Before the game released, I spent...a bit of time arguing with people about how FROM was seemingly watering it down...and one of the reasons I believed that they were, is actually the thing I ended up loving the most from the game.
The limited respawns. Just lost shittons of souls that I'll never, ever get back. Sure I can replace them, but the enemies aren't going to be there forever. It makes exploration far more intense and rewarding for me. I mean, I died some dumb deaths in DeS and DkS, yoloing it up with the possibility of never truly losing them souls...But now, it's a real goddamn threat.
i though the same thing as you...but then i remembered i can just drop a summon sign and help people as a way to farm souls