Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.
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Crisco said:
I imagine there a lot of "just dump her, and move on" responses, and I agree, but give your self a little time for introspection first. Did you do anything that might have pushed her away? Has she been subtly hinting (or outright telling you) that she was losing interest? Relationships are hard man, and keeping a woman interested is probably the hardest part. Most you will tell you, or at least you warn you first, that they are getting bored and if you don't do something different (if you want to keep her) then that's on you. Hell, it's not hard to notice even she's trying to hide it, at least if it's someone that you know pretty well. Bottom line is that it's unlikely this came from nowhere, and while that doesn't excuse her behavior (cheating is cheating, she should have just broken up with you), learn what you did (or didn't do) to lose her interest for future relationships.
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Relationships are not supposed to be about one party doing enough to keep the other party interested and entertained. Its a two-way street where both make sacrifices for one-another. If she was so bored then she could have just dumped him and went on to bang the other guy. She clearly has no conscious because she even has no issues hooking up with a married guy. Let's not even mention how scummy the married guy is for cheating on his wife. What a mess all around.

The OP has absolutely no fault in this.
 
Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.
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Please don't do anything crazy. If you get the sense that the guy is trying to escalate things into a physical confrontation, call the police.
 
OP is so great. This is the first OP in a long, recent string of date OPs that isn't going to go out like a punk. Yes.
 
M_Night said:
Yeah what's the housing situation between you both?
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I live with my parents, she lives with hers.
My house is near her office, so she stays over a few days a month because her house is roughly one hour away and public transportation sucks over here.
 
Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.
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You're the man OP !

but seriously, dont do anything stupid ..
 
Confront her and that guy's wife and do a tell all. Then dump her.
Do nothing more.

People saying not to get involved in others affair are forgetting that he got involved in the OP's relationship despite probably knowing about OP and not to mention while being married.
 
Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.
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Ehhh.....might want to leave that where ever you keep it stored. Just kick his ass if you absolutely feel you have to do anything. You might go to jail briefly, but if a gun enters the picture....you can pretty much just pack it up.
 
Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.



We had our ups and downs. But we were working to get it fixed and it really felt like everything was perfect this time. It felt like the first few dates, you know? When everything is pure euphoria.
I think I just couldn't do anything to regain her interest. No matter how hard I tried (and I fucking did) she was already focusing on that prick.
You know what's fucked up? She stayed 22 days on my place this month and that's when I say it was our best month, we did pretty much everything. I fucking woke her up, make her breakfast everyday and more. She stepped out of my house and started sending "cute" audio messages to that asshole. I didn't even know. But now I do.
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Goddamn, that fucking sucks, bro. That would ENRAGE me.

It's almost worse in some ways than if she just outright slept with the guy.

How could someone do that? What the fuck, man?
 
Gaf, time to stop enabling. OP is like my girlfriend's schnauzers when they get crazy riled up and she just keeps egging them out. Eventually you need to tone it down.

Let's ixnay any talk of guns, shall we? What he said was terribly stupid for all kinds of reasons. Like, so many reasons. I could make a long post about those reasons, but I have to stop browsing Gaf sometime this morning.

OP, stop talking crazy. Break up with your girlfriend of 10 months, let the man's wife know what he's been up to and leave things there.
 
OP sounds like a baby in his first relationship. Wow and other gaf members are praising him... Wow. None of your story is outlandish or symtrange or heartbreaking, people fall out of love and become emotionally attached to other people. Don't be such a pussy trying to act all cool ready to threaten a dude. be nice tell her it's over and that's it. Can't believe how badly your're acting. I know it sucks having your significant other not love you the same back but that's part of life.
 
Yep, time to end it. I dropped an ex after she wrote a letter to her best friend on my computer in Word detailing how she cheated on me and how she totally was into this guy etc. Like a dumbass, she just straight turned my computer off (while I was at work) without closing Word and went on her merry way. I got home from work, turned on my PC and sure enough, Word was kind enough to ask me if I wanted to restore a document which closed unexpectedly. I waited until I knew she was asleep and called her in the middle of the night, because I know she loves her sleep, and just simply said I read your letter. Hearing silence and then "Oh shit" was pretty great. I said "It's over, pick up your shit tomorrow" and hung up. Best decision ever.
 
ant1532 said:
OP sounds like a baby in his first relationship. Wow and other gaf members are praising him... Wow. None of your story is outlandish or symtrange or heartbreaking, people fall out of love and become emotionally attached to other people. Don't be such a pussy trying to act all cool ready to threaten a dude. be nice tell her it's over and that's it. Can't believe how badly your're acting. I know it sucks having your significant other not love you the same back but that's part of life.
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felicia

hes clearly not going to do it considering the rest of this thread. he sounds like he just gotta vent a little. take a seat
 
Take her out to a restaurant tonight. Order the meal and eat. Before you leave(and before you pay), say you're going to the bathroom. Walk away from the table, leave the restaurant and go home. When she calls wondering the fuck what happened, tell her she's dumped and can walk the fuck home.

That's probably about as petty and vengeful as it would be civilized to be.
 
Anjelus_ said:
Gaf, time to stop enabling. OP is like my girlfriend's schnauzers when they get crazy riled up and she just keeps egging them out. Eventually you need to tone it down.

Let's ixnay any talk of guns, shall we? What he said was terribly stupid for all kinds of reasons. Like, so many reasons. I could make a long post about those reasons, but I have to stop browsing Gaf sometime this morning.

OP, stop talking crazy. Break up with your girlfriend of 10 months, let the man's wife know what he's been up to and leave things there.
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Can you point out these posts? Because I've only seen the OP mention a gun and like 3 pages saying not to do the crazy stuff he said he could. Please take your bullshit elsewhere.
 
ant1532 said:
OP sounds like a baby in his first relationship. Wow and other gaf members are praising him... Wow. None of your story is outlandish or symtrange or heartbreaking, people fall out of love and become emotionally attached to other people. Don't be such a pussy trying to act all cool ready to threaten a dude. be nice tell her it's over and that's it. Can't believe how badly your're acting. I know it sucks having your significant other not love you the same back but that's part of life.
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At least have the decency to end the relationship instead of flirting and planning to F*** the other party while being in a relationship. Everyone is advocating to dump her and tell the dude's wife that's all. Other than that he's just venting.
 
Sounds like she cheated you in all ways but the final one, and the other ways are equally important. Its called cheating, the "emotional" makes it sound like its worse than it already is, dumb her ass, learn from it and move the fuck on.

ant1532 said:
OP sounds like a baby in his first relationship. Wow and other gaf members are praising him... Wow. None of your story is outlandish or symtrange or heartbreaking, people fall out of love and become emotionally attached to other people. Don't be such a pussy trying to act all cool ready to threaten a dude. be nice tell her it's over and that's it. Can't believe how badly your're acting. I know it sucks having your significant other not love you the same back but that's part of life.
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Its a venting thread, take a seat and try to pay attention next time.
 
Seanspeed said:
Take her out to a restaurant tonight. Order the meal and eat. Before you leave(and before you pay), say you're going to the bathroom. Walk away from the table, leave the restaurant and go home. When she calls wondering the fuck what happened, tell her she's dumped and can walk the fuck home.

That's probably about as petty and vengeful as it would be civilized to be.
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And after you leave the restaurant, kill her parents.


But seriously, OP. 10 months isn't so bad - you're gonna be alright.
 
A) You were snooping. You were already dead.
B) They clicked.
If you have been together 10 months or so and you did not click to the point where she could be open with you, she never would be and it was treading water and on borrowed time.

It sucks that she did not have the nerve to just end things, I do not know anything about you or her.
Maybe she was afraid to end it, maybe just co-dependent, or maybe financial reasons.
Either way it sounds like this thing has been hollow for a while.


Edit: And do not fucking listen to most of the suggestions in this thread for fuck sake.
 
There's no need to:


a) get even
b) get mad
c) grasp



None of these things will help you. Break up with her in a courteous, maybe even dispassionate manner. Do it over text and wish her luck.
 
Kevtones said:
There's no need to:


a) get even
b) get mad
c) grasp

None of these things will help you. Break up with her in a courteous, maybe even dispassionate manner. Do it over text and wish her luck.
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nah, just dump her and tell the wife. No need to be courteous when she's trying to sleep with the other guy.
 
Zaraki_Kenpachi said:
Can you point out these posts? Because I've only seen the OP mention a gun and like 3 pages saying not to do the crazy stuff he said he could. Please take your bullshit elsewhere.
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He shouldn't have mentioned even the word "gun" for any reason whatsoever in this context. That's completely taking it too far and it's a dumbass thing to say. There's several posts made even after he said that that are continuing to praise his attitude. He needs to deescalate.

But yes, you're right, that's clearly "bullshit," as you say.
 
Revoh said:
She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.
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Don't do that. She ruined your relationship, not your life. It may feel that way now but don't do this. Letting the dudes wife know and kicking her to the curb is enough. Don't get dragged down by vengeance.
 
Revoh said:
I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.



We had our ups and downs. But we were working to get it fixed and it really felt like everything was perfect this time. It felt like the first few dates, you know? When everything is pure euphoria.
I think I just couldn't do anything to regain her interest. No matter how hard I tried (and I fucking did) she was already focusing on that prick.
You know what's fucked up? She stayed 22 days on my place this month and that's when I say it was our best month, we did pretty much everything. I fucking woke her up, make her breakfast everyday and more. She stepped out of my house and started sending "cute" audio messages to that asshole. I didn't even know. But now I do.
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Yeah man, sounds like you were trying but she had already made up her mind to cheat. At that point you're probably just dealing with a sociopath, or at least someone who clearly doesn't give a fuck about your emotions, so the gloves can definitely come off. Make the bitch pay.
 
Anjelus_ said:
He shouldn't have mentioned even the word "gun" for any reason whatsoever in this context. That's completely taking it too far and it's a dumbass thing to say. There's several posts made even after he said that that are continuing to praise his attitude. He needs to deescalate.

But yes, you're right, that's clearly "bullshit," as you say.
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Can you read? GAF hasn't been pushing him or putting thoughts of guns into his head. So yes, please drop the bullshit like GAF is going to make him going on a killing spree.
 
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