Got the game last night. Incredibly frustrating so far. My friends all are ranked too high for me to hang with them, and when I do I just get killed instantly. When we do my missions it is so easy that they do everything before I even get a chance.
Onky way I can fix that gap is by playing solo, which is stupid because I got the game for co-op and have no desire to play solo.
This is a skill gap, not a level gap. They're just better than you because you're new.