Forgetting details and the like is one thing, but talking to Woolie and being like "No this does not and will not happen in this game." when in fact that is not the case, is a different story. I think you're being overly sensitive because I'm not the people you're referring to, though I agree people overreact over that stuff.
I'm not going to get upset at Pat over every detail he can't remember, unlike a lot of people, because I get it, I forget stuff too, but as I said, straight up explaining how something is with full confidence in what he is saying, I am going to make a comment if I actually know for a fact that is incorrect.