The only woman on Earth who fantasizes about her husband being a deadbeat and living in a broken down dilapidated house.
See here's the thing, Ataru, the male lead of
Urusei Yatsura, is a relatively unique piece of shit that has zero redeeming qualities. The English title of the show may be
Those Obnoxious Aliens, however Ataru is vastly more annoying than the aliens could ever dream of being.
He has tried to slap kids (admittedly superhuman/alien ones), tried to hit women, is lecherous beyond words, isn't smart or handsome, selfish, petty and egotistical. There is not a single fucking redeeming quality about this man. He's the type of man that if he died, the world would be a better place. This is probably the biggest flaw of the show in that he's not even an imperfect being but rather an utter piece of shit. I'll give you a few examples.
Case 1: He gives Lum a ribbon so as to seal her powers thus preventing her from shocking him, that way he can go around and flirt with other girls. Despite seeing how horrible this is for her as she can't fly and ends up crashing from a second floor or defend herself from sexual harassers, he doesn't give a shit. In fact he's actually smug about it and enjoys seeing her crying. There's zero sense of remorse or that he's taken it too far.
Case 2: When finding out about vodoo dolls that apparently work, from Lum, his first reaction is to build copies of everybody in town for the pure purpose of torturing or messing with them. Many of whom haven't messed with him in any direct way. The first one he builds, of the Cherry Priest, he actually rips the man's head off. He does this knowing that it might actually kill the man.
Case 3 (but really 3 - ∞
: Any time he sees a hot girl, he loses any sense of rationality or dignity as a human being and pretty much attacks them.
Shinobu, who is supposedly his girlfriend, has to hit him with a baseball bat to knock him out at times otherwise he might take it too far. It's obviously supposed to be cartoonish but his single legged determination to fuck any girl that breathes is so dogged, that he comes across as a sexual offender at times. He's like lead from
High School DxD but amped up to 11.
So this scumbag has zero redeeming qualities, which is actually fairly rare in anime or any piece of fiction. Usually there's some trait that is idealized in the main character, even flawed ones, such as courage, intelligence, looks, or suave. Instead here, the lead is
someone whose own mother wishes was never born. The sad part is I can't even blame her. So episode 10 looked like it might be Ataru getting comeuppance for all the times he neglected or emotionally belittled Lum. His own friends are conspiring against him after he had told Lum to go home and wait for him while he pretty much sexually harasses girls. His friends would gladly kill him to take his spot as Lum's girlfriend. In fact, most people would. For them (and the audience) it's watching pearls being wasted before swine. He doesn't treat Lum with an ounce of respect and yet Lum is madly love with him. I guess the one that is his best friend, not that he has any true friends as that would require a person to not be gutter trash, essentially snaps and decides to set up a scheme to embarrass Ataru and have Lum leave him.
That's a very good goddamn question.
So throughout this episode I'm rooting for the guys to essentially wreck Ataru's life. This is a man upon hearing that there's a new girl that is interested in dating him, proceeds to dump all surrounding women who have repeatedly professed to love him. Lum is crying and heartbroken and his reaction is, "Eh. Whatever". There's no sense of empathy or sincerity within him and so throughout the episode I'm waiting for him to get humiliated.
I do not blame this man at all. Desperate times calls for desperate measures.
So Lum accidentally finds out and instead of Ataru getting
Carrie'd, he gets bailed out by her in the last second. This is profoundly maddening as he has done nothing to warrant being saved by her. Absolutely goddamn nothing. He doesn't resent going to the date, disregarding Lum's feelings, or even be thankful afterwards.
This is his reaction. He is fucking annoyed that he owes her for saving public face. There is zero reason for Lum to be attached to this waste of space. So I can't really root for the main couple in this show because of how disgusting Ataru is as a human being. Lum deserves so much better than him and yet she's fixated on such an awful character. It's not even that he's ignoring Lum but how callous he is towards other people. This is one of the few times where I'm hoping the main character, despite being in a love triangle, gets absolutely nothing and ends up alone as an old bitter man. Hikaru from
SDF Macross was another one.
This is like battered wife syndrome. Why are you going back to him? Whhhyyyyyyyy?