My best relationships where the ones where we could talk no matter what, even if we were angry at each other so there was never room for huge misunderstandings to develop. I can understand that part.
Not looking forward to hating my partner's guts but I guess it's inevitable if you stay together long enough.
Is there any part of the coupling process that isn't exhausting? Dating, living together, marriage, children.
Not to become a clichéd cunt, but anything worth having in life takes effort. You can't walk into a perfect relationship nor will you enter a relationship that never has it low points. There will be moments of stress that wear you down, but how you handle them is entirely up to you and how much you value the relationship.
Wedding planning is probably easy for some, I just don't like all the bullshit that comes attached. Cunts literally licking their lips over how much they intend to gouge us when they find out we're getting married, all the stupid shit that makes no sense to me like having a hundred fucking invitation templates and then there's shit like cake tasting and seating arrangements.
I'm pretty straight talking for the most part, so when I have to sit and listen to shit about people not getting on with each other and having to make sure they aren't seated together, my mind immediately goes to fuck the cunts who don't get along, just invite the ones that do so we don't have to sit down and spend hours talking about where the fuck every miserable cunt coming for a free meal is going to sit. This isn't supposed to be about making sure they have a good day, fuck those cunts, but it's not that simple...
I need to stop talking about this wedding in here. I keep going off.
Cos I'm a tool who goes against his own best instincts. I deleted her number and facebook soon after the breakup. After a few months she friend requested me again and I thought "what's the worst that could happen". In fairness we never really talked anyway until she started getting very friendly again recently. It's not a "fuck my life" situation. I'm pretty much over it, just something I found odd.
She's feeling lonely and probably remembering how well you treated her in comparison to how she's being treated now (assuming you weren't a cunt). You should block her, don't be weak willed or come up with stupid excuses.
You need to block her to bring about finality with the relationship and leave it in the past. You're moving on, there's no need for connections to the past.
Regarding my earlier posts, for those that remember.
I ended up in the same position again, said something I shouldn't have, the response was not what was expected and now shit is way more complex than it was in the first place.
And I feel shit because I compromised my values, because I am weak, and what happened afterwards.
Quality vague posting bro.
