2.1 where full DL was pretty much our only options, and 3 weeks of Myth went into our dumb weapons.