The former, only pair up bonuses can exceed the caps iirc.
Permanent boosts cannot, but I believe temporary boosts such as the tonics can actually take you over caps. Never really used them though, so not sure.
Ugh, running through Rogues 3 for a decent amount of limit breaks (got 4 down so far, Chrom, Avatar, Lucina, and Morgan) and while it feels good to see 3+ skill ups again instead of 0/1, I'm having to micro-manage breaking weapons at this point.
Almost wondering if it's more worth it to second seal anyone who can class change to a mercendary, use paragon + the zombie map to get armsthrift, then never worry about breaking anything again.
Also, Brady is by far my worst kid at this point. Level 8 Warrior and 32 speed
Probably doesn't help that I just threw Maribelle with Vaike, lol.