Meh.
I can't afford to live in Irvine the way I want, personally. My partner and I looked at homes here... and it's like 700k for a house. We don't have that kind of money!
I'm actually hoping to move to his city, Sugar Land, in TX. Housing there is only 300k, and the salary between there and here for my work is comparable. The safety and niceness of the neighborhoods are pretty much the same, and I want a nice stand alone single home with a large backyard. Can't find that for 300k in Irvine.
TBH I'm actually really sad about leaving this bastion of Taiwanese Americans and good sushi. But, we just can't afford it. I don't see how blaming other people that want to live in this nice place is fair, at all.