Ah, thanks!
So it's not really a game about the story where you are playing to move the plot along, but rather it's a game you play for everything BETWEEN the story; all the fun gameplay doing quests and exploring the world and leveling up your characters, abilities, and magic.
I played some more with that in mind and had a lot of fun! Been running around doing all the quests and gained a bunch of levels in the meantime. I've been using Rem with thunder magic and thunder magic buffing accessories. I like her ability to restore MP from AP so I just roll around and spam everyone to death with thunder
Was using Eight primarily because he's quick and so I can just dodge -> punch counter over and over. Now using Rem, Eight, Jack, Queen, King, Ace as my mains. They all play pretty good. Then there's the mid-tier group I keep leveled but don't use like Machina, and then there are about 4-5 characters I hate playing as so I'm not leveling them (Cinque, Scithe, Nine, forgot who else; anyone whose primary attack is ridiculously slow to come out).
I was finding the pacing weird because they give you all this time between missions and even after you watch the few cutscenes scattered around Suzaku there isn't a whole lot to do in that time. But if you focus on primarily questing and do as many quests as you can, that'll burn through the time really quick in 6 hour chunks, so it makes sense.
In missions do you all use the "AI help" / "multiplayer mode" stuff? I mean it's nice having higher level characters come in and makes it easier, but then only 1 character in your party is getting xp which isn't the best for leveling your group.
Anyhow, game is pretty fun. Definitely more of a gameplay game, less of a traditional plot-driven rpg. I guess I'm ok with that, especially since all these stories with "XIII" in them seem to be pretty iffy.