Plenty of companies, sports clubs have shitty owners yet those workers dont quit. Ex: look at LeBron, he hates Dan Gilbert.
There are plenty of threads in Gaming right now that are open to expressing these issues and as long as they are civil/don't break no rules, I'm ok with that. That's what GAF should be here for.
But when I come back 5 hours later after visitng the forum and I'm still seeing "Bla bla just permaban me" that makes me angry. These are Gaffers who just have no self respect anymore and makes me wonder how was I ever suppose to take them serious in the first place.
Like I mentioned in a post earlier, what's the sense in adults getting angry over a message board? It's all just words hanging over a computer monitor. In 80 years, it wont matter.
Cutting business trips from the budget because they always went horribly wrong.
Why would someone go to a thread and ask if Anita has defended her views publicly? The thread was about her views already. What purpose is there to ask if she goes around and debates those points to other? There is none. He wanted to throw a barb to show that she isn't willing to stand up with her views in a public setting because she would be countered so easily.
We all get what what he was saying.
If you don't care then that's on you but the only people who seem to have a problem with that particular case seem to have dubious posting histories where they strongly distaste being banned for just being in disagreement. In reality, those cases are super fucking rare because they almost never happened. Articulate your position without being hateful and you will have zero problems.
I dunno, people say Neogaf is dead, but this thread sure feels like classic Neogaf to me.
Not sure where to ask this, can anyone PM a link for the discord channel?
You don't get it, do you? See, even here, you subtly accuse me of being some closet Nazi.
Let's see. I've been promoting generally anarchist, anti-capitalistic ideals for decades. That said, I do understand some of the benefits of both hierarchy and capitalism... it's not a cut and dried issue, especially when you take the present state of humanity into consideration. I'm pro love, and support you loving whoever the hell you want to love. I support legalization, even though I don't do drugs. I support privacy. I think our criminal system is antiquated and broken, with a fair amount of racism baked in [coke vs crack, etc]. I think prisons themselves create more problems than they solve and that we need to find a better solution than breaking up families. I've supported some sort of universal basic income solution for decades before it became hip, though I recognize there are significant economic issues that would need to be resolved and it's not a simple solution. I think both major parties in the US are anti-people and pro-big business. I think my taxes support murder overseas, and it pains me to pay them. I don't care what your religion is [or anything else], I only care about our interactions. I believe in being kind. I believe in personal responsibility, though that doesn't mean I believe people shouldn't work together to help everyone. I believe in open borders [heck, I don't even like the concept of borders]. I don't care where you were born, or what language you speak. If I see someone in trouble, I will try to help them. I've been part of cooperatives, I try to shop local [except gaming], I am anti-violence and anti-war. I love cats.
How long of an essay do I need to write before I'm 'okay'. Did I pass your purity test yet?
Oh, by the way, remember when you already implied I was some sort of Nazi because I feel like I can't express my opinions? Have you noticed you embody exactly what I say the problem was? I spoke up... so I must be the enemy, right?
But let's see -- you asked to "hear some of these opinions" that people are afraid to discuss. Okay, that's easy. Mention free speech, get treated like a Nazi [in fact, that's what got me involved in this conversation thread]. Talk about presumption of innocence, and you're propagating rape culture. Ask a question, and you'll get a response like "Oh, just questions. Riiiight. I see through you." Criticize Clinton and you'll be called a white supremacist Trump supporter. Man, I've hated Trump and everything he stood for from before he was a celebrity. I despise Clinton, too, though.
No. I've been fighting the fight for decades. Longer than people in their twenties have been alive. But that doesn't mean I support the culture of accusation you clearly participate in.
You assume the worst. Oh, he's defending free speech? What awful things do you want to say? The only awful thing I want to say is that your style of attack is gross.
Discussion is important. Discussion allows me to talk about things important to me, like the problem with our prison systems. But what people do here is try to shut others down with accusations, subtle and not-so-subtle, just like you did. That's ugly. That doesn't encourage growth and debate, it shuts it down.
See, this is where you're being too binary and will not care about context but I'm a try to educate you.
I got banned once for pointing out that a moderator just heavily insulted millions of Americans (all Trump voters). I'm European and never even had a dog in the race.
I also got banned when I argued that not all the people that celebrate with Zwarte Piet, especially the children, are racist scum that deserve to be hated (I'm not Dutch). I also still have a screenshot of the ban message which read: "sorry the blacks ruined your good times". Like, what did that even mean? Pretty sure there were also countless insults thrown against me.
You just argued in favor of Zwarte Piet.
Like, do you even understand what you're doing at this point?
I don't think you understood Lucumo's point.
I didn't argue in favor (I believe I even made that clear in the thread several times and you just did what they did). I argued against showering everybody that celebrates with him with hate, including children. My argument was that if they don't know something is racist, and there is no bad intention (which is what should count) at all, why all the hate on them? Pretty sure I also said there should be discussions instead of blind hate. Too bad the thread is currently on the hidden side, so I can't look it up. But it went like this for like 2-3 pages.
You also ignored the part with the moderator.
I just re-read the post and I'm pretty sure he understood what was important. Lucumo is angry that he got banned for defending racist and deplorable shit. Huh.
Somewhat unrelated post I grabbed and then quoted:Maybe you did re-read my post but apparently you didn't understand its content. Otherwise I don't see how you can come to that conclusion.
Bullshit.
There are many folks on this forum with this us vs them mentality. If you weren't 100% on their side you were treated as if you were on the opposite. I've seen it. Other users have seen it. It wasn't exactly subtle. Did it happen all the time? Of course not but it did happen. Just depended on how hot the topic was and who was present there.
Exactly this. There is also no middle-ground or non-ground. It's only binary. Just look at how Subpar Spatula (taking him as an example) responded to an earlier post of mine. People don't even read your posts anymore, they just put you on one side and judge you on that.
(He also hasn't responded to my post where I specifically pointed it out to him.)
Dude you argued some people who celebrate Zwarte Piete aren't bad people. Like, why even argue that. Lol.
Then no response after that.Holy shit he didn't say they weren't bad people. Nor did he argue in favor of Zwarte Piete. He said people shouldn't hate all of them especially the children. Try to actually think about what someone said instead of just continuing to jump to conclusions.
Too bad you wrote that and even after replying, you didn't bother to continue where Subpar Spatula stopped...or even engage at all.why is it that every member here claiming to be a victim of poor moderation is actually in the wrong
could it be that they simply lack self awareness
People replied to your last post perhaps you should answer them instead of going off on another tangent.
That is, unless your goal is less one of understanding and more just rabble rousing. If that's the case, by all means, proceed.
You admit that you are mad at a video game forum for its members standing for a message that they believe in.There are plenty of threads in Gaming right now that are open to expressing these issues and as long as they are civil/don't break no rules, I'm ok with that. That's what GAF should be here for.
But when I come back 5 hours later after visitng the forum and I'm still seeing "Bla bla just permaban me" that makes me angry. These are Gaffers who just have no self respect anymore and makes me wonder how was I ever suppose to take them serious in the first place.
Like I mentioned in a post earlier, what's the sense in adults getting angry over a message board? I sometimes joke, it's all just words hanging over a computer monitor. In 80 years, it wont matter.
Because you want to watch such a debate? Because public debates are one of the best ways to contrast and judge the strength of someone's views. Again the bolded is your paranoid assumption without anything backing it up.
You don't get it, do you? See, even here, you subtly accuse me of being some closet Nazi.
Let's see. I've been promoting generally anarchist, anti-capitalistic ideals for decades. That said, I do understand some of the benefits of both hierarchy and capitalism... it's not a cut and dried issue, especially when you take the present state of humanity into consideration. I'm pro love, and support you loving whoever the hell you want to love. I support legalization, even though I don't do drugs. I support privacy. I think our criminal system is antiquated and broken, with a fair amount of racism baked in [coke vs crack, etc]. I think prisons themselves create more problems than they solve and that we need to find a better solution than breaking up families. I've supported some sort of universal basic income solution for decades before it became hip, though I recognize there are significant economic issues that would need to be resolved and it's not a simple solution. I think both major parties in the US are anti-people and pro-big business. I think my taxes support murder overseas, and it pains me to pay them. I don't care what your religion is [or anything else], I only care about our interactions. I believe in being kind. I believe in personal responsibility, though that doesn't mean I believe people shouldn't work together to help everyone. I believe in open borders [heck, I don't even like the concept of borders]. I don't care where you were born, or what language you speak. If I see someone in trouble, I will try to help them. I've been part of cooperatives, I try to shop local [except gaming], I am anti-violence and anti-war. I love cats.
How long of an essay do I need to write before I'm 'okay'. Did I pass your purity test yet?
Oh, by the way, remember when you already implied I was some sort of Nazi because I feel like I can't express my opinions? Have you noticed you embody exactly what I say the problem was? I spoke up... so I must be the enemy, right?
But let's see -- you asked to "hear some of these opinions" that people are afraid to discuss. Okay, that's easy. Mention free speech, get treated like a Nazi [in fact, that's what got me involved in this conversation thread]. Talk about presumption of innocence, and you're propagating rape culture. Ask a question, and you'll get a response like "Oh, just questions. Riiiight. I see through you." Criticize Clinton and you'll be called a white supremacist Trump supporter. Man, I've hated Trump and everything he stood for from before he was a celebrity. I despise Clinton, too, though.
No. I've been fighting the fight for decades. Longer than people in their twenties have been alive. But that doesn't mean I support the culture of accusation you clearly participate in.
You assume the worst. Oh, he's defending free speech? What awful things do you want to say? The only awful thing I want to say is that your style of attack is gross.
Discussion is important. Discussion allows me to talk about things important to me, like the problem with our prison systems. But what people do here is try to shut others down with accusations, subtle and not-so-subtle, just like you did. That's ugly. That doesn't encourage growth and debate, it shuts it down.
Mods, please ban me, but from this thread only. Because all this has become is a gossip bitching thread.
Because you want to watch such a debate? Because public debates are one of the best ways to contrast and judge the strength of someone's views. Again the bolded is your paranoid assumption without anything backing it up.
It's not impossible but even in the short 4 years I've been posting here even I noticed a significant change in OT and the Moderators having an "I'm better than you" attitude and if you disagree with what I'm saying you're automatically a racist, sexist, misogynist. Lots (definitely not the majority) of people in OT became exactly what this video talks about and pushed people away from this website entirely. It hurt that they were also some of the most active members where a lot of their so called "discussion" was just hoping in a thread and saying "fuck trump" or something along those lines. Those people basically became what this video talks about.I've been on (Neo)Gaf since '99. Don't post as much anymore, because life happened, but I still check it almost daily. It was always a good source of news and tips on popular media.
I feel like the events of the last few days could only have happened to Evilore. More than anything else, social ineptness caused all of this. I'd say that outside the revenge porn (which is definitely criminal in some countries), the things he is accused of aren't even that serious, but his aggressive defending or even bragging about of these types of situations made him look extremely bad.
The pitchfork hive mind cultivated here under Evilore's watch made sure everything came crashing down extra hard. Many of the mods also deserve some blame here, this place has been deteriorating for years now. I've long since avoided certain discussions because people weren't interested in other points of view and would rather accuse you of heinous crimes until you left the thread and/or were banned. That sucked and made this place lose a lot of it's appeal to me, but it still had some worth.
Kinda funny, the only thread I started these last few years was the Dutch Election OT. As far as I could tell, there were no incidents in those 27 pages even though both left and *gasp* right wing people visited it. So let's not pretend it's impossible to have a civilized discussion about politics on the internet.
I missed this initially, but it still pisses me off. Iapetus has always been one of the best posters in this place, intelligent and polite.
Oh wow, two examples lol.Here's me praising the amount of work that went into the ultimate ninja series, as well as dedicating a thread to the improvements to animation in BOTW. Also gone on record stating multiple times that one of my main inspirations for becoming an animator was Ueda. Nice try tho.
Damn I missed this. Fucked up that someone got demodded for this. Scary stuff. Punching Nazis might be cathartic and I was the first one to laugh and share Spencer getting punched, sure. But I'm never going to tell anyone that they should deliberately go and punch people, because I'm not in the position to make that call. I agree completely with them.
hm... no
you should rethink this
Glad the site is back up!
Here's a question:
What is the fucking debate to be had?
Like, really. Tell me.
Lol that you think those are the only two. And also lol that you respond with snark considering that you tried to make such a definitive statement:Oh wow, two examples lol.
Crossing Eden always blows a blood vessel at anything anime related
That's also straight BS. There were a metric fuckton of anime threads on GAF. Stop trying to make definitive statements about me because I don't like anime enough for you.Didn't stop you from jumping in every anime thread and shitting on it.
See, this is where you're being too binary and will not care about context but I'm a try to educate you.
You can disagree. You can support Trump for all I care. Bring something of value that isn't hurtful, racist, misogynistic, bigoted, etc.
Like, you don't even realize no one was banned for simply disagreeing unless the mod power tripped and those bans are extremely rare in the sea of bans that have occurred on NeoGAF.
Keeping hateful views out isn't toxic. Hopefully you will understand this.
It's a bit tricky without context. It was a heated thread about an emotive subject and I did not, as I later said in a PM to EviLore, bring the tact. Because that's not a thing I do when I feel strongly about something.
You admit that you are mad at a video game forum for its members standing for a message that they believe in.
Then you say none of this matters because it's just a forum.
i don't even know what to say anymore.
@ new staff, if you get the chance can you implement a feature where if you have a user on ignore, their posts are also hidden when people quote them? don't really care about posting anymore, but neogaf as a gaming news aggregator would still be useful to read. I just don't want to see any of crossing eden's garbage posts ever again.
alternatively just perm crossing eden.
-p. po
Holy shit you are completely missing the point. I'm not saying anything about Anita being in the wrong, I am saying you can't make assumptions about a posters motivations just based on your hunches. It's simple and you keep deflecting the point with nonsense.Here's a question:
What is the fucking debate to be had?
Like, really. Tell me.
She was advocating companies don't use tropes that negatively affect women. What is there to debate? That Zelda isn't a god damn damsel? That women aren't overly sexualized? That women aren't used are used a lot as motivation for men in video games to overcome their quest?
Give me 10 solid points and maybe I'll believe you. I bet you cannot. Also, they can't be about how she took clips from other games, how she didn't play those games, or how she used all that moneeeey to make just those videos. Counter her arguments she made. If you cannot then I'm pretty sure I had you pegged from the start. Or maybe you'll actually realize as you think over the counter arguments that maybe it's just full of shit.
Time will tell when you bring the bacon.
Mods, please ban me, but from this thread only. Because all this has become is a gossip bitching thread.
At the moment, I have more grief with the suicides then the site.
It's like watching your co-workers behave unprofessional at an allegation made at the company that still is being investigated.
You don't start pissing on the floor and thrash property while claiming "this isn't right!".
It tells me what kind of people have I really been working alongside all this time. That they can't work under pressure and must relegate themselves to complete chaos.
Holy shit you are completely missing the point. I'm not saying anything about Anita being in the wrong, I am saying you can't make assumptions about a posters motivations just based on your hunches. It's simple and you keep deflecting the point with nonsense.
This basically.As a journalist, i know very well how stories can be twisted and things manipulated to be something.
At the end of the day, most of us don´t know you guys personally, and have no idea what´s going on with the personal lives of everyone.
Best to just stick to gaming and let real life be handed in real life.
Yeah I can relate. I can get pretty heated about things I care about too. To the point that I become downright a horrible asshole and it usually takes after the fact for me to realize. I've probably done so in this thread but I have a lot of frustrations with this site and what's been going on and it's manifesting itself like that.
All that said I don't think you were wrong.
Seeing the site being devoured like this is just scary and outright depressing. If Tyler is watching, its going to be a long, slow, agonizing death.Whatever fall out happens to Evilore I could care two shits less about. That's a completely separate issue than this site and the good it can exist for.
Getting rid of off topic is for the best, and it should be kept permanent. The amount of ridiculous crap said in some of those threads is nuts. It's not even debates or conjecture half the time. Just everyone tip toeing around how they feel and others who just flat out shit on other's opinions and go mental.
I hope the site exists or if a new place comes from all this, fine. I need OTs, game discussion, etc.
The guy came out saying allegations are bull shit. If they are great, and the pitch forks can go away. If they aren't, then whatever. It's not like I hand Evilore checks to type on here and somehow support things he may or may have not done when not on this site.
Most people hate on the Jimmy John's owner because of his killing of animals on hunts. Me? I could care less. I just want quick delivery of food that doesn't taste like trash.
GAF? Idc. I just need a forum to talk games on, and this one has done it the best so far. If a new king rises, then I'll head there. I'm not "loyal" to any website or brand or anything.
Good luck peeps.
Holy shit you are completely missing the point. I'm not saying anything about Anita being in the wrong, I am saying you can't make assumptions about a posters motivations just based on your hunches. It's simple and you keep deflecting the point with nonsense.
This is so good.You don't get it, do you? See, even here, you subtly accuse me of being some closet Nazi.
Let's see. I've been promoting generally anarchist, anti-capitalistic ideals for decades. That said, I do understand some of the benefits of both hierarchy and capitalism... it's not a cut and dried issue, especially when you take the present state of humanity into consideration. I'm pro love, and support you loving whoever the hell you want to love. I support legalization, even though I don't do drugs. I support privacy. I think our criminal system is antiquated and broken, with a fair amount of racism baked in [coke vs crack, etc]. I think prisons themselves create more problems than they solve and that we need to find a better solution than breaking up families. I've supported some sort of universal basic income solution for decades before it became hip, though I recognize there are significant economic issues that would need to be resolved and it's not a simple solution. I think both major parties in the US are anti-people and pro-big business. I think my taxes support murder overseas, and it pains me to pay them. I don't care what your religion is [or anything else], I only care about our interactions. I believe in being kind. I believe in personal responsibility, though that doesn't mean I believe people shouldn't work together to help everyone. I believe in open borders [heck, I don't even like the concept of borders]. I don't care where you were born, or what language you speak. If I see someone in trouble, I will try to help them. I've been part of cooperatives, I try to shop local [except gaming], I am anti-violence and anti-war. I love cats.
How long of an essay do I need to write before I'm 'okay'. Did I pass your purity test yet?
Oh, by the way, remember when you already implied I was some sort of Nazi because I feel like I can't express my opinions? Have you noticed you embody exactly what I say the problem was? I spoke up... so I must be the enemy, right?
But let's see -- you asked to "hear some of these opinions" that people are afraid to discuss. Okay, that's easy. Mention free speech, get treated like a Nazi [in fact, that's what got me involved in this conversation thread]. Talk about presumption of innocence, and you're propagating rape culture. Ask a question, and you'll get a response like "Oh, just questions. Riiiight. I see through you." Criticize Clinton and you'll be called a white supremacist Trump supporter. Man, I've hated Trump and everything he stood for from before he was a celebrity. I despise Clinton, too, though.
No. I've been fighting the fight for decades. Longer than people in their twenties have been alive. But that doesn't mean I support the culture of accusation you clearly participate in.
You assume the worst. Oh, he's defending free speech? What awful things do you want to say? The only awful thing I want to say is that your style of attack is gross.
Discussion is important. Discussion allows me to talk about things important to me, like the problem with our prison systems. But what people do here is try to shut others down with accusations, subtle and not-so-subtle, just like you did. That's ugly. That doesn't encourage growth and debate, it shuts it down.
I'll miss it too friendo.Man, I dont know what to say.....
Ive been here since I dont even know anymore but seeing so much people banned just hurts. I came for the gaming side but stayed for OT. Didnt post anymore but I visited and read the OT every day still.
I had so many great times here, hard to believe things have gone this way now. I cant fucking believe it. It feels like GAF has now died or something. So many people gone now. This place was so amazing.
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Funny how it works. Shitposting then running off, acting like a victim. The same stuff people are accusing everyone else of doing.I kind of assumed you were just trying to start shit, but I did wish to give you the benefit of the doubt.
I guess I should have known better. ^^;
So what were all of you talking about since apparently you could never just talk about games?
It's not impossible but even in the short 4 years I've been posting here even I noticed a significant change in OT and the Moderators having an "I'm better than you" attitude and if you disagree with what I'm saying you're automatically a racist, sexist, misogynist. [...]
https://youtu.be/GLG9g7BcjKs
I agree with this guy here. He nailed it on all points but this kind of behavior isn't going to stop anytime soon. I've only seen it grow throughout the internet.
The strength of Anita's arguments do absolutely nothing to justify your assumption that someone who wants to see her debate has nefarious motivations. You continue to deflect.Well, did you even try to think of counter arguments to her points?
Like, I'm trying to show you how the poster was thinking. Just mentally right down 10 points to counter her points. I'm sure you will even understand how bullshit they are.
It's not assumptions when we've all heard the counter arguments and they were all misogynistic about how she doesn't play games, didn't record those clips, and she is just an angry person who maybe missed a fact about a certain game.
Like, I'm not even asking you to do a lot. Just think about the counter arguments.
Well I'm glad you didn't become bitter from that experience. I know I likely would have so all the more respect to you for keeping cool.I don't think I was wrong either (or I wouldn't have said what I did), but I kind of understood some of the response. I didn't kick up a big fuss about it, didn't quit the site for one of the anti-NeoGAF sites out there (though I will be taking a look at some of the new sites currently spawning), and despite being possibly the person with the best one-line response possible in a thread like this, didn't use it.![]()
This is so good.
Any confirmation on when resetera goes up?
No one would tell Polygon when ResetEra is launching, as the site staff is still figuring it out. But early members noted that as of the time of this writing, the forum is gearing up to go live between 9 p.m. and 11 p.m. ET around the time of Nintendos latest Direct.
Nope no echo chamber here guys.The strength of Anita's arguments do absolutely nothing to justify your assumption that someone who wants to see her debate has nefarious motivations. You continue to deflect.
Because before you would just get banned for disagreeing so responses were not needed.Oh yes. Its perfect. Absolutely spot on. And obviously there was no response to it... guess why...