Trick Attack; ideally you have a Warrior giving the Slashing Debuff since it's a win/win for individual DPS. Besides that, Goad for the TP starved classes (aka, just Goad the DRK they'll probably need it) and the aggro-control stuff is really nice for some min-max stuff or just peace of mind for letting everyone do all-in openers.
Now I'm noticing I'm probably a terrible NIN.
Never bothered with Goad or the hate abilities (no one never complained or asked me to do it tbh).
I always keep TA, debuff etc etc on check though. Also, have yet to do any Alex rubn, I guess that stuff is more useful there.