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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!
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It's like if I were to try it I would feel that there is something wrong in the relationship or it would just be straight up weird.Whatever the reason, the idea of someone strangling me / me strangling someone sounds like an instant mood killer for me. Granted, I haven't tried it but I'm not itching to try it to be honestI think it either appeals to you or it doesn't.
If it was some guy I took from the club or something then eh, whatever.
That was me at the gym today. Well, not literally. But two hot guys ended up sitting on the left and right side of my bench then another hot guy came and stand behind us. Fuck. I'd have orgy with all of them if they want to. If only that was not a gym but a gay sauna.
Yeah, yeah, I know how it sounds:
Naked Snake
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Whaaat? I find that feeling terrible. It's like getting a wet willy(not the good kind). I didn't think anyone would be turned on by that feeling
Yeah tongue in my ear is perhaps the only thing in making out that I absolutely can't stand, and sucks that I often need to blurt that out during the act with someone new because most guys tend to do it.
...W-why?
Naked Snake
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It's just produces a very unpleasant sensation for me, I don't have a rational way of explaining it. It's like someone being extremely ticklish; they can't do anything about it. Same here.
Edit: oh I didn't notice the part you bolded before, I thought you were asking why I don't like it... Well I don't know why guys do it, I thought it was normal/ common? I know I like to lick and gently bite at and around guys' ears, licking inside doesn't seem like big jump from that.
I think he was asking why most guys tend to do it. I sure don't know a lot of people that try to orally service someone's ear.
Naked Snake
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Yeah I edited my previous post.
Maybe it's an orifice thing? I've even had guys try to lick inside my nostrils *shrug*
Don't see what the big deal is really, you're taking about sex here, there are no limits to what people seem to like to do. I love sniffing, licking and sucking toes and feet for example, I bet someone will go "W-why?" over that too.
Most of this stuff really depends on the person, yeah. I adapt a lot to different sex partners because if hygiene is good, there's not really any limit and you can find a lot of new areas of your body you didn't know to have so many nerves.
For example, first time I got my jaw nibbled on I almost got an instant orgasm. And that goes for a lot of stuff. There are guys that enjoy spit play a lot an others that will put a disgust face if you ever contribute with a little bit more saliva than necessary on a kiss. Some that will scream in pleasure if you pinch their nipples and others that don't care at all. It's all just a matter of trial and error. There's nothing written about sex, really.
For example, first time I got my jaw nibbled on I almost got an instant orgasm. And that goes for a lot of stuff. There are guys that enjoy spit play a lot an others that will put a disgust face if you ever contribute with a little bit more saliva than necessary on a kiss. Some that will scream in pleasure if you pinch their nipples and others that don't care at all. It's all just a matter of trial and error. There's nothing written about sex, really.
if your man is watching TV sitting on a couch with his (CLEAN for god's sake) feet crossed on top of a table, you can go there and kneel down and do that stuff as he continues to watch his favorite TV show.
I have to stop posting. somebody please change the topic already. would someone think of the
widespread asses
Naked Snake
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How about footjobs?
Edit: Holy shit at the pictures of Wikipedia's entry for that. I mean does the public really need that much visual aid in understanding a concept?
Edit: Holy shit at the pictures of Wikipedia's entry for that. I mean does the public really need that much visual aid in understanding a concept?
lol, I'm more curious who provided the photos.
dragonlife
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That's hilarious.
I watched this bit about kinks like this and one theory is that people who enjoy this have gone through the trauma of being choked or whatever and recreate the moment with someone they trust so that they can feel in control during a moment in their life when they had none.
User 73706
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Nibbling on earlobes is fun for flirtiness but I'd rather not suck their eardrum out.
Also biting people is very yes. I just wish it didn't leave bruises.
Also biting people is very yes. I just wish it didn't leave bruises.
This is interesting but I really think is more about the sensation of giddiness choking can give. I remember in school we played with that, the old "passing out" game where someone choked you after getting up from the floor or even a chair very quickly, the rapid loss of blood plus the obstruction makes you lose conciousness for a very short flash, but once you get the normal flow going you feel almost drunk and exhilirate, I can't be the only one who did that, right?
I wouldn't combine that with sex though, it has to be done with perfect timing otherwise you get a pretty awful headache, and overall I don't think is something you should do while your circulatory system is strained already because of the physical activity sex entails, seems dangerous by itself, combine with sex seems worse.
Bel Marduk
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Footjobs are the best part of sex.
dragonlife
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I've never been choked before, but find the idea of a light choke (and more) appealing. It's just part of embracing a certain level of submission in the bedroom. Personally, I find the idea of being someone's bitch (so to speak) appealing because I feel like I call the shots in a lot of areas in general, so it's nice to give someone else the reins for a bit. Really, though, it's one of those case-by-case deals; not everyone's comfortable being rough, and it's not fun if it's always rough. Gotta mix it up with regular/tender lovin', too. Maybe at the same time.
Generally, though--and as hard as I try--I can't take a backseat for long. I'll have to give some push back eventually. There's always a way, even if someone's exclusive to being top.
I feel really weird typing this out while having Pokemon Puzzle League in the background. I lasted almost 8 minutes on the hardest difficulty just now. Pretty cool, right, guys? Yes, it is, but it doesn't even come close to this!:
Look at the time! And just in case you're wondering, the level is just the speed, not difficulty. And since you're also wondering: yes, that match in the pic was intense and amazing. I'm glad I was able to screenshot it!
/downplaying uncomfortably personal post
Generally, though--and as hard as I try--I can't take a backseat for long. I'll have to give some push back eventually. There's always a way, even if someone's exclusive to being top.
I feel really weird typing this out while having Pokemon Puzzle League in the background. I lasted almost 8 minutes on the hardest difficulty just now. Pretty cool, right, guys? Yes, it is, but it doesn't even come close to this!:
Look at the time! And just in case you're wondering, the level is just the speed, not difficulty. And since you're also wondering: yes, that match in the pic was intense and amazing. I'm glad I was able to screenshot it!
/downplaying uncomfortably personal post
User 73706
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I don't get the appeal behind footjobs or even feet for that matter. I mean I guess people can have nice shoes or socks/stockings but maybe that's just my inner neat freak talking. Why would you want someone rubbing sweat and dirt all over your dick? Not to mention the risk of getting some kind of cock fungus. *shudders*
ShadyLurker
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I would assume most people wash their feet beforehand.
It's not really related, but I thought I'll share what I learned in Pshycology class today (pyshio).
Apparently if your leg (or was it foot) is amputeed you might experience a greater orgasm. Something to do with phantom pain (pleasure in this case) and the way the brain arranges itself afterwards.
Apparently if your leg (or was it foot) is amputeed you might experience a greater orgasm. Something to do with phantom pain (pleasure in this case) and the way the brain arranges itself afterwards.
By evolution, men look for a mate that would be fertile, to reproduce and have offspring. A fertile female would have high levels of estrogen. Estrogen is supposed to limit the growth of feet, which is one reason why women's feet are typically smaller than males. When a guy sees a girl with small feet, his instinct tells him that she's likely to be fertile.
If you're wondering why gay males would be attracted to feet when they have no desire to mate with women, think of this: You aren't born with a picture in your head of what to mate with. You just know the place where to look. This is why gay males are interested in the same areas as straight males, just on the male body. The penis and vagina are in the same place, same as ass, feet, chests and breasts.
aaahahahaha i would giggle and be like "the fuck?" if someone did that to me. my ears are super sensitive, not my nose
I like (nice) feet and I totally have a mild fetish for socks, but...I just don't see the appeal of it. Nothing against people who do, obviously, I just don't think I'd really enjoy it D:
DRAW BLOOD OR GO HOME
Naked Snake
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Wut? dirt? Really? Unless you're having sex in a forest or walk barefoot outside, I don't know why you'd have dirt on your feet.
Guy #1 takes a shower, puts on socks, clothes etc. and goes to meet Guy #2, they go to a room and take their clothes off. I don't see where in that chain of events does dirt get onto one's feet.
Personally I never thought of myself as having a foot fetish. I don't particularly look at or for feet in pictures/videos/porn, and I never think of feet normally in my day to day life. I just discovered purely by trial and error/coincidence that I actually really like playing with my partners feet (and of course, not any random guy). For some reason it can really get my blood flowing, if you know what I mean.
I really don't think it works like that, specially because the biggest factor in atraction for straight males (from what I've read, I'm no expert) is the waist/hip ratio, which I would say its irrelevant for gay people when seeing other men.
chronos4590
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I'm not talking about anyone here on gaf, but i have to vent, just browsing the internet for the past few hours and i'm just fumed at how people in our community can be such fake ass bitches, disgusting, racist, sexist. Bleh. Haven't felt this bothered in so long, this can't be healthy for me :/
Evolutionary psychology . . . bleh.
Edit: My own take on personal kinks/interests are that they are trivial, similar to tastes in foods or music. People just like what they want to like. I don't think biology alone would give an answer to a person's gravitation to a certain item.
worries about dirt and grime getting on his dick.......sticks it in the poopy hole
I'm not talking about anyone here on gaf, but i have to vent, just browsing the internet for the past few hours and i'm just fumed at how people in our community can be such fake ass bitches, disgusting, racist, sexist. Bleh. Haven't felt this bothered in so long, this can't be healthy for me :/
I remember when I thought gay people weren't racist (those were the days) fucking minorities disrespecting minorities it makes no sense we should all stick together and finally take down the majority
I don't mind racist lite jokes but after a while it just gets boring and I start wondering maybe they are racist
yes I'm calling you out Reece
chronos4590
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I don't mean to be the guy who says "I'm angry and I don't wanna talk about it". I gotta go out so when I'm back I'll vent all out my anger. But errands are calling and I need some air to calm me down. But I'm also sure some gaffers will have some examples as well
+1 to hating ear-jobs. It's the 'sound' I hate. It feels good and all, but the intense sound of the playful nibbling, licking, etc. is so fucking gross, haha.
Foot jobs + everything else feels great. I swear having hands go all over you feels almost as good to me as hands all over just the erogenous zones.
Foot jobs + everything else feels great. I swear having hands go all over you feels almost as good to me as hands all over just the erogenous zones.
umop_3pisdn
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I agree, at least insofar as it seems related to exposure. I find that just because I have a pretty non-judgmental attitude in combination with a fairly high libido means that I've been exposed to a lot of this stuff, eventually after a while I start to find it interesting or develop a 'taste' for it. Though like seemingly everything in my life I'm pretty much a dilettante about it.
Mystic Theurge
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worries about dirt and grime getting on his dick.......sticks it in the poopy hole
I remember when I thought gay people weren't racist (those were the days) fucking minorities disrespecting minorities it makes no sense we should all stick together and finally take down the majority
I don't mind racist lite jokes but after a while it just gets boring and I start wondering maybe they are racistyes I'm calling you out Reece
First non gif reply? :O
It isn't the biggest factor, although it is very significant
Well, most people like chest/breasts, ass, penis/vagina, and feet.
Different interests can arise from childhood experiences, etc.
Guys, what would your ideal boyfriend be like?
I'd like my boyfriend to be into gaming to play some multiplayer (that sounded nerdy). Not the same taste in music but I'd like him to hate the kind of music I hate (lol). He doesn't have to be a top model, just a normal person, with not much belly, though a bit of muscles wouldn't hurt. I don't care about height but smaller than me would be cool. Also I'd like him to know how to cook so I can learn a bit. I don't mind if he would be quite or talk-ative, but I'm not talk-ative myself so maybe he can be my complement at that by being very talk-ative. I'd love him to love dogs. And I'd like him to be settled down or on the way of being like that, since I plan to be that way too so we can be relaxed in that way.
I'd like my boyfriend to be into gaming to play some multiplayer (that sounded nerdy). Not the same taste in music but I'd like him to hate the kind of music I hate (lol). He doesn't have to be a top model, just a normal person, with not much belly, though a bit of muscles wouldn't hurt. I don't care about height but smaller than me would be cool. Also I'd like him to know how to cook so I can learn a bit. I don't mind if he would be quite or talk-ative, but I'm not talk-ative myself so maybe he can be my complement at that by being very talk-ative. I'd love him to love dogs. And I'd like him to be settled down or on the way of being like that, since I plan to be that way too so we can be relaxed in that way.
Going by recent events and past attempts at boyfriends, a sane and hard-drugs-free guy would be more than enough.
umop_3pisdn
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Yeah that's what it's a reference to. IIRC it has to do with Judy Garland being a gay icon, "somewhere over the rainbow", etc. It was a code term to identify gay men, you'd ask if they were a "friend of Dorothy". Humorously a military investigation centered on interpreting it literally.
edit: beaten
My view has always been that gay men simply have the same sexuality as women. Gay men tend to have similar results in mental tests as women.
This series was made by a comedian who had studied sociology and to criticize them. The main criticism was that they believed humans were blank sheets and that behavior, including homosexuality, came from external sources. That makes it super cringe worthy so to spare you from too much of that I time stamped this part. It's the source I could remember for the hypothesis that low testosterone levels in the womb made men gay.
Cuddly. I can also talk way too much if given the chance so it would be a plus if he could shut me up or be even more dominant than me in conversations
I don't really have rules for a boyfriend that I know of.
good question, I think I am done with relationships but I'll try
.- An artist related to fine arts: writer, painter, poet, musician
.- Tall and beefy, preferabably because of muscles but genetics and/or a bit of overweight could be o.k, depending on the person.
.- 2 or 3 years older than me
.- calm person, that never gets angry (like me)
.- single, no divorced with children, no guys in the closet, no guys hiding.
.- top and bottom in the same session, horny pig with lots of experience.
.- serious person, no goofy attitude.
.- no smoker, no drugs, no life destroying addictions
those would be a couple of rules that would have to be considered if I were to start yet another relationship.
Seems that you have very specific standards.
You are missing the guy who can stand the "My ass is so widespread" thing you mentioned a few days ago
Also, no one has answered me in the "I need a gaming laptop" thread
I personally feel like the woman he interviewed after. I have to question the tests, the samples, the questions, and how the research was conducted. You can't simply say "gay men are similar to women because of this test." It's only one test, we don't know what the questions were, or what group of people they were. Spacial math or some other area may not have been something the person understood well or was taught well in school. To note, the notion that men are more advanced in science and math is going to the way side as more young girls are showing better grades in both areas.
Simply put, I don't think there will ever be one attributing factor to sexuality, be it biologically or otherwise.
Also, what does "the same sexuality as women" even mean?
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