Cubsfan23 said:good tips already posted, I'll add some more.
1. Suggest that you meet somewhere near your place. That way if they aren't up to your standards, or the date plain sucks, you didn't waste too much time. If it goes good, it's natural to have her come over since you guys are already close by.
2. Have a life outside of the computer. Waiting all day for her to email you back or, or get on MSN etc. is a death wish. Sounds like common sense, but I know some here will do this (I used to)
3. If she doesn't agree to meet within a week, then in all likelihood it will never happen. Yes, there are exceptions like her dog died and she needs some time to mourn, but good rule of thumb.
4. Find an online spot where there are many to choose from. It pays off to not be attached to to the outcome, so if one girl doesn't workout, you won't care because you have other "applicants" waiting in your inbox.
5. You have nothing to lose. Have fun![]()
suaveric said:I can't believe those teachers would enter that contest and expect to keep their job.
suaveric said:I can't believe those teachers would enter that contest and expect to keep their job.
gofreak said:What the hell do you do with someone who just DOES NOT TALK??
We've exchanged MSN, so obviously there was interest beyond the website, and we just had a first chat there, but he says NOTHING! I even said to him that he seemed to be a quiet one, to which he agreed. I'm the one asking the questions, trying to spark something, but I'm getting just minimal feedback..
ForzaItalia said:Hmmm..have you exchanged pics yet?
gofreak said:Yes. Before we exchanged MSN also. I mean, he added me!
ForzaItalia said:Hmmm...in that case I'd say this guy is probably shy which comes back to you. Do you like shy guys? Do they intrigue you? If not, I'd block and delete.![]()
border said:Just out of curiousity, if someone is an idiot in e-mail, what's the likelihood that they're an idiot in real life? Like if you get superficial letters full of typos, outdated slang phrases or net-isms ("It's all good," "holla," OMGLOLZ, etc)...
ForzaItalia said:Futureman, keep in mind that these chicks are talking to various dudes at the same time as they are talking to you. Get the phone # first and then mention going out. Avoid a movie on the first date unless it's a seedy porn theatre.
Gofreak, I admire your patience for I lack it yet don't wait around too long.
Shawn said:I don't give a sh*t what I'm reading here. There's no way a physically attractive woman would use -- or would need to use -- an online "dating" site. There's no way such a woman would use that type of means to meet people of the opposite gender, for fear of being physically harmed, raped or killed -- unless she was mentally ill or beyond desperate.
Shawn said:I don't give a sh*t what I'm reading here. There's no way a physically attractive woman would use -- or would need to use -- an online "dating" site. There's no way such a woman would use that type of means to meet people of the opposite gender, for fear of being physically harmed, raped or killed -- unless she was mentally ill or beyond desperate.
Shawn said:I don't give a sh*t what I'm reading here. There's no way a physically attractive woman would use -- or would need to use -- an online "dating" site. There's no way such a woman would use that type of means to meet people of the opposite gender, for fear of being physically harmed, raped or killed -- unless she was mentally ill or beyond desperate.
Dude, I've been on this planet longer than you've been.STFU kid
Shawn said:Dude, I've been on this planet longer than you've been.
Shawn said:I don't give a sh*t what I'm reading here. There's no way a physically attractive woman would use -- or would need to use -- an online "dating" site. There's no way such a woman would use that type of means to meet people of the opposite gender, for fear of being physically harmed, raped or killed -- unless she was mentally ill or beyond desperate.
Shawn said:I don't give a sh*t what I'm reading here. There's no way a physically attractive woman would use -- or would need to use -- an online "dating" site. There's no way such a woman would use that type of means to meet people of the opposite gender, for fear of being physically harmed, raped or killed -- unless she was mentally ill or beyond desperate.
DavidDayton said:Well, to be honest, it depends. There are ladies who feel like the only guys there ever find are sleazy jerks who are just looking for sex.