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[Pallas]

I think you’re kind of missing out, drinking can be nice in moderation and a nice buzz is really relaxing, especially after a stressful day or week. It’s also a great social activity, you just have to be responsible and not over do it or do it too much everyday.

It’s ok to enjoy every once in a while, but more respect to you if you don’t want to drink. Never let anyone force you into it.

 

[Leopold]

Keep it this way.

 

[fran.fernandez]

I start drinking at 31. Lol

 

[Outlier]

From personal experience OP, I can tell you that drinking has never ENDED well for me.

Even if I had some fun, when the fun was over the suffering came.

I never made friends from drinking, only learned that it blurred my judgements, when interacting with others.

Honestly it's only useful if you want to FEEL like you're distancing yourself from reality.

It's up to you, but It's not worth it.

 

[Outlier]

Naw. You're not missing much.

I find it weird that alcohol is so important to society. We shit on drug users and then go hang out in beer dens? Heh.

I don't think society think getting drunk is important. The idea is that it allows people to let loose and relieve stress.
If you ask me most people get drunk to temporarily push their problems out of their minds. That's a problem, but the bigger problem is the TEMPORARY part. Since the effect wears off, the bad thoughts and feelings return, therefore the urge to get a drink comes back. Then, it becomes a habit and destroy them from the inside-out.

We socially shame use of other drugs, because they tend to have more pronounced effects and results, at a faster rate.

 

[Horatius]

it's humanity's favourite narcotic vice for a reason, alcohol rules

 

[DrAspirino]

Im just teasing you....Drink what you want!

But the correct recomendations would be:

Meat (assuming beef): Cabernet Sauvignon, Malbec, Syrah, Tempranillo (Rioja)
Pasta: Depends on the dish. If tomato based, Barolo, Barbaresco, Chianti Classico, or Barbera (probably in that order).
Fish: Sauvigon Blanc is a good choice, but so is Alberino, Chablis, and certain Chardonnays (in which Chablis is a variation)
Chicken: I like your camenere, but again, depends on the preparation. Have a cream sauce? Go Sav. Blanc...Something heavier like tomato, the carmenere would be nice. Can even go Pinot Noir, Resling,

Excellent advice, Raven. I just named the ones that I have tried from my local supermarket (I'm from Chile BTW), but I'll try to look up for the ones you recommended on the imported section of my "fancy" supermarket (because I haven't seen tempranillo, alberino or Chablis on my local supermarket).

Also, I'm kind of a n00b to combining dishes with different vines of wine, since I could only know from what I've tried. Lol. Again, thanks for the advice.

 

[isual]

i am not a big drinker or smoker; i never really buy those things at all. i suppose sugar and rice and a good big meal are far better for me.

 

[Porcile]

Cocktails are fun. I will never understand beer though, all my worst post-alcohol experiences were because of beer. That shit actively tries to force itself out your body.

 

[Lanrutcon]

I don't think society think getting drunk is important. The idea is that it allows people to let loose and relieve stress.
If you ask me most people get drunk to temporarily push their problems out of their minds. That's a problem, but the bigger problem is the TEMPORARY part. Since the effect wears off, the bad thoughts and feelings return, therefore the urge to get a drink comes back. Then, it becomes a habit and destroy them from the inside-out.

We socially shame use of other drugs, because they tend to have more pronounced effects and results, at a faster rate.

Isn't alcoholism much, muuuuuch more widespread and thus the actual net impact on society is far greater than any drug? I'm pretty sure the statistics on road accidents, domestic abuse, etc have a clear winner in the substance abuse category.

 

[Raven117]

Excellent advice, Raven. I just named the ones that I have tried from my local supermarket (I'm from Chile BTW), but I'll try to look up for the ones you recommended on the imported section of my "fancy" supermarket (because I haven't seen tempranillo, alberino or Chablis on my local supermarket).

Also, I'm kind of a n00b to combining dishes with different vines of wine, since I could only know from what I've tried. Lol. Again, thanks for the advice.

Im just playing around! Ah! If you are from Chile, then Cabernet, maybe some chardonnay (higher altitude) and Sav Blanc should be your go to's if you want to keep it local. You can probably pick up some Uruguay Tanat (its a BIG red), and some Argentinan Malbec for cheaper as well). If you want to go a little more cutting edge, some South American Cabernet Franc is super cool in my book.

Tempranillo and Alberino are both Spanish varietals. In the states, IMO, if I had $20 bucks to spend, Im heading to Spain for the value. Chablis is a razor sharp mineral driven chardonnay from the Burgundy region of France (called Chablis...French wines are named after the Place...not the grape).

In the end, drink what you like and what tastes good to you! Its just booze.

Good luck on your wind drinking journey!

 

[Outlier]

Isn't alcoholism much, muuuuuch more widespread and thus the actual net impact on society is far greater than any drug? I'm pretty sure the statistics on road accidents, domestic abuse, etc have a clear winner in the substance abuse category.

I didn't mean that alcoholism doesn't effect most people. What i meant was that i don't think most believe getting drunk is something that must be apart of their lives. They just fall into it's trappings.

 

[JCK75]

Personally I enjoy a beer or two every now and then, maybe 2-3 nights a week I'll have a nice Old Fashioned with some really good Bourbon..
if that's how you intend to do it then yes I believe you are missing out..
but too many people can't drink like that.. I don't like getting drunk and I'll never get drunk again in my life (I'm a friendly drunk it's not an actual issue of me.. just I don't like what happens the next day)

 

[ÆMNE22A!C]

You're missing out

It's not an easy question to answer though. It really depends on what your personality deems nice regarding consciousness altering substances and how it'll cope with abstinence if realizing when under influence is better. Better meaning less bad relative to a sober state

Try it. Experiment. But be sure to don't turn a blind eye to it's consequences.

I like alchohol. I prefer benzodiazepines and ambien. Having (ab)used those for a better part of a decade I'm more or less freed form it's spell (not really it keeps calling me as does alchohol)

At least my short term memory is accessible again

Enjoy, try, live! But be smart about your subconscious regarding use!

 

[Lanrutcon]

I didn't mean that alcoholism doesn't effect most people. What i meant was that i don't think most believe getting drunk is something that must be apart of their lives. They just fall into it's trappings.

Fair enough. I do think certain cultures absolutely make getting drunk out to be something normal to everyday life though.

 

[lillars]

It can be fun, but keep it in check. There's a fine line between getting a buzz and getting sick where you feel like shit the next day. Keeping hydrated can help avoid that. Some people can't control it, and if you think you might be one of those then I'd approach it with caution.

 

[dezzy8]

I've made this thread every couple of years on GAF (and maybe the purple place? I forget) and I'm still pretty adamant about not drinking. I feel like I'm missing out on a rich culture, especially since one of my main writing projects is about a bar. I only made it this far because I'm pretty sure alcoholism runs in my family. I also don't really think it's worth the expense and health effects.

What do y'all think?

You’re not missing anything. If you’ve never drank alcohol don’t start now. Weed in the other hand. I’d encourage.

 

[8bitpill]

Honestly, you're not really missing out on much. It was fun in my 20's. I met my now wife when we were 23 and we were out at the bar almost every night and grew close together while being out at a bar. There are a lot of good memories attached to drinking nd being out at a bar, but it pretty much came to a halt in our late 20's and we both slowed down to the point where we maybe have a drink or two once a month. It's like maybe once a year where I will go all out and drink more then I should, and I always hate myself once that hang over kicks in and being 38, that drags on for a day or two even with heavy hydrating and eating foods that will help with leveling you out.

If you haven't started, don't. It's a vice if you can't control yourself.

One thing you learn as you get older is "everything in moderation". Drinking should always be treated like a treat if you do part take. Excessive drinking is where it will break you.

 

[Meowzers]

Currently getting sloshed on rum and beer whilst trying to make up to my girlfriend over messenger that I'll never get drunk again comparing her to my ex girlfriend. It's not worth it at times.

Moderation.

 

[paparazzo]

I've made this thread every couple of years on GAF (and maybe the purple place? I forget) and I'm still pretty adamant about not drinking.

Weird thing to obsess over. Maybe try a glass and see what you think?

 

[Winter John]

Fair enough. One of the decent landlords so. Plenty aren't.

Here it is rife. It's why I asked politely.

I could never be a bar landlord where I live. People go to get drunk and the bar staff put up with awful shit, not for fun but for profit. It's a business. I've seen firsthand what happens. Perhaps your clientele only have 1 or 2 and go.

People come here. They have a good time and we do our best to make sure they leave happy. I don't know where you live, but here we have real strict laws about serving alcohol to anyone who is visibly intoxicated.

 

[SentientStone]

I do enjoy alcohol, but I try not to go overboard.
If there were no health effects, I would drink it more.

I am not into it enough to care about what is fine wine and what is not though.
I just like whatever tastes good and gives me some nice warm feels like a chick. Teehee.

 

[Ionian]

People come here. They have a good time and we do our best to make sure they leave happy. I don't know where you live, but here we have real strict laws about serving alcohol to anyone who is visibly intoxicated.

Ireland, capital centre. Depends on the bar obviously as if it's in the city centre and it's a weekend night with music blaring and the bar is crammed with people it must be hard to spot, was just curious.

If been refused a few times back in the day but I'd nearly have to be falling over if the pub is busy. Gone are those days though, being young and wild and doing stupid shit like mixing drinks and overdoing it.

 

[NinjaBoiX]

I mean yes. I’d say you’re missing out, purely by not experiencing something that you could without any real downsides. Just try it, see what you think. You’re not going to turn into an alcoholic overnight, that’s not how it works.

Having said that, I totally understand your reasons for wanting to abstain.

So, yes, you’re missing out.

But I get it, you do you.

 

[poodaddy]

Alcohol, or my tendency to abuse it I should say, damn near ruined my life, one of my careers, my marriage, and my health. I've taken time off of it in the past to reapproach alcohol and how I imbibe. These days, I have a pretty healthy relationship with alcohol. I enjoy a drink or two every now and then, and I go for taste and quality above all.

Over all, I'd say if you don't have any tendency to try it, then don't. That being said, there is a real joy to experiencing a great dry red, a strong stout, a perfectly aged scotch, or an expertly mixed cocktail. You're not missing much if you don't care, but if you can appreciate these things responsibly, then I think they're a valuable addition to a balanced life.

 

[Winter John]

Ireland, capital centre. Depends on the bar obviously as if it's in the city centre and it's a weekend night with music blaring and the bar is crammed with people it must be hard to spot, was just curious.

If been refused a few times back in the day but I'd nearly have to be falling over if the pub is busy. Gone are those days though, being young and wild and doing stupid shit like mixing drinks and overdoing it.

I stayed in Dublin for a couple months back in the early 90s. Had a real good time. Ended up dating some girl from uh Wicklow? It was something like that. One night I was at her place and the phone went. It was her old man calling to make sure I behaved myself around her. He put the fear of God in me. Guy sounded like he pulled tractors with his teeth and she had a bunch of brothers too so I was real careful not to upset her.

 

[Ionian]

I stayed in Dublin for a couple months back in the early 90s. Had a real good time. Ended up dating some girl from uh Wicklow? It was something like that. One night I was at her place and the phone went. It was her old man calling to make sure I behaved myself around her. He put the fear of God in me. Guy sounded like he pulled tractors with his teeth and she had a bunch of brothers too so I was real careful not to upset her.

Haha, that's hilarious sounds like a daddys girl alright! Wicklow would be posh enough, pretty rich county just south of Dublin. Have had that happen to me as well more than once, bit of a boner-killer but generally it's grand after a few more beers. She must have been a young one ya dirty dog!

 

[BeforeU]

Sounds like its all a you problem and not an alcohol problem, summers day out in the back garden.. cold beer or a fucking glass of milk?? sounds like all the people in here so against it have no fucking self control

This.

 

[paolo11]

You are not missing out. Keep it up.

 

[Aenima]

At your age you probably not missing out, and its better to remain as u are. If you manage to learn to enjoy a nice glass of red wine, in moderation its actually heathy and good for ur heart.

I started getting drunk with friends during weekends since i was 14 or 15. There was no drinking age here. And the best and most funny stories i have of my life are always when me or some of my friends was wasted. When i was around 22 i was already tired of getting wasted and only drunk in moderation untill eventually stoped drinking any alcohol. At my age now i dont feel im missing anything for not drinkimg alcohol. My grandpa is 96 years old and still drinks his daily glass of red wine during his meals.