Earthbound64
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We need McCarthyism back so we can excuse our actions as patriotism if caugh. #MAGA
Well...
Apparently you can find someone's email, phone number, date of birth, which political party they're associated and home address
We need McCarthyism back so we can excuse our actions as patriotism if caugh. #MAGA
Apparently you can find someone's email, phone number, date of birth, which political party they're associated and home address
No, no you apparently don't know how to act socially. The issue isn't that you mentioned your actions to her, but in your actions themselves. Looking up someone's personal info just because she asked you if you were dating someone is not what most people would do.
Can you at least understand how creepy you are coming off, and how unpleasant that must be for the girl you work with?
Did the Curb theme play after your conversation?
Does GAF actually think this?
Because... oh lawd.
People here misread stalking for curiosity.
I was hoping for some similar stories.
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She was on my mind and has an obscure last name, I was testing the system that even had my apartment number on it.
I don't think about her any more than the several seconds I interact with her at a time each day. The date I gave my number and left at that. No call or texts, friendly at work, that simple.
It's a restaurant so I'm sure I'm fine.
I shared it because I get hyper when I'm bored, it was between lunch and dinner, we were talking and I say dumb things.
I hope no one in the thread is actually seriously accusing the OP of stalking. It's a weird thing where everyone does it but getting caught doing it is a major taboo.
My wife was stalked in college.
They didn't end up dating either.
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They're unrelated.
The next day I found the site and after looking up people I knew I wondered what I could find out about strangers; Said coworker with a strange last name came to mind so I looked her up.
Please read.
The usual response to a perp Saying Too Much. The perp, while maintaining his innocence, reveals information he could not possibly have known if he were innocent, usually the specific details of a murder. It can take the form of a Suspiciously Specific Denial.
OP, you've been around a while, you should know how this place works. What were you expecting to come of this thread? lol
I can read. I just think you are lying about how you came to be searching for this girl on a sketchy creeper site.
And again, you really don't seem to understand the core issue of why your actions are so damn creepy, which is honestly quite sad.
Why do people expect neogaf to support them after they do weird ass shit like this?...
I'm the only idiot who does weird things, yea, right; Thanks friends.
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They're unrelated.
The next day I found the site and after looking up people I knew I wondered what I could find out about strangers; Said coworker with a strange last name came to mind so I looked her up. Her birth month stuck with me, the rest was out of my brain quicker than the 7 seconds it took to type her name.
Please read.
Like, OP, imagine if someone you don't have a close relationship with suddenly told you "I know where you live. Your address is x."? It doesn't matter what the person says after that point, you're just creeped the fuck out.
Telephone books creep people out?
Um no they dont. But someone tells you their name, you go look it up a telephone book and then share it with them will creep them out.Telephone books creep people out?
You realize you looked up her address right?
You understand that? Lol
No, more like bringing that up unsolicited and knowing that the person actually cared to look it up.
Um no they dont. But someone tells you their name, you go look it up a telephone book and then share it with them will creep them out.
You fucked up, OP.
And I have to say, regardless of your intentions, there's no way you're not going to come off as a creep after all this.
About 12 years ago, I left my small hometown in the countryside and moved to Glasgow. I started a job at a fairly big company, and after a few days, this creep who sat across from me suddenly started telling people stories about me in high school. Nothing too bad. Just things like how I broke my arm, how I was a big WWF fan in high school or the time some girl yelled at me and threw a food tray at me in the cafeteria (complete misunderstanding, btw... We're actually friends to this day)...
The thing about this guy, is that he was several years older than me and grew up in a different part of Scotland, and yet somehow, after a few days of working with me, he's already managed to find out all this information about me. And he's sitting across from me with a smug look on his face telling everyone about me. I don't know what his fucking problem with me was, but he eventually shut up when I pointed out how we had never interacted before, and the fact that within a few days of meeting me, he had obviously talked about me to his friends outside of work, leading someone to say "Oh, I know that guy!" was pretty creepy.
He also used his knowledge to call me a liar on certain things... Like how he said I was lying about having passed my driving test or about having played gigs with a band... I wasn't actually lying about those, it just turned out that his information was all out of date. He seemed like he was out to embarrass me, but he only really embarrassed himself. That guy was creepy. I hadn't thought about that in several years, but reading the OP reminded me of that.
The next day I found a website that taught me finding information about people doesn't take even the hours or creditcard info I thought it did :
https://floridaresidentdb.com/
I don't even think about this girl.
Clearly "Do you have a girlfriend?" was awkward small talk.
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GAF, What stories do you have of people totally missing the mark and thinking you're something or someone you're not?
Why would he even do all that though? Out of nowhere?
HOW DID OP HEAR HER IN THE BATHROOM??
This would actually make the situation worse as OP would be in at least his mid-60s.Telephone books creep people out?
hmm
I am not sure if the link in the OP is accurate.
I looked up my ex in Florida and it gave the a different address than what I had obtained through other sources.
I am driving there now so I can take a peek and see if this address is actually the correct one.
Hahahaha, amazinghmm
I am not sure if the link in the OP is accurate.
I looked up my ex in Florida and it gave me a different address than what I had obtained through other sources.
I am driving there now so I can take a peek and see if this address is actually the correct one.
This would actually make the situation worse as OP would be in at least his mid-60s.
I know of a way that we can find out.Maybe they all are?