So I used to think my lack of dating experience until I was 18 was a result of me being some kind of introverted class clown but in retrospect I was handicapped from go
I grew up in the sort of town where I couldn't have gotten a black female if I'd wanted to. I lived in a friday night lights-esque town where I could tell it was spring first thing not because of the weather but because I could hear the ting of aluminum bats slapping balls out of the park from the highschool that was two minutes away at best.
A black girl was either ratchet on some other shit or was a young version of Kerry Washington from scandal.
So it was either learn how to conquest the equivalent of Obamas daughters or learn how to prove to white girls that you're
different from the stereotypes--something I didn't even learn how to do until I was a senior in highschool.
My best friends were mixed with a mom that was whiter than toothpaste that I saw every other day for ten years, I lived with a mixed friend my first year of college who had a wild white mom who's driving trucks across the country despite being well off because
reasons.
So there was no way I was going to date a reasonable girl through HS without being the type of black guy who grew up on Livewell street. And the Kerry Washingtons were locked up so tight by their dads that even if you were in a position to hit you'd end up realizing you need a key in order to pull the panties back.
Fast forward to years later in the DC area where I'm regularly waltzing around George Washington and College Park, I one day realize the game don changed. The Kerry Washingtons got the chains off and Ratchet females don cleaned up, all while I've mastered the art of getting past the biases and subconscious racial profiling of white women to the point where I'm feeling like Robin Williams from Jumanji who finally got called back from the game.
So I'm talking to way more black females now than I ever have in my life and it's stupid awesome how weird it is to talk to a fine girl who isn't thinking negatively about you from jump, or who might actually be super into you before a conversation has even started.
TLDR version: Forced into dating white girls for a decade, finally meet a bunch of intelligent, free black women
