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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!
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I'm presuming you're not out (or not ready to yet?)?That sounds soooo awesomeI envy you, celebrate freedom my friend
Thanks man. I'm looking forward to it, maybe meet a few hot guys while at the bars.
that's... the opposite of what I've heard? plus, I used to be super skinny - it was really easy for me to gain weight (muscle mass), and I haven't really lost any of it since
Yeah i'm out but I wish my coming out was like that and not slow and awkward heh
Naked Snake
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omg I just had the most amazing first date ever, and what a surprise it was; I almost didn't know anything about the guy before, and he turned out to be as perfect as they get.
I can't believe it
I can't believe it
omg I just had the most amazing first date ever, and what a surprise it was; I almost didn't know anything about the guy before, and he turned out to be as perfect as they get.
I can't believe it
Marry him
Naked Snake
Member
He's definitely boyfriend material. I feel so different, in a good way, right now. I hope I will continue to feel this way tomorrow when I wake up...
#gamechanger
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
The universe got you a birthday present, it just took a few days to arrive.
I made a kid my boyfriend in the second date, how foolish.... We were together 1 year and one month he's probably the love of my life and the only person outside my family I've ever cared for. Don't be afraid to "rush" things if everything goes alright
Naked Snake
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I love this universe. I hope it gets you a nice birthday present soon
I made a kid my boyfriend in the second date, how foolish.... We were together 1 year and one month he's probably the love of my life and the only person outside my family I've ever cared for. Don't be afraid to "rush" things if everything goes alright
As much as I might like not to rush things, I can't help myself when I like someone. I also made a kid my boyfriend on the second date, and we were together for three years.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Welcome back. I'm sorry you got HIV. How are you doing?
p_xavier
Authorized Fister
You don't have to be sorry, it's life I guess. To be honest, not that good. The thing is I wanted to have friends so much, that finally I'm back at square one but with HIV and less money. That's how I feel. At least now I'm ok being a geek.
My reaction as well, maybe we are losing something in translation here.
p_xavier
Authorized Fister
No, it's because people found me a pathetic loser, even if I was kinda ok with my life. I wanted to prove them wrong since I'm competitive. The thing is I had a big 30yo life crisis, and I have still the same death anxiety that I had, but there's not much to do with that. I'm currently building myself a secondary residence bordering a lake, hopefully I'll find some tranquility there.
At least straight people have some social constructs that they need to follow, it's kinda some sort of relief (getting married, getting a suburb house, raising kids). I just don't know what to do
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
oh, I guess I should stop being so concerned about my height. o__o
oh, I guess I should stop being so concerned about my height. o__o
Austin <3
It's not that you're competitive (I mean, even if you are, that's not the reason). Is that you placed all of your self worth on the hands of other people. It doesn't matter if anyone thinks you're a pathetic loser (assuming you were told that repeatedly or something) if you're okay with your own life. Being desperate for approval never leads to anything positive.No, it's because people found me a pathetic loser, even if I was kinda ok with my life. I wanted to prove them wrong since I'm competitive. The thing is I had a big 30yo life crisis, and I have still the same death anxiety that I had, but there's not much to do with that. I'm currently building myself a secondary residence bordering a lake, hopefully I'll find some tranquility there.
At least straight people have some social constructs that they need to follow, it's kinda some sort of relief (getting married, getting a suburb house, raising kids). I just don't know what to do
Also, I like that I don't have to follow any social construct
Especially since I recently attended the wedding of a cousin.Naked Snake
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My bf turned 18 a week or so after we became a couple (so officially he was 17, hence "a kid", although the age of consent here is 16 I believe). I was 24.
Coincidentally I had a date with an 18 year old today! No not the guy I was swooning over above, another one. Umm, yes I had two dates almost back to back today, lol.
I'm not proud of meeting up with the 18 year of today... I'm almost twice his age! And I did feel awkward when I first met him (he came over)... I was thinking "this is a mistake" and I kept my distance while talking to him for like half an hour, just hoping it'd somehow end with him leaving without us doing anything... but then he took the initiative and it felt right. We spent a very nice couple of hours making out and cuddling, and
oral
Guy #2, although only 2 years older at 20, was a world of difference in maturity, and hence hotness. But I know age didn't have that much to do with it in this case.
Hahaha ok ok a man, a man, it sounds cuter that way
he was underage at the time, please don't ban me
I'm older than you? Grrr. Glad you had a great date though.
No, it's because people found me a pathetic loser, even if I was kinda ok with my life. I wanted to prove them wrong since I'm competitive. The thing is I had a big 30yo life crisis, and I have still the same death anxiety that I had, but there's not much to do with that. I'm currently building myself a secondary residence bordering a lake, hopefully I'll find some tranquility there.
At least straight people have some social constructs that they need to follow, it's kinda some sort of relief (getting married, getting a suburb house, raising kids). I just don't know what to do
Straight people get frustrated with those social construct all the time too, many get really anxious if they start getting close to their 40s and have none of that. Your problem lies elsewhere, I don't remember if you were getting some professional help? and isolating yourself might not be the best idea though, I mean if that is your plan in your new house.
My 30s "crisis" is taking odd turns actually, I'm not afraid of death or getting old, I do want my death to be in a reaaally long time though, that for sure changed, but I'm kind of depressed about the missed years of my youth that I cannot get back, I wish I could be seventeen and get to go home to some old guy who is clearly not interested yet we fool around and he dumps my in my house to never hear from him again
I am joking here Snake
oh, I guess I should stop being so concerned about my height. o__o
I don't think that's Austin's boyfriend. His BF is Tyler Wolf.
You're as old the dinosaurs in the ground turned to oil, Dead Man. *runs*
Jeffery is back? Oh god this thread is gonna turn into he-man women haters, huh?
You're as old the dinosaurs in the ground turned to oil, Dead Man. *runs*
Jeffery is back? Oh god this thread is gonna turn into he-man women haters, huh?
Lets all use female avatars
metalslimer
Member
So after a year of hesitancy I finally came out to one of my best friends. It was a struggle, but it ended up going really well. Just needed to vent this somewhere
p_xavier
Authorized Fister
You're as old the dinosaurs in the ground turned to oil, Dead Man. *runs*
Jeffery is back? Oh god this thread is gonna turn into he-man women haters, huh?
No worries, I was just passing by, not staying. *sigh*
i_am_ben
running_here_and_there
congratulations how did they all take it?
metalslimer
Member
Well this was only one person, but it went really well. Pretty much had a normal day afterword. It was actually kind of anticlimactic lol.
Naked Snake
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So now that they finally got around to approving change of email addresses on NeoGAF, I can post again - hurrah!
OMG you're still here, long time, welcome back!
OMG you're still here, long time, welcome back!
And you're still here! How are you?
Thank you kindly - I've been lurking for a long, LONG time.
It usually is.
We live in a strange world, or maybe Hollywood has been lying to us all these years.
Which reminded me of Bryan Safi's hilarious guide to coming out.
Aeriscloud
Banned
Lets all use female avatars
I already am.
Naked Snake
Member
And you're still here! How are you?
Thank you kindly - I've been lurking for a long, LONG time.
Overall I haven't been good for a long time, but the days and weeks are a series of ups and downs, and generally I like to think the trend of late is moving towards improvement.
How are you? Still in UK?
Aw, I'm sorry to hear that but really glad it sounds like things are on the up! BIG HUGS.
Things are pretty good thanks - I'm still in the UK but I've been living in London for about 5 years now, really enjoying it.
Naked Snake
Member
Aw, I'm sorry to hear that but really glad it sounds like things are on the up! BIG HUGS.
Things are pretty good thanks - I'm still in the UK but I've been living in London for about 5 years now, really enjoying it.
Glad to hear you're doing well
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Suerte <3 My original gaf crush!
Soon the conversations will be about puree and stylish adult diapers.
I'm SURE Andrew Christian will do an adult diaper range, if one doesn't exist already.
IKR. Disturbing.
MAY need to purge that thought and watch the RuPaul's Drag Race mini challenge where they matched models wearing the same pair. Happy thoughts.
or visit AC tumblr.
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