The current (well, for US subscribers) issue of Edge features a column that points out something in Destiny I now realize I got acclimated to very quickly: the community is pretty great.
The column is about how awful online interactions can be - rage quitting, rage mail, trolling, etc. Then he turns to Destiny:
And then there was Destiny. I rolled my eyes when a Bungie dev at a preview event described how I'd be struggling against a tough foe and would be saved by other players coming over the hill with rocket launchers. I thought it more likely they'd hang back, wait for me to die, then stroll in to mop up and take the spoils for themselves. Imagine my surprise, then, that this has the friendliest online playerbase a big console game has had in years.
In Destiny, I chat cordially with players I've never met. I am revived in boss fights by players many levels higher than me whose time I am clearly wasting. A few nights ago, out patrolling the moon, I saw another player running along a high ledge towards a loot chest. Destiny's chests spawn randomly, and disappear a few seconds after the first opened, though they dish out loot to all-comers in that period. This unknown Guardian saw me, waved, opined back down the way to show how he got up onto the ledge, then waited for me to join him before he opened the chest. I was stunned. Even PvP seems to be fine, perhaps because you can't really complain about anything in such a deliciously broken multiplayer mode. Ragemail, headset abuse, griefing: all have become accepted standards in online games, and particularly in online shooters. In Destiny, the first major online game of the generation, there's none o fit.
This has been my experience as well. The game is remarkably devoid of jerks. The worst I've seen are people dashing through strikes faster than I'd like, but that's pretty low on the griefing scale. Reviving, and getting revived, by randoms is a good feeling, and happens often. Celebrations after public events are cathartic.
I had a moment this morning (I finally got on, woo!) similar to what the article described. I was in the Cosmodrome and saw a chest up on a ledge. My hunter leaped up to it easily, but right before I opened it I saw a level 2 player jumping up and down at the foot of the ledge. He couldn't clear it yet. I thought perhaps he was a new player, who got the game for Christmas, and could only just get online today. This might be his first play session.
I hopped down, ran up the stairs to the right, and walked along the narrow ledge to the chest. I turned to see he'd followed, and opened it. I then grabbed my share. Felt great, and I hope it was a good greeting to the Destiny player base for them.
Back in the Halo days the OT's were often filled with pics and recordings of rage mail, but I only just now realized, that's not the case with Destiny threads. It's really nice to see a much more helpful, friendly atmosphere in the game. I think that has a lot to do with why I enjoy Destiny - I just didn't fully realize it.
That is a good point actually. The push for PVE in Destiny has created a friendlier player base than normal.
On the opposite: Why are all of the Christmas noobs always put on my team in PVP