Sen. Mike Enzi (R-Wyo.) told a group of high school and middle school students last week that its fine to be a member of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer community ― but if youre too open about it, dont be surprised if you get picked on.
On Thursday, Enzi was speaking to students at Greybull High School and Middle School when a student asked him what he was doing to support LGBTQ people in Wyoming. Mathew Burciaga, an editor at the Greybull Standard, was at the event. The Standard published a rough transcript and audio of the event Tuesday evening.
What work are you and your comrades doing to improve the life of the LGBT community in Wyoming? the student asked Enzi. How do you plan to help Wyoming live up to its name as The Equality State?
There are a lot of problems that dont have a federal, one-size-fits-all solution, Enzi replied, according to the Standards transcript. Everything cant be done by law; thats one of the problems we have in this country, thinking that everything could be done by law. What we need to have is a little civility between people.
We always say that in Wyoming you can be just about anything you want to be, as long as you dont push it in somebodys face, the senator went on. I know a guy who wears a tutu and goes to bars on Friday night and is always surprised that he gets in fights. Well, he kind of asks for it. Thats the way that he winds up with that kind of problem. Id be interested in any solutions that you have for how we can make that work better.
The biggest thing that we need is civility, he said.
Burciaga told HuffPost in an email that he thought the comment was tone deaf by my own personal opinion of it.
Reached for comment, Max DOnofrio, a spokesman for Enzi, said the senator stressed the importance of respecting other people and argued that protections mandated by Washington are not always the best solution.
He talked about how many Wyoming folks take a live and let live approach to life, but we need to be conscious that everyone may not react the same way to differing value and belief systems. He advocates nothing but respect and civil treatment for members of the LGBT community, DOnofrio said in an email. He added that no one should take his remarks out of context or misconstrue them to mean anything but advocacy of kindness toward our fellow citizens.
Enzi apologized in a statement, expressing regret for a poor choice of words.