I'll explain why if you can keep it civil.
Firstly the controller, I have always found the PS controller totally inferior, the stick placement, the size and the build quality. The Xbox controller has bee continually refined with no gimmicks like Sixaxis basically from the original Xbox S controller, I'm incredibly comfortable with it.
My games library carrying forward, not every game but I can put a lot of my 360 games into my 360, Xbox One, Xbox One X and Xbox Series X and even my digital versions in Series S and they work, I put my Killzone disc into PS5, nothing. Not only do they work but they have been updated sometimes several times FOR FREE. Red Dead Redemption in 4k is still stunning, even none updated games like GTA IV now run so much better than when released, GTA IV on PS? The likes of Oblivion and Fallout New Vegas are still played regularly in my house.
So my games library both digital and disc based has been better served by Microsoft and it's all been for free.
Games. Unlike some people Sony's output since Killzone Shadow Fall has been of little interest to me personally, I'm into online shooters and arcade racers. Sony release a lot of third person story driven games that I don't find overly interesting and for that sort of thing I have RDR2 or Witcher 3 if I do want to play that sort of thing. Forza Horizon, Gears and Halo are franchises I don't want to be without.
After having all PS systems from launch previously the PS5 is the first one I feel I don't need yet, I played Demons Souls a decade ago and it's not my thing, I can get Spiderman on my PS4 Pro and there isn't anything on the horizon that makes me want one coming. If they bring back Killzone or Resistance I'd bite straight away but they seem now to have a formula and they are sticking to it as it sells games, it's just not for me personally.
So those are some reasons why, all just my personal opinion but you wanted an explanation.