I did not have much conversation with any of my neighbors until that incident with her. I wasn't forced to say anything to anyone. Our building is such that we use different elevators even though our apts are next to each other.
I'd have to make 2 elevator trips to go to her unit and she would do the same.
Now, the white woman who lives above us is a total bitch who won't even say hi to us.
You'd get to stand the majority of your commute while I have to walk across two big lawns to my neighbors?
In my grandma's complex, we walk past three breezeways up a hill to see people.