Before the game released, there were folks making all sorts of proclamations about how well it would do, how it would beat PlayStation for the month, and put Xbox "back on the map". Microsoft themselves joined in on the hype in a notable way.
Now that it hasn't done ⅔ of that, people are supposed to just forget? Had Spider-Man reviewed worse than expected, then went on to sell worse than expected, do you really think that the folks asking for mercy in here would be singing that same tune? I'm all for giving Starfield a high-five if it really has been a success (particularly on Xbox, because I had no doubt the Steam version would see some form of notable success), but I'm also not going to just pretend there was no narrative prior to the launch because a certain bunch catch feelings.
Had Starfield seen a moderate amount of hype, and wasn't pushed as some genre altering experience, the outcome would have been very different.