That mentality was very prevalent even in the west till1960's, bro, back then western countries still had decently high birthrates, right before crazy feminism push and discovery/massmarket usage of birthcontrol pill

U arent stupid, its simple math, look at it from logical side w/o all the leftist indoctrination that was put on u likely from early age(happy wife happy life mindset and praising slutty behaviour

).
Nowadays in 2025 feminism is so prevalent even outside western countries that even population juggernauts like china have super low birthrate
en.wikipedia.org
Just 2 quick examples: 1963 in china was peak with 8,56 kids born per woman, newest data aka 2024 thats only 1,15 (with 2,1 birthrate needed to sustain population).
Saddest thing tho is society and avg ppl(both men and women) dont benefit from feminism at all, only ppl who benefit are top of the top 1% men(combo of status/looks/wealth, ofc charisma/being funny/proper vibe helps majorly too), coz then they can fuck myriad of bitches all the time(And not get married coz for what? U got access to young women who are willing to fuck u w/o any commitment, unlike before where u actually had to marry a girl to sleep with her), even their side hoes got hoes