It can take a while to get used to sexting. Did for me anyway. My first time doing it was horrendous because not only was I awkward and shy about what I was saying, but the guy I was dating at the time pretty much said that he wanted to rape me. I ended the sexting right there because it got too uncomfortable for me. Stopped dating not long after that. It wouldn't have lasted long anyway as I found out that he just used people for sex and dropped people very quickly when "new meat" came along.
Second time was good though. Went on for a while, then he invited me over (he lived not too far from me). Led to very good sex.
As far as I know, some people do like 'rape play' but if what he was saying was flat-out rape, yeah, I don't blame for you wanting to get out. I can't imagine that kind of relationship being healthy whatsoever, constantly having to look over your shoulder in case, yeah, you know. Good job you bailed on him before it got too serious.
As for getting used to it, I'm sure it will come in time. It's just I'm far more comfortable actually engaging in the act rather than simply describing it. I didn't know if I was being too vague with what I was saying or whether I was heading towards some sort of Fifty Shades spin-off. I'd obviously much rather be there with her and do it. Ah, well, seeing her again on Saturday night and all day Sunday.
You do seem to have a fairly skewed, misogynistic outlook on relationships at times.
How do you know there's not a reason for that? For all you know, I may have been fucked over in the past and, as a defense, I myself am putting on some sort of facade to mask the hurt and make myself seem like a dick so I don't get hurt again. I wouldn't say its misogynistic, though, and I'm sorry if it comes across that way. I don't condone cheating in any way, having been there, done that on both sides.
I'm just going to shut up, I sound like a dick when I can't explain myself properly :/