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It took me while to actually feel comfortable enough to set up dates but I would say fill out your profile, have a few people here critique it, then when you use it, set up dates quickly into the match/conversation. Alot of people like to just chat and it's a waste of time.
I always find it weird when they ask for a date right away...like the ted guy. I didn't even know much about him so I wasn't sure.
I'd say there's nothing wrong with chatting first. otherwise the date will be a waste of time.