Honestly I kind of respect them in a perverse way. They are sticking with their "team" regardless. Not to pick on you but you seem like you know better yet you STILL support the party.
I don't support the party in any meaningful way right now. I have voted for candidates based on issues in the last two elections, but most of my local republican representatives don't have a realistic democratic opponent.
Any informed, fair and objective person would say the current crop of Dems are better than the GOP alternative right now regardless of their flaws. If you look at the current state of politics, the Dems are CLEARLY "the lesser of two evils" even if you don't agree with them 100%. Therefore, folks like
YOU are part of them problem IMO
Without a doubt, Democrats are much more fair-minded and intelligent as of right now. They are the lesser of two evils in most ways, in fact, but honestly for me, and it would probably sound very strange to someone with an opposing or apathetic viewpoint, restricting abortion is one of my highest priorities.
You know, it's been very interesting reading your posts, since I come from a very Conservative (with a big C) background. 8 years ago or so I was almost unrecognizable to what I am today. Part of my move to be liberal as all hell was definitely finding out more actual information, but I think a larger part of it was realizing that the Republican party (and Conservatives) really isn't necessarily what it purports to be. I think you're clinging to a few general ideas like "fiscal sanity" that I'm not sure you'll find a lot of democrats against, and you especially won't find a ton of (informed) liberals to be against, either. There was a good chunk of time where I was like you and proclaimed myself to be fiscally conservative, but socially liberal. At one point, though, I just dropped all pretense when I realized being a liberal doesn't mean I have to be fiscally insane or something. I mean the mere fact that you would even entertain the idea of civil unions for polygamists puts you WAY outside the mainstream of conservatives, even socially, and I give you a lot of props for it.
I am fiscally liberal. "Fiscal sanity" is not in any way related to any position or platform currently occupied by any party. It exists (unfortunately) only within the realms of my mind and anyone reading these posts) Higher taxes, slashed military, etc. It is certainly not at all being offered by the GOP and hardly anyone with a strong voice in the Democratic party, either.
Of course, I did say civil unions and not marriage. People want to focus on the damn words and not the meanings. Let Christians/Jews/Muslims/Non-Denoms/etc. have their marriages, the government should refer to all religious ceremonies that unite two people as civil unions. Similarly, two atheists who wish to unite in a courthouse will also have civil unions. Churches can and still would refer to them as marriages, while gays (and asexual people who solely wish to reap the economical and societal benefits) could get their official, state-recognized civil union as well, whether a church wants to perform it or they do it in a courthouse. Either way, to the government it is all civil and it is a union.
That would definitely push me away from people who absolutely need to have it called a "marriage" to sleep well at night, but it would in essence make everyone equal.
I totally respect it on the moral level.
And if such legislation is complimented by a strong solution to the problem of unwanted babies, I would even be okay with it on the practical level (not support it, but I wouldn't see a problem to live in such society either).
And yes, it is a staggeringly difficult problem, and no, I have no idea how solve it.
I know that paying single mothers has long been a demonized thing by right-wingers, but I would not be opposed to giving some sort of incentive to a woman who gives a child up for adoption. I don't know what the logistics would be, and if it would even be feasible, but no amount of money can replace a child that has been aborted for capricious reasons. It is like healthcare. How can people be against true universal healthcare? How is money more important than saving a life, providing treatment for the poor, old, and otherwise needy? That is some cold-hearted greed right there and I can say with certainty that Jesus would be disgusted to see us put our pocketbooks ahead of our duty to care for those around us. After all, it wasn't for the gay sex and lasciviousness that Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed, despite what some might take from the Bible account in Genesis.
further digression - it was that set of verses and context that actually woke me up to pushing for a better healthcare system, driven by empathy, compassion and duty, rather than greed and paranoia about having to pay for some uninsured person's life-saving surgery (GASP!!! the horror! let em die, that will show em!)