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[JBourne]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Don't do this. Do the other stuff, but this is too much.

 

[Effnine]

You need to GTFO ASAP.

Should have dropped her after that stuff started months ago ... Come on OP, plenty of other worthy people out there ...

 

[cheezcake]

I'm glad you've already told the guy wife, she has a right to know.

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Do not do this. Just dump her as cleanly and quickly as possible.

 

[ThornDust]

you're not thinking straight right now, OP. you'll regret it if you let her career go down in flames. Revenge isn't the answer here.

 

[Delicious Waffles]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

You shouldn't go that far.

Dump her, tell the other guy's wife, and move on.

 

[NoctisVsStar]

OP you told the guy's wife instead of deleting her info..you could try to get it in with the dude's wife. BAM

 

[Zaraki_Kenpachi]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

You're more fucked up than she is if you're considering that. That's going way way too far.

 

[Izuna]

I'm sorry to hear tbh. It hurts so much.

----

HOLY SHIT.

Dude that is fucked up and won't make you feel better.

 

[RumblingRosco]

Dump her and move on.

Do this.

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Don't do this. Dump her and move on. If you stoop to this level you'll look back years from now and severely regret it.

 

[Always-honest]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

You should be above that shit. This will only lead to a long and tiresome battle.
Take use of her guilty feeling and wrap things up as fast as you can.

 

[NoctisVsStar]

You're more fucked up than she is if you're considering that. That's going way way too far.

Ken... He's already a demon

 

[kewlmyc]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Don't sabotage a company and several people's income because your 10 month girlfriend cheated on you. You're a better person than that, I hope.

Dump her, tell the wife if you really want to, but that's it. Walk away dude.

 

[bud]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

you now have the power.

the power to ruin her life.

before he died, uncle ben told peter that with great power comes great responsiblity.

you have this great power.

you are in control.

you are the danger.

you are the guy who knocks.

 

[LeleSocho]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

No, this is not ok dude.
Break with her the most brutal way possible so you'll leave an emotional scar that she'll remember for a long while but don't fuck up with the work if other people are involved.
Maybe shame her a little by making public on her facebook that she's a cheating piece of shit but don't go as far as deleting everything she worked on.

 

[PeakPointMatrix]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Um.. tell the wife and do what you want, but don't do this.

 

[Joel Was Right]

guy is cheating
his brother gave his gift to OP's gf
... so the brother knew and he didn't do anything about it?
wtf bro

Probably a Gaf member with that 'it's none of your business' drivel

 

[Tagyhag]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Haha you're a scary mofo man.

Unless you enjoyed getting sued I'd stick with just telling the wife and maybe HR.

Definitely the wife though, she has a right to know, don't listen to people telling you to keep her in the dark, that's fucked up.

 

[farisr]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

As every single person has said in reply to this post, DO NOT DO THIS.

 

[entremet]

Dont' succumb to the Dark Side of the Force.

Success is the best revenge. Put that energy to bettering yourself and finding a better mate.

 

[stn]

OP - you've already done everything you needed to do. Don't sabotage her work or whatever, just leave it be. You don't need to create a new problem out of an old one. You took the high ground and did what many people are too scared to do. You also informed the wife, which was controversial but I still applaud you for it.

But leave it at that.

 

[giancarlo123x]

Just dump the garbage, screw that crappy marriage, and keep it going. I got screwed over before in the same exact way man and it sucks. We're great dudes I bet and one day someone much better will come along. Patience my friend. She'll get hers.

 

[kame-sennin]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

I thought you meant that exposing her relationship to her boss would get her fired. I could co-sign that. It would just be using her affair against her. But simply deleting her work stuff is beyond the boundaries of your dispute. At the point, you're in burning car Waiting to Exhale territory.

 

[Revoh]

Guys, I won't do that. Relax.
I'm just ending this shit up and telling the wife.
I expecte a shitstorm from that guy, I hope he comes knock my door (I live 3 blocks from her office).

 

[Bboy AJ]

Guys, I won't do that. Relax.
I'm just ending this shit up and telling the wife.
I expecte a shitstorm from that guy, I hope he comes knock my door (I live 3 blocks from her office).

When is this going down and do you have a live stream account

 

[wickfut]

OP.

Don't tell the wife. Trying to break up a marriage with a child up over some flirty facebook messages is a bit over the top. Especially as you don't actually know his real intentions - your GF may have just been some fun for him at work. He may not have had any real intention of meeting her.

Just split with her. Don't give her an explanation why and walk away. No replying to her texts, no venting of anger in her direction or talking about her to people. Complete radio silence and move on.

Revenge isn't going to make you feel better in the long run.

 

[crimzonflame]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Dont need to go that far. Just change her password and sell it back to her for $500

 

[Admiral Woofington]

Guys, I won't do that. Relax.
I'm just ending this shit up and telling the wife.
I expecte a shitstorm from that guy, I hope he comes knock my door (I live 3 blocks from her office).

Make sure to keep yourself secure then. You don't know what the man will do if you do end up ruining his life and if he knows where you live...

 

[RoninChaos]

Seeing the none of your business crowd come out is like watching a group of people show up to a blind date with signs above their heads that says " I have no self respect and won't stand up for myself". Or "I'm a pussy. Walk all over me and I'll take it". Either one applies.

As for the op. Scorch the earth. Tell the wife. Don't fuck with your girls job. That's a good way to get sued.

But if you did want to be a dick you could change the password to his name and hit her with it then.

Edit: stet and I think the same.

 

[Crisco]

I imagine there a lot of "just dump her, and move on" responses, and I agree, but give your self a little time for introspection first. Did you do anything that might have pushed her away? Has she been subtly hinting (or outright telling you) that she was losing interest? Relationships are hard man, and keeping a woman interested is probably the hardest part. Most you will tell you, or at least you warn you first, that they are getting bored and if you don't do something different (if you want to keep her) then that's on you. Hell, it's not hard to notice even she's trying to hide it, at least if it's someone that you know pretty well. Bottom line is that it's unlikely this came from nowhere, and while that doesn't excuse her behavior (cheating is cheating, she should have just broken up with you), learn what you did (or didn't do) to lose her interest for future relationships.

 

[Stet]

Change her password to the guy's name and when she freaks out about not being able to login tell her it's the name of her new boyfriend.

I imagine there a lot of "just dump her, and move on" responses, and I agree, but give your self a little time for introspection first. Did you do anything that might have pushed her away? Has she been subtly hinting (or outright telling you) that she was losing interest? Relationships are hard man, and keeping a woman interested is probably the hardest part. Most you will tell you, or at least you warn you first, that they are getting bored and if you don't do something different (if you want to keep her) then that's on you. Hell, it's not hard to notice even she's trying to hide it, at least if it's someone that you know pretty well. Bottom line is that it's unlikely this came from nowhere, and while that doesn't excuse her behavior (cheating is cheating, she should have just broken up with you), learn what you did (or didn't do) to lose her interest for future relationships.

no

 

[NoctisVsStar]

 

[Anjelus_]

OP's revenge plan is a one-way ticket to a lawsuit.

Judge: "Why did you sabotage this company?"
OP: "Uh... the Social Media Manager cheated on me."

Nope. Not going to fly. Just a terrible idea all around. It would just hurt people that have nothing to do with you.

 

[dani_dc]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

As tempting as this might sound right now, you shouldn't do it.
Plus it will only cause you more issues.

Just cut her off your life and don't look back.

 

[Izuna]

Change her password to the guy's name and when she freaks out about not being able to login tell her it's the name of her new boyfriend.

Okay... this is actually, something I would find funny.

Afterwhich you have no right to ever talk to her again though.

 

[barkers crest]

Change her password to the guy's name and when she freaks out about not being able to login tell her it's the name of her new boyfriend.



no

But what if she says that password didn't work?

 

[Madrin]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

Yeah, I'm gonna jump on the "don't do this" train with this one. You will likely negatively affect other people in the process of sabotaging her job.

 

[nukedawg]

I want to confront her today and end this shit. I'm fueled with rage. I could destroy that guy's marriage. I could make her lose her fucking job, too.

Fuck that guy, and her. Do it. Immature? Yes. I promise you'll feel good though.

 

[LeleSocho]

I really hope OP actually delivers and do not fall into the "i talked to her and we have decided we are going to take a break" camp, shit has to be brutal with her not even having the chance to explain herself, hell if they live together i would start packing everything that belongs to her and put it out the house door and don't even let her in... but i'm evil.

 

[Beatrix]

Dump her and move on. If you really want to destroy their then lives go for it. Me personally I would just leave her and the married guy to do whatever.

 

[Tekniqs]

dump the fuck outta that bish.

edti: don't try and get back at her/one up her. Don't stoop down to that level of petty shit. Just break up with her.

 

[ReturnOfTheRAT]

Ride the escalator back to the level that just involves telling her, the cheating bastard and his wife.

 

[Yoshichan]

Dump the asshole and be strong.

 

[fierro]

Keep it simple, tell the wife and break up with her.

Nothing else needs to be done.

 

[crimzonflame]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dZW1C3neao

 

[Gamerloid]

She uses one password for everything.
So guess what.
I know the password of the Facebook account she uses to manage Ads and shit like that for several brands.
She work as a Social Media Manager.
I could log in, delete everything, change password/email address and watch her world burn.

No, she's not worth the negativity. Just relax and get through this as smoothly as possible. The best revenge is making it in this world without her. Just find happiness, because her kind will naturally fall hard at some point.

EDIT: just seen that you're not going to do this. Carry on then.

 

[NoctisVsStar]

Dumb her ass and tell the wife. Keep it moving from there.. I hope the guy doesn't know where you live cause then things could get ugly.

 

[Fezzan]

I think that her trying to have sex with someone else behind your back makes it clear that you should dump her.

I would jyst stay out of everything else though, it's not worth getting involved.

 

[Revoh]

Make sure to keep yourself secure then. You don't know what the man will do if you do end up ruining his life and if he knows where you live...

I will open my door and high five him. My other hand will be holding my gun. I'm not afraid of a little pussy like him, I saw his pictures, he's nothing.

I imagine there a lot of "just dump her, and move on" responses, and I agree, but give your self a little time for introspection first. Did you do anything that might have pushed her away? Has she been subtly hinting (or outright telling you) that she was losing interest? Relationships are hard man, and keeping a woman interested is probably the hardest part. Most you will tell you, or at least you warn you first, that they are getting bored and if you don't do something different (if you want to keep her) then that's on you. Hell, it's not hard to notice even she's trying to hide it, at least if it's someone that you know pretty well. Bottom line is that it's unlikely this came from nowhere, and while that doesn't excuse her behavior (cheating is cheating, she should have just broken up with you), learn what you did (or didn't do) to lose her interest for future relationships.

We had our ups and downs. But we were working to get it fixed and it really felt like everything was perfect this time. It felt like the first few dates, you know? When everything is pure euphoria.
I think I just couldn't do anything to regain her interest. No matter how hard I tried (and I fucking did) she was already focusing on that prick.
You know what's fucked up? She stayed 22 days on my place this month and that's when I say it was our best month, we did pretty much everything. I fucking woke her up, make her breakfast everyday and more. She stepped out of my house and started sending "cute" audio messages to that asshole. I didn't even know. But now I do.

 

[Brinbe]

Def did the right thing telling the wife, she deserved to know. But really, just get it over with and move on. The sooner, the better because you deserve to be with someone who respects you. And the way she was sneaking around, while playing nice with you, she def doesn't.

It'll get better though. And it might be hard but don't stoop to her level.

 

[Tertullian]

I really hope OP actually delivers and do not fall into the "i talked to her and we have decided we are going to take a break" camp, shit has to be brutal with her not even having the chance to explain herself, hell if they live together i would start packing everything that belongs to her and put it out the house door and don't even let her in... but i'm evil.

Are you reading the thread? He sounds pretty mad. I don't think he's gonna drop the ball.