frankie_baby
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Other way round, if he wants a future with her he should go for it, far better having a sexually adventurous long term partner
My Girlfriend Unironically Brough Up the Idea of a Threesome
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Other way round, if he wants a future with her he should go for it, far better having a sexually adventurous long term partner
Master Thespian
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Do it. They key is to make sure the women put in equal work with each other so you're not running ragged and for your part be attentive to your girlfriend. Don't be too concerned about impressing the second woman. You don't have to worry about her feeling dejected later because you like another woman more than her blah blah blah.
Think of it as you're having sex with your girlfriend and the other woman in an accessory.
EDIT: I had a chance to do it when I was 19 and I didn't. I regretted it for years until I got another shot at 33. Sometimes the shot never comes back around.
Think of it as you're having sex with your girlfriend and the other woman in an accessory.
EDIT: I had a chance to do it when I was 19 and I didn't. I regretted it for years until I got another shot at 33. Sometimes the shot never comes back around.
Nope. Threesomes can get messy and not in a good way. They both need to sit down and talk about it. If they decide to go ahead, they need to choose the other girl carefully.
Vicetrailia
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Do it. The chicks will mostly play with each other anyway. It's more about your GF than anything else. Both of your will likely concentrate on her.
Sooo basically everyone is different and OP has to decide who he is and the kind of girl he wants to be in a relationship with?
newtypepilot
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It's a lot of work, OP. It's not easy to satisfy both women at the same time and they might ask you to change condoms every time you switch.
Are you up for it?
Are you up for it?
Abstrusity
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Relationships require introspection and communication, so, y'know, yeah.
outunderthestars
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dreamcastmaster
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I've had a few threesomes and a foursome. My advice it to not take it seriously and just have fun, do not expect it to be like porn at all. You also need to direct the girls with what you want them to do, but don't expect them to make out as you want. Also be prepared to have some time when you are left out of the activities, let them do thier thing without trying to fit yourself in. They often, like to chat and giggle a lot during the session, again helps not to be too serious yourself.
Pro tip: if you are balls deep in one girl, get the other girl to massage your balls. It's amazing!
Pro tip: if you are balls deep in one girl, get the other girl to massage your balls. It's amazing!
Subpar Scrub
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Only on Gaf.
Mammoth Jones
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If you thinking about wifing her I'd hold off until you have more relationship time under the belt.
But if you just young and having fun hell yea. I've been there, great memories. Just get checked for STDs after lmao...
But if you just young and having fun hell yea. I've been there, great memories. Just get checked for STDs after lmao...
Are you /uncomfortable/ with the idea? Because ot could go very very wrong then, it would suck if the only one enjoying herself is your gf while having sex with other guy/girl and ignoring you. I say if your very first reaction is doubt, don't do it, it will end bad and you will never, ever, forget the mental images caused by it.
biggersmaller
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do it, start with a game of truth or dare, youll be wanting it more than her by the time you start
everyone in here talking about the philosophy of threesomes lmao
people are people, it doesnt necessarily mean anything or guarantee anything will happen, good or bad. its all about how yall handle it
everyone in here talking about the philosophy of threesomes lmao
people are people, it doesnt necessarily mean anything or guarantee anything will happen, good or bad. its all about how yall handle it
Regginator
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I hope to experience your dilemma one day, OP.
I don't get why people would ever want MMF over MFF.
God damnit OP, it's MFF. Do it now!
Enter The 36 Chambers
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Look at the post history before calling my comment silly
Although I'm probably a little biased cause I wish my girl was open to it
wesleyshark
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This thread seems familiar to me for some reason. Can't quite place it.
So much to reply to.
I guess I'll start off with the most important one:
No, that didn't work out. I was constantly paranoid. We had sex but it was an awkward affair and she was confused and turned off when I used a condom and pulled out.
So yeah, she is Bi, although has dated more males than females at a like 5:1 ratio. There was no talk of an MMF threesome, but for some reason I'd feel more comfortable with that. Let's face it, I know where I am with a dick.
I have no idea who it would be, she has a crush on this girl, but I don't think the other girl would be into it.
I am worried about multitasking, and there's no way I'm going to watch porn first, that'll just make me spend the whole time trying not to bust too early. I don't want to do equations in my head and not enjoy the experience because the wolf is at the door. Without porn I'll be just fine.
Changing condoms would kill my boner. I already have a difficult enough time getting them on.
No butt stuff. I don't want any tongues near my anus. Shit comes out there, literally. I also don't want to have to clean my asshole in anticipation of that. Sounds like a lot of work.
Wait, this is the most important one: My mother is not invited, she has no time for that sort of shenanigans.
I guess I'll start off with the most important one:
No, that didn't work out. I was constantly paranoid. We had sex but it was an awkward affair and she was confused and turned off when I used a condom and pulled out.
So yeah, she is Bi, although has dated more males than females at a like 5:1 ratio. There was no talk of an MMF threesome, but for some reason I'd feel more comfortable with that. Let's face it, I know where I am with a dick.
I have no idea who it would be, she has a crush on this girl, but I don't think the other girl would be into it.
I am worried about multitasking, and there's no way I'm going to watch porn first, that'll just make me spend the whole time trying not to bust too early. I don't want to do equations in my head and not enjoy the experience because the wolf is at the door. Without porn I'll be just fine.
Changing condoms would kill my boner. I already have a difficult enough time getting them on.
No butt stuff. I don't want any tongues near my anus. Shit comes out there, literally. I also don't want to have to clean my asshole in anticipation of that. Sounds like a lot of work.
Wait, this is the most important one: My mother is not invited, she has no time for that sort of shenanigans.
dreamcastmaster
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So you can high five over her while she's spit roasted?
IdreamofHIME
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Then he's struck oil, lucky guy. Nothing worse then going into a threesome and one of the other participants turns shy and suddenly you have to satisfy them separately.
Threesomes are fun, gangbangs are hard work.
Gravy Boat
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I was jokin around with my posts, but seriously, how do you manage to get girls to sleep with you?
Enter The 36 Chambers
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Good to know you've discussed threesomes with your mother enough to know it's not her bag :|
And you pulled out using a rubber?
Bi guys are a thing.
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Of course you do it, there's no question about it!
Then, of course, you come back to GAF and make a thread about it for our entertainment, my advice is that you make a pokemon cosplay party out of it to enhance the entertainment value of your and our experience!
Then, of course, you come back to GAF and make a thread about it for our entertainment, my advice is that you make a pokemon cosplay party out of it to enhance the entertainment value of your and our experience!
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illiniguy05
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The cone was devoured, bro.
Eh, it's still early and I intend to leave the country in a few years. So it's not serious.
She's had girlfriends. I've met them.
wesleyshark
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Hahahahah
Dude, whaaat. Clean your hole, you'd expect as much from your girlfriend.
Always-honest
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when you drink a bit and two ladies are making out naked in front of you, i doubt getting it up will be much of an issue. It will probably be a secret wish for her forever.
But i can totally understand you being worried.
But i can totally understand you being worried.
wesleyshark
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That is how assholes work, yes.
For straight women propably, but not for a strictly straight male like me it's not
Since I'm straight it would be just another guy fucking my girl. If a woman is bi then she at least wants both partners and gets more out of the deal than a straight man in a MMF threesome. I'd be down for a MFF threesome but I would not do a MMF variation in return, and I would be more than willing to pass up on the MFF threesome to not have to do a MMF one later. That is if we're talking about a serious relationship.If you're not comfortable with it, then don't force yourself but reading over what you've said, you're worrying WAY too much about it. As for the multi-tasking, the person who said you take turns pretty much is spot on, if the mood is good then all involved should at least orgasm once or twice during the session, how you get to that is the fun part.
LegendofDragoonLives
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If you haven't been dating her long, I'd say do it. It requires a lot of energy, but I'd highly recommend the 3rd wheel has good chemistry between both of you before you guys fuck, it will help. Also have fun mate, don't look at it as work (based on reading OP's post).
Pai Pai Master
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Live it up man. People get worried about knowing what to do during a 3 way, just take your damn time. Its not a porno and no one is on the clock. Whatever anxiety you may have before is worth it for the sensation of two people going down on you at once haha
Clockwork
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Pretty much this. I did it once and nothing good came of it.
That's not to say it could work out differently for the OP, but in my opinion it's just an all around bad idea.
(to clarify the actual act itself was fine, but things weren't ever the same afterwards)
I want to ask follow up questions even though I know it will inevitably lead down a very dark and upsetting path.
Then..., then she isn't 'somewhat bi' is she?
She's a bi-sexual woman.
I'd say go for it if it's something you want to do/try. You don't have a long term commitment, so if things go south, no big deal. If a threesome is just something you're not into, then don't do it, but don't let nerves alone get in the way of a potentially fun experience.
I recommend some wine to get everyone comfortable night-of. Threesomes should be fun and nothing too serious. I'd read up on what other couples do, but don't stress and feel like things are supposed to go a certain way. Toys are definitely recommended. They spice things up and can give body parts a break.
Also, seriously, be careful of STDs. Everyone should get tested beforehand. Even if you think you and your girl are clean, you should prove it to whatever chick you bring into the group.
Good luck, OP. There's nothing wrong with either choice, depending on why you make it.
PS. A woman who has had multiple girlfriends and boyfriends isn't kinda bi. She's bi. Doesn't matter if she's mostly been with men.
I recommend some wine to get everyone comfortable night-of. Threesomes should be fun and nothing too serious. I'd read up on what other couples do, but don't stress and feel like things are supposed to go a certain way. Toys are definitely recommended. They spice things up and can give body parts a break.
Also, seriously, be careful of STDs. Everyone should get tested beforehand. Even if you think you and your girl are clean, you should prove it to whatever chick you bring into the group.
Good luck, OP. There's nothing wrong with either choice, depending on why you make it.
PS. A woman who has had multiple girlfriends and boyfriends isn't kinda bi. She's bi. Doesn't matter if she's mostly been with men.
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