Ok, this isn't strictly about dating. I have another fucking cold sore. I've been getting them since I was a kid, probably once a year. This is my 2nd one in a month and a half. This is my first GF (dating for 2 months), I've gone down on her about 5 times. She is a virgin, so it isn't coming from that. It's just bugging me. I don't want to go as crazy making out with it.
Oh yeah, I'm 18 w/o health insurance. If you guys have any advice (maybe point me to another thread?), I would greatly appreciate. Just on my lip btw.. don't worry.. genitals are clean lol.
I hate to break it to you man, but I think everyone gets this every now and then, it's not just you. I had one in December. It's typically caused by stress, so maybe something stressful caused it (well beside inheriting it genetically). That's Herpes Simplex 1. I'm not a Biology major but it's good to know these things.
Two simple things (among several other things) that you should not do while you have a cold sore.
Do not make with your girl at all until it's gone. And
do not go down on her. Why? It's obvious why. Because she's going to get infected. Don't share towels, tooth brushes, etc, don't touch it then proceed to touch your eyes or your genitals.
As to how to get rid of it using home remedies, you can apply an ice cube to it every day. Also put petroleum jelly on it; cold sores can get infected with bacteria. By applying a layer of petroleum jelly to it, you protect it from getting infected, and help it heal faster.
Alternatively if you have some extra cash, you can buy cold sore remedies such as Abreva that are available without needing a perscription. That's typically in the lip balm section of any pharmacy. I've never bought any of that kind of stuff because the home remedies work as if not better than any over the counter drug. The might heal it faster than say using an ice cube but that's it.
Again, do not under any circumstances kiss your girlfriend, or go down on her until it completely heals, unless you want to give her genital herpes.
I don't mean to be so hard on you, but when people are young, they tend to be more reckless (no offense to you), so don't make a dumb mistake; I'm only looking out for you (I'm 23). Also, get yourself some health insurance, especially if you're sexually active. Your health is the most important thing in the world. Since I'm assuming you live in the U.S., apply for Medicaid (yeah, yeah, health insurance for the poor; who cares?) or attend a college health fair. Chances are there will be health insurance people there offering insurance to students either for free or at a huge discount. You can also apply for Medicaid in the said college health fairs.
Any way good luck man.